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Meaning Of RSVP On Invitations by IslaJenmi(f): 6:16pm On Nov 02, 2012
What Does RSVP Mean When You See it on an Invitation? hehehe i caught y'all on this one, most people would be saying to themselves rice stew very plenty abi? well you are wrong RSVP means nothing like it..Let's Clear Up the Confusion Over the Phrase "RSVP"..you can thank me later....

This tip should help hosts and guests alike, because there seems to be a lot of confusion about the meaning of the term RSVP and what guests should do if they receive a request for them to RSVP.
I hear more and more often, and have found in my personal experience, that hosts often do not receive receive responses to their invitations. Therefore, hosts can't tell how many guests plan to attend their parties, even if an RSVP is clearly requested. This could mean either one of two things. First it could mean that rudeness is a growing trend in our society. Or, as I would prefer to believe, people no longer understand what the term means. Assuming the best, and that the reason guests don't RSVP to an invitation is a case of ignorance, not rudeness, I will clarify this for the record.

What RSVP Means
The term RSVP comes from the French expression "répondez s'il vous plaît", meaning "please respond". If RSVP is written on an invitation it means the invited guest must tell the host whether or not they plan to attend the party. It does not mean to respond only if you're coming, and it does not mean respond only if you're not coming (the expression "regrets only" is reserved for that instance). It means the host needs a definite head count for the planned event, and needs it by the date specified on the invitation.

Why It's Inconsiderate Not to RSVP
An incomplete list of respondents can cause numerous problems for a host including difficulty in planning food quantities, issues relating to minimum guarantees with catering halls, uncertainty over the number of party favors and difficulties in planning appropriate seating, among other things.
So the next time you see RSVP on an invitation you receive, please call your host and respond promptly.

So what are you waiting for...THANK ME NOW....LOL

http://islamiyyahconsultancyservices..com/2012/11/what-does-rsvp-mean-when-you-see-it-on.html

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Re: Meaning Of RSVP On Invitations by mcevans1(m): 2:14pm On Nov 05, 2012
Rice and Stew Very Plenty

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Re: Meaning Of RSVP On Invitations by omoajiri(m): 2:15pm On Nov 05, 2012
Rice stew very plenty
Re: Meaning Of RSVP On Invitations by yuzedo: 2:15pm On Nov 05, 2012
WRONG!
Robin Shakazulu Van Persie! angry

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Re: Meaning Of RSVP On Invitations by megxo(m): 2:15pm On Nov 05, 2012
na wa wo.....errytin de make front page

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Re: Meaning Of RSVP On Invitations by mcevans1(m): 2:16pm On Nov 05, 2012
maka l: Arrant rubbish.....
Remove dis shit from front page abeg...
First to comment....
Yaaaayyyyy

Me wey comment first no make noise. Abeg park well!

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Re: Meaning Of RSVP On Invitations by overboard(m): 2:16pm On Nov 05, 2012
It's actually French "répondez s'il vous plaît". OP got it!
N.B.: note bien; note well.

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Re: Meaning Of RSVP On Invitations by megxo(m): 2:16pm On Nov 05, 2012
omoajiri: 1
three tongue
Re: Meaning Of RSVP On Invitations by marabout(m): 2:16pm On Nov 05, 2012
Isla Jenmi: What Does RSVP Mean When You See it on an Invitation? hehehe i caught y'all on this one, most people would be saying to themselves rice stew very plenty abi? well you are wrong RSVP means nothing like it..Let's Clear Up the Confusion Over the Phrase "RSVP"..you can thank me later....

This tip should help hosts and guests alike, because there seems to be a lot of confusion about the meaning of the term RSVP and what guests should do if they receive a request for them to RSVP.
I hear more and more often, and have found in my personal experience, that hosts often do not receive receive responses to their invitations. Therefore, hosts can't tell how many guests plan to attend their parties, even if an RSVP is clearly requested. This could mean either one of two things. First it could mean that rudeness is a growing trend in our society. Or, as I would prefer to believe, people no longer understand what the term means. Assuming the best, and that the reason guests don't RSVP to an invitation is a case of ignorance, not rudeness, I will clarify this for the record.
What RSVP Means
The term RSVP comes from the French expression "répondez s'il vous plaît", meaning "please respond". If RSVP is written on an invitation it means the invited guest must tell the host whether or not they plan to attend the party. It does not mean to respond only if you're coming, and it does not mean respond only if you're not coming (the expression "regrets only" is reserved for that instance). It means the host needs a definite head count for the planned event, and needs it by the date specified on the invitation.

Why It's Inconsiderate Not to RSVP
An incomplete list of respondents can cause numerous problems for a host including difficulty in planning food quantities, issues relating to minimum guarantees with catering halls, uncertainty over the number of party favors and difficulties in planning appropriate seating, among other things.
So the next time you see RSVP on an invitation you receive, please call your host and respond promptly.

So what are you waiting for...THANK ME NOW....LOL

http://islamiyyahconsultancyservices..com/2012/11/what-does-rsvp-mean-when-you-see-it-on.html



Most Africans are not used to the idea of having to tell your host if you will come or how many of you are coming. If you call a party, be ready to feed the whole town! No be you get money to throway.
Even some people who write RSVP on their invitation cards don't even know what it means!

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Re: Meaning Of RSVP On Invitations by nikkyshyne(f): 2:17pm On Nov 05, 2012
Thank you for wetin I know before? Mtschew

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Re: Meaning Of RSVP On Invitations by Nobody: 2:17pm On Nov 05, 2012
I know this already, and it's being misused in naija.
Re: Meaning Of RSVP On Invitations by stacomaster(m): 2:17pm On Nov 05, 2012
RICE STEW VERY PLENTY
Re: Meaning Of RSVP On Invitations by NaijaNaWaa: 2:17pm On Nov 05, 2012
In Naija, RSVP is just an ego tripping addition to the IV. As in, show off all the important persons that you know.

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Re: Meaning Of RSVP On Invitations by chidyke77(m): 2:17pm On Nov 05, 2012
No one is interested in all those explaination,i either honour the invitation or nt.

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Re: Meaning Of RSVP On Invitations by nex(m): 2:17pm On Nov 05, 2012
Look ma, it made the front page!
Re: Meaning Of RSVP On Invitations by megxo(m): 2:17pm On Nov 05, 2012
mc~evans:


Me wey comment first no make noise. Abeg park well!
so u don win GOLD shey grin grin grin grin grin
Re: Meaning Of RSVP On Invitations by Frankiedu(m): 2:18pm On Nov 05, 2012
wink In skul i learnt it meant "reply if u pls.";-)
Re: Meaning Of RSVP On Invitations by mcevans1(m): 2:18pm On Nov 05, 2012
megxo: so u don win GOLD shey grin grin grin grin grin

I suppose flog u sef grin
Re: Meaning Of RSVP On Invitations by eikeem(m): 2:19pm On Nov 05, 2012
And I ask again: is there anybody that determines what appears on the front page?
I'm beginning to think that the front page is on 'auto select' mode.

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Re: Meaning Of RSVP On Invitations by ihebrooke(m): 2:19pm On Nov 05, 2012
nice one, but the average Nigerian does not need an invitation before coming to a ceremony.
As long as they are eating, dancing or partying, he walks in eats, drinks and walks away, having no idea of what they are celebrating nor who is celebrating.

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Re: Meaning Of RSVP On Invitations by k00lxpert(m): 2:19pm On Nov 05, 2012
from the French phrase- répondez s'il vous plaît, meaning ''Please respond''

next topic pls

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Re: Meaning Of RSVP On Invitations by wonderiyke(m): 2:19pm On Nov 05, 2012
Well done @OP. The level of ignorance in our society is staggering. Rain checks like this is needed from time to time.
Re: Meaning Of RSVP On Invitations by Nobody: 2:24pm On Nov 05, 2012
Thank you very much dearie, I am educated
Re: Meaning Of RSVP On Invitations by 1forall: 2:28pm On Nov 05, 2012
wonderiyke: Well done @OP. The level of ignorance in our society is staggering. Rain checks like this is needed from time to time.

Now ain't that a paradox cheesy

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Re: Meaning Of RSVP On Invitations by Okijajuju1(m): 2:29pm On Nov 05, 2012
Hmmm... Some people use it as a VIP kinda thing.. So if you are inviting me, you will write.. R.S.V.P - Chief. Engr. Dr. Priest Ichie & Lolo Barrister Chief Dr. Mrs Esq. Okija Juju GCE, JAMB, SSCE, NCE, BSc., PHCN, PDP, UBA, FCMB & Native Doctor... CEO & President Okija Group of Companies Worldwide Limited. Importer, Exporter, Manufacturer and Supplier. . .

Without this, I no dey attend. My name must be RSVP'd.

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Re: Meaning Of RSVP On Invitations by chukxy44(m): 2:30pm On Nov 05, 2012
Wait a minute u said RSVP stands for what, even on facebook when people indicate that they wud attend that can not be relied on.
Re: Meaning Of RSVP On Invitations by Rocktation(f): 2:31pm On Nov 05, 2012
chidyke77: No one is interested in all those explaination,i either honour the invitation or nt.

I like this guy. Confirmed Naija man.

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Re: Meaning Of RSVP On Invitations by Abbey2sam(m): 2:32pm On Nov 05, 2012
@op, I can't thank you for what i already know, most nigeria invitation carries this RIVP without knowing what it means
Re: Meaning Of RSVP On Invitations by Kslib(m): 2:34pm On Nov 05, 2012
Me: good morning
Ijebu woman: good morning my pikin
Me: abeg you know d meaning of RSVP
ijebu woman: no nah.. How dat one take concine me?
Me: ehn,i know say e no concine you,but try small..
Ijebu woman: ok my pikin.. Oya come close make i tell you,so dat people no go laugh me if i fail am..
Me: ok ma..**draws closer***
ijebu woman: **drops paint rubber,and gives him a very dirty hot slap "##Kpa kpa gbooosa###.. Next time if u ask me question wey no go reduce price of garr! Again,i go wound you... Rsvp ko...rvps ni
Me: **tries to gain balance with tears rolling down and stammers "give me one cup "

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Re: Meaning Of RSVP On Invitations by TableLeg(m): 2:35pm On Nov 05, 2012
Robin Sh*t Van Persie undecided
Re: Meaning Of RSVP On Invitations by OkwaIfugo(m): 2:36pm On Nov 05, 2012
i don't just know who originated that crap.
na wa oooo

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