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Men Do Not Benefit From Marriage by muyico(m): 6:22am On May 08
Men do not benefit from marriage!!!

1. He is 72 years old.

2. He has retired from active service.

3. He worked all his life to raise his children.

4. He deprived himself of life's pleasures to pay for expensive school fees and living expenses for his children abroad.

5. They are now well-off in Europe, Australia, and America.

6. His wife, aged 62, has relocated to live with their children.

7. He remains alone back in Nigeria.

8. His children barely call him.

9. He has to start life all over again as a bachelor.

10. He struggles with high blood pressure and other ailments associated with old age.

11. How much longer will he survive alone?

12. This is the reality for most working-class monogamous men: their old age is often lonely and, in many cases, sad.

13. No matter how good the man is, women tend to love their children more than their husbands. The older he gets, the less use they seem to have for him.

14. So, what do men truly benefit from marriage?

15. They sacrifice so much but receive little recognition for their hard work, while the woman seems to reap all the benefits.

It’s a man’s world they said but for the women and children in reality.

Dear men, this could be your situation in the next few decades. What are you doing about it? What is your retirement plan? Care for your self as much as you fend for your family. Love yourself. God bless you.

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Re: Men Do Not Benefit From Marriage by Princebizzie: 7:58am On May 08
Nice write up. This is full of sense

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Re: Men Do Not Benefit From Marriage by MrBrownJay1(m): 9:16pm On May 08
what a pile of nonsense!
that man is an ignoramus...
- who forced him to get married or even have children?
- who told him to pay expensive school for his kids?
- who forced him to send his kids abroad for schooling?
- who stopped him from relocating with his wife/kids?
- who told him to stay in Nigeria?
- children have their own life to live, rather than calling parents everyday
- if he chose to stay back in Nigeria by himself, then let him blame HIMSELF. who else you wanna blame?
- a 72 yr old is not a bachelor, is just an OLD FOOL!
- what does his medical situation got to do with anything?
- this is the life that any old yeye fool deserves... aka to be alone and sorry for his own self

- women dont love their children more than their husband, they understand that if your children live abroad, then thats where you should relocate in order to be closer to them. duh! only a yeye old fool would rather remain back in Nigeria where you cant even get good medical assistance. OLODO!
- only a damn fool believe that raising children is just a man's job. it was BOTH THEIR WORK. thats the reason why they got married to one another. stop trying to make it look like raising children is solely a man's job, its a husband AND wife's job... and this has nothing to do with what happens when this yeye olodo makes a silly decision to stay back in Nigeria at 72yr old.

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