Lady cries out as husband uses N11m from their joint account to buy her wedding ring

A 28-year-old lady has taken to social media to share her dismay after discovering that her husband had used their joint savings to purchase her engagement ring without her knowledge.

The lady, recounted the events leading up to their marriage, stating that they opted for a courthouse wedding after a brief engagement.

Following the ceremony, her husband surprised her with a diamond engagement ring valued at approximately $8,000.

However, her joy quickly turned to dismay upon discovering that he had financed the ring through withdrawals from their shared savings account.

Expressing her frustration, she voiced her objection to the idea of being financially responsible for a gift she had received.

She emphasized that the engagement ring should be considered a gift in line with cultural norms and criticized her husband’s decision to make her contribute towards its cost.

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Marriage Neva start Una don dey fight.....

But based on the story, it seems both parties are at fault here ..

He broke your trust by using money from joint account without your knowledge... He is guilty of that...
While you are guilty of having a high expectation of him... It's because of your outspoken love for material things that made him go go beyond his means...
More also, when he brought the ring, you were happy instead of being worried about how he got it, coz obviously you know he can't afford it...
That means, it he hadn't taken from the joint account, and sourced the money somewhere else, may through theft, you wouldn't have been worried...

So both of you should break up and work your "Behaviours" then try relationship somewhere else

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So? Is she not the one requesting for an expensive diamond ring?

Why she dey cry?

So she wants and expect her husband to use from his own personal hard earned money to buy,and the same time go down on his knees and present a ring to her to please come into his peaceful life just to frustrate him?

She think say the husband na mumu? . Not knowing say na spider man he be . Very sharp man

It is love

Grinhect:
So? Is she not the one requesting for an expensive diamond ring?

can we pls stop blaming women for everything. She requested but did not force him. I need this, do not mean u must give me this. The man is a simp, an idiot and a fool. But wait oo , in a joint account d consent of both parties must be involved before u can make withdrawal. I think dis story is a lie

Sonnobax15:

Why she dey cry?

So she wants and expect her husband to use from his own personal hard earned money to buy,and the same time go down on his knees and present a ring to her to please come into his peaceful life just to frustrate him?

She think say the husband na mumu? . Not knowing say na spider man he be . Very sharp man

Maybe he never even chop, beta hunger go de knack am

De husband don run am street,maybe de ring no go reach 500k make guy many cashout 10.somtin milla

See you see red flag, e remain to use you play bet 9ja

Women are stingy...even to themselves
She wouldn't want her "hard-earned" money to be used in buying something for her
But the innocent guy should use his own hard-earned #11m buy the expensive ring for her as "symbol of love" as she demanded
So the guy too doesn't need an expensive symbol of love. Guys na wood or rock or iron who don't need to be pampered and gifted in relationship??
Nawa for women oo
Women are not capable of love.
This is women when it comes to issue of money

That's what happens when you marry stingy men. Avoid stingy men!

What's the noise for...something they can return immediately it was purchased....

siofra:
That's what happens when you marry stingy men. Avoid stingy men!

E be like u never chop better preek, u go forget stingy

I was with her up until she said she deserved a big ring because she didn’t get a wedding. She knowingly married a man who couldn’t afford a wedding but she thought he could afford an expensive ring?!?

She was playing good girl ( not needing a big wedding, gifts, and expensive bride price)
but her mask just dropped when she went online to air her husband out to the world.

She should just return the ring and get the money back, apologise to her husband for speaking to him in a way that he felt disrespected by, and move on with her marriage instead of shouting on the interwebs.

EMMYMAESTRO IS LIKE THAT RING GET DUPLEX INSIDE

wizrose:
EMMYMAESTRO IS LIKE THAT RING GET DUPLEX INSIDE

I don't understand