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Benin: Families Rent Cows, Mourners To Make Burial Ceremonies Colourful by AloyEmeka5: 2:51am On Mar 08, 2010 |
[size=14pt] Benin City for show: Families rent cows, mourners to make burial ceremonies colourful [/size] By DENNIS UGBUDIAN Saturday, March 6, 2010 Fridays in Benin City, Edo State, is noted for one thing – merry making, partying, music and dancing, free meals at several points. But there is an irony here, it is in celebration of deaths and the dead. advertisement It is commonplace to see ambulances, accompanied by mourners and sympathizers, wailing in all directions as they convey corpses to their final destination for burial in this city of the ancient obas. It is also a day drivers and commuters dread a lot because of the serious traffic jam associated with it. Incidents supposed to elicit mourning, pains and tears for the dead has been turned to a carnival. Saturday Sun gathered that going to mortuary to remove corpse for burial has become funfair and meeting point for lovers, young men and ladies, where they do all sort of things. The only thing that identified such situation as a mourning moment is the black apparel the so-called mourners and sympathizers wear. There are some bizarre dimensions to the trend in the city today. It is popularly tagged ‘obito’ short for obituary’. And the people of the city, natives and residents have come to accept the ‘celebration’ as the most happening thing in town. In fact, many look up to the weekends, especially the young ones who have formed bands of professional mourners for hire at the families where burials hold. Even in places you don’t ask for their services, they might opt to enlist themselves to do their beat. As they come, they hijack the session, embark on real tears-shedding, wailing and tantrums to impress. They adorn black gears and would convince anybody in the crowd that they are the real bereaved ones. What features prominently in the list of survivors for the obituary announcements is a long roll call of sons/daughters, nephews, nieces etc who reside in Italy, Germany, Holland, etc. But funny enough those residents in Ugbowo, Sapele, Uromi are never mentioned or indicated. The city of Benin, the old kingdom of great obas that waylaid the white usurpers and made great identity for themselves have furthered their burial innovation to suit the times. You may call that the digital touch. Their obito innovations include cow renting by the bereaved families who engage the services of malams, the cow dealers, to ‘organise’ some cows that would be tethered at the premises where the burial would take place. If you see about eight or ten cows in obito video clips from Benin, don’t be carried away. They are essentially hired. At most, one of them would be slaughtered, and the rest returned to the malam who smiles to the bank with the proceeds and waits for another set of rental with the same cow. The presence of the cow is to create the effect and aura that much is happening, and so much money was spent by the family to send home their deceased family member. It is also another fad to pre-video the herd of cows and some assortment of hired bevy gathering (possibly from another burial elsewhere and morphed in the clips) before the burial rites and the video clips distributed to attendants of the real burial as party favours. Every business sector is Benin is keying into the trend to make some cash, and that does not leave out the media – radio and TV that has special obito announcement rates made so competitive and attractive. It is the boom and everybody is happy with it. When Saturday Sun visited the University of Benin Anatomy Department, Ugbowo, Central Hospital, King’s Square, and Akugbe Hospital at Upper Sakponba Road, the stories were all the same. Some of the youths in black T-shirts and trousers were busy smoking, drinking beer and discussing away their time. It baffled to find that their discussions were not even based on why they were at the mortuary, but on how the night would look like for their escapades and philandering. http://odili.net/news/source/2010/mar/6/513.html |
Re: Benin: Families Rent Cows, Mourners To Make Burial Ceremonies Colourful by AloyEmeka5: 12:12pm On Mar 08, 2010 |
Do they also rent expensive caskets to show off? ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
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