domack99: If your boss is carrying excess lodgage its fine to assist, but if its just his/her hand bag or suit case as the case may be i see no reason to assist him/her. It might likely going to be terrible if your boss is a Nigeria, becuase in Nigeria what you cannot continue you don't start.

T_Bademosi: Lets say he just got down from his or her vehicle at the same time you were resuming work. Is it necessary you help with the bag & how would such an act paint you?.


I need response from matured Nairalanders. I seem to just dont know.

nikkyshyne: Nothing wrong at all. Even if they will stop you, nothing wrong in making an attempt. At least pretend to respect them in every aspect. He/she is your BOSS!

LesbianBoy: If there is money inside it is WRONG! But if there is no money then its not WRONG!

moyems: Hello, can any one tell me how i can place my post on this website as a registered member.?? Please i need to know !!! Thanks

Okija_juju: IT IS ONLY RIGHT TO CARRY YOUR BOSS'es BAG IF..

1. You didnt get the job on Merit.

2. You are an Asswipe

3. You work for your father (as in your father is your boss)

4. Your job description includes carrying your bosses bag

5. You have low self worth and esteem and have the constant need to appear nice and be liked..

6. Its a method you are using to get close enough to your boss to fhuck him/her..

Dimples 316: Personally, I like healthy relationships with boundaries where people do not take things for granted and begin to cross lines.

1. If I am not the boss' Personal Assistant I won't be inclined to help carry the bag.
2. If that is not part of my job description I won't be doing it.
3. There's nothing wrong with my boss, his got two hands and feet same as me let him carry his bags.
4. His driver can help him carry his bags if he so desires

The thing with such gestures is that when you do it too often or long enough people sort of expect you to keep it up and soon boundaries are crossed, whereby they begin to ask & expect other small favours like you helping them buy their lunch from Cactus, going to the bank on their behalf for personal transactions not related to company work, so on and so on.

I would only offer to help if I see that my boss is carrying too many things at once which he is struggling with, other than that I'll let him do him, while I do me. No disrespect intended

Okija_juju: @ TOPIC: Yes!!.. It reduces you to the level of a Biitch..

You should be appraised by your performance on the Job, not by how much of a butt kisser you are..

The only time you are allowed to give your boss a hand with anything not work related is only when he/she has too much on her hands that you offered to help.. NOTHING MORE, NOTHING LESS.. You are co-workers, not master and slave..


_{If you act like a biitch in front of your boss because you want to appear humble and nice, dont get angry when your boss treats you like one.}

Okija_juju: IT IS ONLY RIGHT TO CARRY YOUR BOSS'es BAG IF..

1. You didnt get the job on Merit.

2. You are an Asswipe

3. You work for your father (as in your father is your boss)

4. Your job description includes carrying your bosses bag

5. You have low self worth and esteem and have the constant need to appear nice and be liked..

6. Its a method you are using to get close enough to your boss to fhuck him/her..

This guy is a clown

lovejo: u can simply ask, can i help you a little sir...you then see with his body language..man to man..not man to woman.

Odinaka00:

If every starts Ť☺ post topic in here, who s gon read nd comment on em? I wil advice you Ť☺ only read nd comment on d topics you here, tabom?