Should u pick on ur lover's words through discussions and judge him/her based on that? I am 26yrs and my GF is 23yrs, we were gisting one beautiful night bout how a male friend of hers that she had lost contact with called her to say hello and while talking, he mentioned bout his Sister of 20 years that got married, "married? She asked the Guy" and the Guy was like yes now, isn't it you claiming that you are still young for marriage, so this amused her and she was like, she should stop consoling herself of being young and that People she is younger than are getting married etc. From her words, a part of me started concluding she might bow down to pressure of marriage by her heart at anytime and leave me before the time I gave her which she would be 24/25 den and I would be 27/28. We've been dating for 9 months now. Am I being harsh using her words to measure her or Am I right she might leave me before the time I promised her?