KINGwax: are u okay? Cheatin is different from takin another wife since u aint doing it in secret. Cheatin is clearly cheatin! Did somethin happened to your dictionary? It entails taking pleasure or gettin too much at the detriment and without consent of the other!

favvyE: what arrant nonsense... y should u taste from the pot of soup in the first place

because its a man;s rite to eat from her pot of soup to be sure it taste nice
the problem is if he either decides to stick with that soup or goes out there to taste others
hence it aint cheating

CAMEROONPRIDE: i didn't call her ashawo ...m still looking for the right word this is beyond ashawoism

naijathings: [size=16pt]abeg what is cheating? are you a christian? does your Bible support sex before marriage? so why are you getting mad when another lady wants to commit the same sin with me just like you have been doing? eh? abi na only you devil make the sin for? na wah oh.

when i was in Ghana, my friend came back and found out that his girl has been dishing it out to everyone that want to taste the pie. he got mad at her and she got mad at him back. she said.. why are you angry that i slept with your friend? ah ah? and you say he is your friend then why are you angry?
my head stopped working for 5 seconds then i burst into laughter. and we dey here dey cry about cheating.

i have read thru the entire thread and i found that no girl here cheats. clap for them. lie lie girls.
abi the ones wey dey "share" wireless decided not to comment?.[/size]

LMFAO.

ROTFLMFAOOO!! NIGERIAN GIRLS AT THEIR PEAK

moneymaker24: Am gonna be sincere, i did cheat on my gurlfriend but even after all that, she still remains number 1 in my heart and that's d reason i told her.

Although am still dating another gurl, she is d one i adore the most.

I have learnt that its not safe to have only one source because it might fail :-p

moneymaker24: Am gonna be sincere, i did cheat on my gurlfriend but even after all that, she still remains number 1 in my heart and that's d reason i told her.

Although am still dating another gurl, she is d one i adore the most.

I have learnt that its not safe to have only one source because it might fail :-p

EXACTLY!!

wazlee: i was once a determined-never-gonna-cheat young man. i stayed with her for 4years of sincerity..... till when the whole strong wall started breaking down..... all of a sudden, she began acting strange, she began answering my questions with her own questions. she complains and finds fault out of nothing. she began to attack me through my choice of proffession.... saying that since i have been in football camps from one nigeria team to another, what reasonable have i achieved? threatening me always...... she kept saying, "Uche, if you didnt go back to school, my parents aint gonna open their house gate for me ooooh.

i left my team then (court of appeal f.c abuja) and processed my admission to the Nasarawa State Uni. but still, she walked away from my life, with reason best known to her.... i tried all i could to make her stay, but all to no avail.

since then, half of me went with her. my 2 immediate brothers that reside in Asia Countries, tried to take me out of Nija, to avoid suicide stories.... but i couldn't leave... thinking one day we could make it up. (no way)

now a wonderful God giving lady is in my life,,, but the problem is,.....
i am no more faithful...... last night, she (my new woman) visited me, but i didnt even kissed her, all i did after she went home was to go to Asha-wo house to cool off.,,,... God please have mercy on me and save me from this emmotional affliction.

my new angel is classic and so much caring.... calls me 30 times aday..... but i have lost my humanity....
i need help please.

Theblessed: Excuse me!!!

"It is very usual and arguably natural". Really?

When you say 'Partner' how do you mean? Do you mean, a marriage relationship or a live-in lover i.e. a Common Law relationship or just a 'Hit and run' type of relationship - casual encounter??

I hope your assertion does not include 'Marriage relationships' here and if it does, I wonder how thin your moral beliefs and values are especially, in these dangerous times, HiV AIDS are every where that you chose to live this kind of reckless life? Too bad!!

Based on your assertion, yes, most things people do in life might be natural but, does in mean they are all right? For example, 419, corruption/embezzlement, murder, stealing, prostitution, incests etc you name them - you'd see they are all natural and not right and based on your values you have a 'flat rate' for them all 'Any thing goes' because, your moral values are below par.

Remember, whatever you do in your youth/life will be accounted for - so keep riding on!!!

Daresh: Never have, never will, the day I have to then I'm heading out !

Sybellah:

lol nono never,

the thing is I try not to be too judgemental because you can be in some situations where it's difficult to avoid cheating, never say never cuz u never know lol
For example I used to be friend with some guy i ve met during my undergrad, we were in the same program, we had a couple classes together and in one of those classes we were in the same group (group of 2 people). We used to see each other everyday (used to see him more often than my bf in the week), work together, chat about everything,eat together...we were really comfortable with each other lol so We became really good friend til he told me he was attracted to me , knowing that i had a bf. I was also attracted to him cuz he had many qualities that i favor, but I started taking my distance becuz i knew if i wouldnt, i would have definitively fallen into this trap. This was a pain cuz i really liked him and i loved my ex in the same time. I was confused and started questioning my relationship with my ex but i later got back on track.

hagma37@yahoo.com:

I EXPECT THE SAME FROM THEM ('THEM'-'THEM'-'THEM')

CAMEROONPRIDE: good girl

linda_1:

^^^LOL @ your story, I know what u mean
Now that you're single, you should give ur "friend" a chance

snowdrops: OP should set up poll. Let's get a snap shot of the gender variance amongst cheaters. How come most of them are guys? Is that a true reflection or are babes so guarded and secretive as some ppl have asserted?

Sybellah:
oups not very single @ the moment lool

linda_1: Like I said before I never did but if someone did Why tell them? "What they don't know, wont hurt them".... If they don't know, they can't get hurt. Yes it will hurt a millions times more if they find out about it at a later date. But don't let them find out, and there's nothing to hurt them.

Sybellah:

ahahah eeeh! So if u cheat u won't tell it
If i do i ll feel so funny, he ll know something is wrong loool, i don't know how to pretend
I guess i ll say it out of guilt, just to free myself and this ain't too good i guess (a bit egoist)

Daresh:

I totally agree. I no get strength for drama. My own is I just cant take it,the creeping, the lying and gosh the whole filthiness of it all. Let me not lie the wahala just pass me. However I don't agree with the Nigerian girl thingy. There are too many amazing naija girls @ home and abroad for you to just dismiss us. Now on the other hand, I'm determined my daughter will NEVER marry a Nigerian man. They are just wrong. Warped sense of thinking, very few (like you)use their brains instead of balls. And if I ever remarry, you can be damned sure it wont be to a Nigerian man, I've had enough of the Nigerian mentality

JayKayMaybachz: Capital .......... Yes ........... She Was Far From Me And Whenever She Was Around ............ She Will Deny Me Of My Rights .......... So I Decided To Cheat ...........

wazlee: i was once a determined-never-gonna-cheat young man. i stayed with her for 4years of sincerity..... till when the whole strong wall started breaking down..... all of a sudden, she began acting strange, she began answering my questions with her own questions. she complains and finds fault out of nothing. she began to attack me through my choice of proffession.... saying that since i have been in football camps from one nigeria team to another, what reasonable have i achieved? threatening me always...... she kept saying, "Uche, if you didnt go back to school, my parents aint gonna open their house gate for me ooooh.

i left my team then (court of appeal f.c abuja) and processed my admission to the Nasarawa State Uni. but still, she walked away from my life, with reason best known to her.... i tried all i could to make her stay, but all to no avail.

since then, half of me went with her. my 2 immediate brothers that reside in Asia Countries, tried to take me out of Nija, to avoid suicide stories.... but i couldn't leave... thinking one day we could make it up. (no way)

now a wonderful God giving lady is in my life,,, but the problem is,.....
i am no more faithful...... last night, she (my new woman) visited me, but i didnt even kissed her, all i did after she went home was to go to Asha-wo house to cool off.,,,... God please have mercy on me and save me from this emmotional affliction.

my new angel is classic and so much caring.... calls me 30 times aday..... but i have lost my humanity....
i need help please.

CAMEROONPRIDE: go ahead my broo our forefathers were polygamous why not u

CAMEROONPRIDE: go ahead my broo our forefathers were polygamous why not u