Okija_juju: SO to all the 'MORDERN' women in the house, how do you handle the following in your home;

1. Food

2. House-keeping

3. The kids

4. Laundry

5. Your Husbands welfare

6. Sex

Vikin: Real men knows what it is to take care of their wives. Your wives are supposed to be your Angels, mother of your unborn kids, not ya slave. How you treat and talk to your wife shows how your home will be built.

pato405: the 'modern' woman (9ja context) NO B wife material. PERIOD!

Freiburger:
It is a 50 50 thing bro.

Okija_juju: ANY WOMAN WHO PUTS CAREER or BUSINESS before HER HUSBAND AND KIDS (HER FAMILY), without the consent of her husband, Is not traditional and not worthy of being called a mother or a wife...

Okija_juju:


Then paying the rent should be a 50-50 thing as well.. Buying and maintaining the cars, financing all our family projects like houses, cars, family vacations, school fees, rent, shopping, e.t.c..


EVERY THING becomes 50% shares..

Okija_juju:


Then paying the rent should be a 50-50 thing as well.. Buying and maintaining the cars, financing all our family projects like houses, cars, family vacations, school fees, rent, shopping, e.t.c..


EVERY THING becomes 50% shares..

Freiburger:
What about when it goes with the approval of the husband?

BABE!:


Even if you're earning way more than her?

BABE!:


Which context be wife material then? British?

Okija_juju:
5- 10 minutes of raw undiluted ecstacy is better than 3 hrs of bumping and grinding with no pleasure o!!

As a traditional man, na fire dey go I dey.. No time for gba'riwa ..

BABE!:

BABE!:


Even if you're earning way more than her?

coogar:

which leaves your wife unsatisfied till she starts shagging your wife.

coogar:

which leaves your wife unsatisfied till she starts shagging your wife.








okija-juju should have been born in the 4th century

Okija_juju:


YES!!!!
Its called 50% stake holding... All liabilities are split down the middle..

Brand new TV of 500,000 Naira?! Husband 250,000'k.. Wife 250'k.
Washing the Dishes.. Husband gets Mondays, Wife gets Tuesdays.

50%/50%

pato405:
Even the British have their culture they strive to preserve. I was shocked when I once saw a lad get up his seat in a bus and beckoned on an old man who was standing to have his seat.

pato405:
they know when to submit to the man. the problem is that most of our peeps back home have gross misconception about this western tradition.. we want to copy but often we copy wrongly. our ladies are often quick to copy the unpleasant aspects. take fashion for example. stage fashion they see on music videos are almost being taken as formal wears now. they want to have all the carteblanche to wear such skimpy clothings even on formal occasions and harp about westernisation and men being too traditional for their liking.

Freiburger:
Why playing the offensive game here? even if the man earns more, what stops the woman from contributing her own part?

BABE!:


You dey make sense so? I said, "you're earning way more than her"! Where do you expect her to get the 50% from? You want your wife to prostitute herself on top 50-50?

Okija_juju:


If I as the man have to share the responsibilities of the woman... Then she has to share the responsibilities of the man..



So she should go get a job, because next years rent, she is paying 50%..

Okija_juju:

Vikin:

I don't have a problem if she pays 50%. That means, if she earns 20 k, her 50% is 10 k, while you earn 500k your 50% is 250k....so you guys have 260 k as house rent.

That's fair to me....

slimyem: The traditional men on this thread especially Okija-juju...stop being jokers..!
Move to your village and pick your wrapper-tying and suku-rocking traditional women.
Stop expecting traditionals from 2013 women!

coogar:

Okija_juju:


If I as the man have to share the responsibilities of the woman... Then she has to share the responsibilities of the man..



So she should go get a job, because next years rent, she is paying 50%..

Okija_juju:

pato405:

you 'modern' women are only suitable as girlfriends and mistresses. When a wife is needed, a traditional, well bred, culture imbued lady rocks! so, get it STRAIGHT - there's a yawning difference between a girlfriend/mistress and a wife!

slimyem: This is all jabber!
Mordern women are getting married everyday to equally mordern men.
Keep living in 1925!!

Okija_juju:


See yourself... Which kind night school you go..

50% of the house rent not 50% of her earnings.. I dont care if she does blood money, prostitutes herself or steals the extra.. Shey she wants me to share in her duties and we are equal.. 50% stake.. Then she should be ready for the responsibilities that comes with that kind of majority shares.


Some of you women think your lives are hard.. Come and see what men go through..