alutacontinua: First thing is dt you must be SURE that she LOVES and RESPECTS you sooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo much. If not, you're on a long tin. Then, her love and respect for you, coupled with her MATURITY would make her to be able to separate her career/training from her personal relationship.

Bottom line, it depends on the individiual's MATURITY, her LOVE AND RESPECT for you.

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Mynd_44: Oh great. Another thread based on bias against a griup of people.

@OP, the bottomline is that she is first of all a human being then a woman and then a lawyer. No matter what training or education she has had, she will be a woman before she is a lawyer so treat her the way you treat a woman and see the response. If she acts unbecomingly, it is because she is a problem and it has nothing to do with her profession

alutacontinua:

This is not about being bias. Trust me, they train dose pple to be proud nd c demselves as better than odas. It takes maturity on d part of d individual to pick d part of d training dt dey need and dump the rest. So, yes, u mite need to think twice before dating a lawyer!

alutacontinua:

This is not about being bias. Trust me, they train dose pple to be proud nd c demselves as better than odas. It takes maturity on d part of d individual to pick d part of d training dt dey need and dump the rest. So, yes, u mite need to think twice before dating a lawyer!

Agbgift:


U are very very wrong my dear. I didn't do a course in d university or law school dat train u on hw to be proud, so hw ever gave u dat idea is wrong...I dnt see wat relationship has to do wift profession. Its has to do wift individual personality and character. Its jst like saying doctors are spoilt and as such dnt marry a doctor. Or engineers are cultist or evil, so dnt marry an engineer. Then tell me, who u wan come marry?...@op dnt look @ her profession, look @ her personality and use dat to decide if u want her or nt. God will lead u well

Richfella: My brother, a girl is a girl is a girl. Army woman, lawyer woman, policewoman, red cross woman - all na woman.

The number one rule for arguing with women: Do NOT argue with them.

Once you're really really masculine. A woman will take on the role of the 'sweet little girl' that she is on the inside.

Once you're a weak tampon, most women will eat you alive.

Just be a man and she will be a woman.

Mynd_44: Sanb, God bless you

Laird: THANKS EVERYBODY.....I NEED MORE ADVICE

sanb: It’s called generalising when you say she argues cos she's a female lawyer and conclude that it’s rampant with females in her profession. You’ll also be totally wrong if you say most female lawyers argue a lot with their spouse. The profession of a lady shouldn’t be the measuring stick if she’ll be a good wife or not. It’s her character and personality that should speak for her. You can’t just assume that all female lawyers are the same, as that would be generalising which won’t be right like I stated earlier on.

I might be wrong, but I think that your GF just wants to get herself in an argument with you plain and simple. If you want peace, I’ll advise you to stay clear of getting into arguments with her. There are female lawyers that I know who are respectful wives and their husbands adore them due to the superb qualities they possess i.e. they are not domineering, insubordinate or argumentative...the same also applies to women in other high profile professions as well. All you need to do is search for the ones that possess the qualities you require in a wife.

If you know that you can’t put up with her argumentative character; especially after trying to reason with her; then take a slow walk and free her and free yourself (life’s too short) cos its going to get worse. Also remember; that after all, there are women without a profession but their attitude is nothing to right home about...

kunletiwoo:

Brilliant!

lrguru: OP, whenever she starts any arguement with u, always move a motion for adjournment.