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Op don't toast make them your friend then ask them out.either to ice-cream joint or a fastfood joint.start with the ones your like that re near you either in your church or mosque or better still on your street.get involved in activities where you can easily meet the eg choir,dream,dance even libraries.mind you its not a day job so don't rush tins am sure that is one of the challenges you av.don't mind some of the movies cos they re fake.for a beginner it may be difficult for you to have the courage to meet them during shopping or wlking on the street but build your confidence by making them your friend then make your intentions know within 2-3weeks you should have gotten one if you target well.