yes, i love you

I think the original poster of this thread is the sort of person who freaks out once a relationship starts to get serious.

uche1:

yes, i love you

Wat r u talking abt?

Uche,whats that?

hot-angel:

uche1:

When i first mate her was my perfect date. We walked down a red carpet to the  Studio to take pictures . I felt like we were movie stars. All eyes were on us. That’s where everybody wants to be. It was like being Cinderella for a night. From rags to riches. well she is still cool with me and i love her that way.

And you point is?


@hotangel


I wonder oh.

I think uche1 is in the twilight zone.

@uche1

No offense.

spikedcylinder:

I think the original poster of this thread is the sort of person who freaks out once a relationship starts to get serious.

word girl! thats exactly what i was thinking. Once the 'chase' is over, some guys don't enjoy it anymore. the dude must have a real case of 'commit-phobia'. I have a friend exactly like that. Hope they wake up and smell the coffee soon!

hey you can say that agian, you know what Girls are very catty. That’s why I don’t let them get to me, because no matter what you do, no matter how you look, even if you try to change for them , they’re always going to find something else to say. So you just have to blow it off and be confident in yourself.

she will come back for you just be your self and don,t try to be some one else

@debosky

Na me start the thread oh!  

Please read well. I dont have anything against being serious. What i detest is living like 20years of marriage just because we are serious. We should engage in a lot of fun things and still be spontaneous.

I just get bored easily.

uche1:

she will come back for you just be your self and don,t try to be some one else

uche1:

hey you can say that agian, you know what Girls are very catty. That’s why I don’t let them get to me, because no matter what you do, no matter how you look, even if you try to change for them , they’re always going to find something else to say. So you just have to blow it off and be confident in yourself.

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I think you are on the wrong thread.

@ mrlawng

Nothing but love for ya ma brotha!
yeah, you can be spontaneous and still be 'mothered' sometimes. You both just have to be able to find a balance. Besides, things should be better 20 years after marriage, you make it sound as if its ok to be 'mothered' then but not now.

As long as your real with yourself and your partner, carry go!

MrLawng,If you don't like having a boring relationship,why not intitiate things that will make your relationship more exciting?Am sure she wont object if you suggest certain things that would spark up your relationship.I'm saying this based on the fact that i'm assuming mutual interests should be one of the reasons the relationship started in the first place.

@debosky

thanks

@spikecylinder

Didn't you read my posts? Before the commitment they don't object to the fun things i initiate. But once committed, she they want to live like old people. Enthusiasm for all the fun things initiated dwindles. You can't even talk about "nothings" like you used to. Most discussions now have to be serious. I get enough of that at work.

I just need my girl to be MY GIRL.

Ok,i was just trying to help.

But i dont think most Nigerian girls mother their boyfriends.I dont do that and i dont expect to be fathered.

@spikecylinder

Are you different?

(just Kidding)

If different is not being a mother and not wanting a new father,yes!

@spikecylinder

Thats what i am talking about. Whats your number? lol

i guess it differ frm r/ship 2 r/ship and how deep it is
i've been wiv my boyfriend 3 yrs i luv to give him his space so he still has his life but every opportunity i get, i use it 2 tk care of him and show him i care wivout robbing him of oxygen and breathing space, it helps if one is not clingy, i think.
wht do y'all think?

Most women naturally drift into the man-marking mode after a couple of sexual encounters. It depends on wether you want to take the relationship to the next level. If not, you nip the habit in the bud before she becomes a nuisance.

@gem87

Yep, you are right.

Clingy is the word.

The thing is this: when a guy agrees to go out with you, he has put you on this high pedestal above all other girls. When you start to appear insecure and vulnerable, your profile sinks in his eyes.

Men may pretend that they like subservient, docile women but that's a complete lie! Act that way and you'll be trampled like a doormat and slung out the door when used up! If ure unlucky you may even be married already when that happens! We like it when our girls are smarter than us! Yes! Afterall mummy was smarter when we were kids!

Just be sure to

(a) act like ure our TOTAL SLAVE when our friends are around to make em envious, and

(b) Agree to whatever stupid opinion we are pushing whenever an argument becomes more of a battle for authority than a sensible discussion. Most men know when they are wrong, and agreeing in that way can make a guy feel like a complete idiot

see me trying to sound like John Gray. lololololol DMZ out

Men are babies so we should mother over them less they slip from your hands to the next mother.

girls graduate into mothers ok. so they(naija girls) should learn it now to mother whatever: boy friend, hubby and so on

@cassidy

Youre kidding right?

@ mrlawng

i am not kiddin we watch over u guys cos u ve d habit of slip back and forth.

hey everybody how's the going

Hey Maki

Wasup?

I need Maki to 'mother' me. hey Maki, would you be kind enough to make me feel like a baby once again in my lifetime?

@cassidy

If u (s)mother ya man he will bail on you

hey rottweiller, what's up
dont worry, give me time for my milk to mature



hey mrlawng how's the going

maki:

. . .don't worry, give me time for my milk to mature

right from the day a girl is born in Nigeria she is dammed to all that "When you marry" stupid talk.
While her brothers are outside playing ball she is insind learning how to cook and clean.
If she m isbehaves the mother will tell her to mpack her bag she is going to her husbands house