Hi nairaland, i need an advice on this matter that has been bothering me. i met this guy just last 3 weeks, we started seeing each other just last week he started asking me for sex.
my question here is did u think it is proper 4 him 2 have is way, or it is too early for that.
please no insults, mutual advice only.

You are the one dating him and you are an adult so you should decide what you want but personally, I think if a man really likes you, he would not pressure you but wait for a time when you are comfy except of course you have given him signs that you want sex.

If you don't, sit him down and tell him.

happyjuliet: Hi nairaland, i need an advice on this matter that has been bothering me. i met this guy just last 3 weeks, we started seeing each other just last week he started asking me for sex.
my question here is did u think it is proper 4 him 2 have is way, or it is too early for that.
please no insults, mutual advice only.

....huh?...3 weeks and he an hit it yet?? ..in 2013?? ...happyjuliet, why are u wicked!!

Is sex not supose to be for d married? Just 3 wks n u want to give in. Hmmm girls cheap ooo. D guy want fvck u dats all.

Run abeg.... Sex is his motive for the relationship and not that he truly love, he just want to add you to his trophy cabinet.

I will be frank with you the guy doesnt luv you what he wants is to chop that fruit between you legs so be wise

A man who wants a real r-ship with you won't be asking you for sex 3 weeks into the r-ship.

It doesn't worth it cus he is not real and just would do away with you after having his way. Most men prefer a woman to punish them a while before yielding to any pressure to se-x and please abstain from sex if you are not married.

I hope the OP will listen oooo

u no know say na konji carry am kon meet u?if u lyk do if u no lyk no do afterall u both wld enjoy it ...bt really it seems sex is the criteria of love nowadays smh..

Mynd_44: I hope the OP will listen oooo

Well, if she doesn't listen, it is left for her, she asked for advice , i want to believe we've given her some of the best advice available

Handsomeemmy: Well, if she doesn't listen, it is left for her, she asked for advice , i want to believe we've given her some of the best advice available

Well we can only hope

Dating is not mating. He has no conjugal rights!!

It swings both ways;

Some people dnt care and hit it anyway.

Some people see it as 'too early'

Some, it is a sin and shldnt be done until marriage.

So, asking for people's opinion is like not havin a mind of ur own on ds matter.

Some people dnt care if the got fuccked and get dumped! They jes want a good time.

Some people are scared of getting fuccked and dumped cos they dnt wanna be registers for fuys. They want real courtship.
If u happen to fall intto this category, dnt do a thang even in 6monts until u are sure his people want u, and he wants u forever.

My own adfaice be dt o

Juliet, give the guy the thing na, why are you stingy? You've been giving others, now that it's his turn to harvest you wanna play politics with it.

Be frank and tell him that he is trying to turn you in to a cheap girl and you are well aware of it. If he pretends to be hurt by what you are saying and tries to blackmail you emotionally , tell him that will not work either and if he truely wants to be with you he must learn to be patient and wait for when you are ready or he should just lv u alone. You have nothing to loose but a looser dol

-Mr Cork-:



....huh?...3 weeks and he an hit it yet?? ..in 2013?? ...happyjuliet, why are u wicked!!

I wonder kwa!

Monicasque: Be frank and tell him that he is trying to turn you in to a cheap girl and you are well aware of it. If he pretends to be hurt by what you are saying and tries to blackmail you emotionally , tell him that will not work either and if he truely wants to be with you he must learn to be patient and wait for when you are ready or he should just lv u alone. You have nothing to loose but a looser dol

Huh....what do you really mean?

kaboninc:

Huh....what do you really mean?

i mean she should make him aware that she is aware of his game and tell him exactly how she feels about it and if he gets angry or walks away she must let him and she has nothing to loose except loose someone who was already going to be lost in the future

Thanks friends 4 your advices i really i appreciate

some pple r just so stupid no apologies#hw will u say he doest love her wat do u knw abt love.what do u knw abt d guy wat do u knw abt d gurl.sorry case for pple given bad advice.JULIET listen to me sit him down let him knw u r nt ready for sex now.if is a guy dat loves u is actually gonna wait love u d more he might actually b testin if u r cheap.because he ask for sex in just three weeks does nt mean he doesnt love u HELL NO#GBAM

Monicasque:

i mean she should make him aware that she is aware of his game and tell him exactly how she feels about it and if he gets angry or walks away she must let him and she has nothing to loose except loose someone who was already going to be lost in the future

Its alright. Just need clarification from the bolded part.

ojingbe: some pple r just so stupid no apologies#hw will u say he doest love her wat do u knw abt love.what do u knw abt d guy wat do u knw abt d gurl.sorry case for pple given bad advice.JULIET listen to me sit him down let him knw u r nt ready for sex now.if is a guy dat loves u is actually gonna wait love u d more he might actually b testin if u r cheap.because he ask for sex in just three weeks does nt mean he doesnt love u HELL NO#GBAM

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