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A Must Read For All Ladies - Beware !! by Pain(m): 1:39pm On Jun 13, 2013 |
Source : http://Tunmama Blog http://ajetun..com/2012/09/a-must-read-for-all-ladies.html Read below "Hi, I am Tonia (not real name), a girl who has fears, beliefs, reservations and just your regular typical Nigerian girl. This past few weeks has been one hell of a game for me. I have really been unsettled and I thought I share this story with you. "We have met people through various social media. Some have ended up well, some have not but with painful memories. To cut the long story short, let me kindly share with you my encounter with social media especially the very popular Blackberry Messenger (BBM). "I am a graduate and currently serving in Kaduna. I could have runced it, but I needed somewhere to clear my head and forget about my ugly encounter. Here is my story. "I happened to have a married man as a contact on my BBM. He had been asking me out for over six months and I refused to date him. As time went on, he invited me clubbing with him when his wife was outside the country, and I went with him all night. We spent most of the night at Swe bar, Lagos. "I also met his clique of friends, married as well with their various mistresses. We had 'mad' fun. After all the clubbing and drinking, he lodged me in a hotel somewhere in Obalende. I felt sort of safe with him. We did not have sex, but he made sweet love to me and touched me in places I had never ever imagined. "He kissed me passionately but guess what? He did not have sex with me. We did all sorts but there was no penetration. So, to an extent, I trusted he was a good person to be around with. I did not know that it was all part of the plan. "He gave me N10,000 and put me in a cab to go home the next morning. We kept talking and chatting and sending naked pictures to each other and he told me naughty things of how he wanted to whisper things in my ear, I blushed. We didn't see for two weeks and that was because his wife just came back from Turkey. "One faithful evening, he pinged me that he was organising a beach party/boat cruise and that he would love for me to be his date and that he wanted to open a BBM chat, as a medium for his friends and my friends to interact. I was excited about it, I just wanted to have fun. I was able to get five of my very hot friends. "The BBM group opened and we got chatting. I also realise that majority of them were married and working in reputable firms. It was fun and we didn't mind if they were married, we just wanted to have fun, as well as some other girls apart from my friends in the group. "We chatted exclusively, sent pictures to the BBM group to introduce ourselves, and we had opened group conversations pending the beach party. And as excited as we were, we went shoping for nice sexy beach wears. "The D-day finally came, we all assembled at the Lagos Island Boat Club. I was wowed because it was a high class party. We were cruising in a boat loaded with goodies drinks and hot babes, and as well 'MARRIED MEN'. I did not care, I just said in my mind that I would not roll with married men anymore after this, that for now, all I wanted to do was to catch some fun. After all, I wasn't paying bills. "We got there, it was a private beach resort. Most of the beach facilities I got to see there were owned by multinational companies. We got out of the boat, and went to where we were partying. It was a duplex made with wood. It was a very nice setting. "I felt comfortable because it even had a fence around it separating it from other beach houses around. So, there was privacy and of course bouncers (heavy looking guys) guarding the place. I said to myself, this must be heaven, I must be dreaming. "Anyways, we felt free with each other because we had been chatting. It was 5:30pm and the party just started. We had drinks flowing from the private bar tender which happens to be owned by one of the men in the group. Reality struck when I realised that I was feeling dizzy and feeling really funny and light headed. Not only me, but other girls around me too noticed there was something strange about it. "I was also feeling Hot as hell! I had been drugged. They monitored us and when they knew the drug had really gone deep into our system, they moved us up into the main beach house. I could still see faces, but was too weak and Hot to react. "Mr B, the man who took me clubbing, carried me in his hands like a sacrifice and put me down on the floor just as other men also did with their girls. We were eight in numbers; 8 girls, 8 guys, and they all stripped us down and had sex with us. "I enjoyed it a bit because I was Hot. It was a mixed feeling because I cried, I moaned, but I did not know how many times he came into me. He pounded me hard. I was dizzy, but he grabbed me with force. All I could notice was the wedding ring on his finger. I thought of how wicked and miserable some married can be. How inhuman and heartless they could be. "All of them took turns in switching partners and slept with all of us. I passed out. That was the last thing I could remember. I felt water poured on me. I noticed all the other girls around me too were half naked and some stark naked. "We spent the night at the beach, but the men were no where to be found. I looked round me and all I could see was packs of used condoms. I ran to pick my cloths and possibly raise an alarm. I got dressed, found my phone with an envelope. It contained N16,000 and a note asking us to take N2000 each for transport. Tears of anger and rage filled my eyes and the girls around me as well. "We were drugged and used like tissue paper. I grabbed my phone and noticed a ping came in. I checked my phone and I noticed the BBM group had been deleted, and a message via BBM from MR B came in. He threatened me that if I say a word to anyone, I would regret it. "I told him he was a bastard, and he said try it. A picture came in, several pictures. In fact, they were pictures of us being naked on the floor. Pictures of the humiliating us but they blurred the faces of the men. In total, I got 20 pictures. I was not myself for a month. "I went back to school, I had no one to talk to. The rest of the semester was hell for me. My CGPA dropped drastically. It was the worst out of the worst result I ever had. "Till today, my friends and I have not discussed this with anyone, but all I could do when I heard of Cynthia's story was to narrate my own ordeal anonymously and spread the news, the word, and pray they see it and changed their ways. "I am now born again. I have given my life to Christ. I fear men so much that I cannot even move close to them. I still have nightmares, but with time, God will strengthen me and I will move on. My advice to single ladies out there is, do not be desperate for fun. Pray to God to open your eyes of understanding, and pray hard. He who kneels before God will stand before kings and queens. "To all married women, pray hard to God to intervene in your marriages and turn your husbands from bad habits to and bad friends. As for me, I do not think I ever want to get married or date a man again. That chapter has been closed for good in my life. Please, do not ignore my mail. Please post it. There are a lot of things we ladies need to learn including you. Please post it on your blog and save a soul. It could be your friend, sister, cousin, neighbour. "God bless you as you pass it on. To all readers, I do not care if you insult me or rain abuses at me. My job is to share this encounter with you and save you from any mishap. God bless you all. Amen." 1 Like |
Re: A Must Read For All Ladies - Beware !! by makelove2m(m): 2:12pm On Jun 13, 2013 |
AAAAAAAAHA, As u narrated this many of you women are still doing this, This is a mistake made out of foolishness,greed, and selfishness. How come do you think in this world that things come so easy, I always say this that woman has little heart, they are easily attracted with money,gifts, sweet stories etc,You enjoy another woman husband and you forgot that nothing goes for nothing, You have paid you dues but that is not enough, Rejection and demostrating hate to men is not the solution either, except you are death, you can't do without men, two are made to work together, You are aware that those men were married and you never care to ask yourself why you are taking the position of another woman, Girls can't stop amusing me, the other day , I heard a girl saying that married men pay and care more, and that thy(married men) understand the real value of a woman, Women i will advise you to be very careful, stay out of trouble, if you do not want to go extreme with a man, Don't just start it by accepting those precious and attractive gifts, If you observed that your Husband has some mistress outside , what would you do, this question should go into your head, each time the so called married men approached you !!!! |
Re: A Must Read For All Ladies - Beware !! by Nobody: 6:44pm On Jun 13, 2013 |
God is not Mocked. . . . |
Re: A Must Read For All Ladies - Beware !! by peziz(f): 9:32am On Jun 14, 2013 |
Hmmm.... If this story is real, then ds world is really scary. Women read and learn, and some men are truely beast like seriously, u can always pay girls and organise groupies if you want, so why go this far with such humilation. Am glad they came out alive, others may not be this lucky. I assume this men have kids daughter's included, lets see how well their evil act stares them in the face in the nearest future. |
Re: A Must Read For All Ladies - Beware !! by Rachy12(f): 9:52am On Jun 14, 2013 |
Girls of these days take risks,u were just lucky those men were not ritualist |
Re: A Must Read For All Ladies - Beware !! by Nobody: 6:51pm On Jan 06, 2018 |
I cracked at "I'm now born again". Lolll |
Re: A Must Read For All Ladies - Beware !! by JONNYSPUTE(m): 7:31pm On Jan 06, 2018 |
Greed,quest for the good things of life will kill some people not only girls. Honestly I was asking myself this question and I ve not been able to get an answer. You are a lady,you met somebody in a club and followed the person home,if the person is a ritualist he will get rid of you and nobody will find out,still yet some ladies are still doing it. When will some of this ladies learn. |
Re: A Must Read For All Ladies - Beware !! by kogi2010: 9:13pm On Jan 06, 2018 |
old story |
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