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Re: Making Love & Raising A Family by Nobody: 3:21am On Dec 17, 2013
The only password I have of my hubby is his internet banking and phone password. The password on his phone is his year of birth and he only pass word locked it cos of the kids. How did I know? Cos I use his phone to ring Nigeria all the time...he has a better plan and I don't use plans. I asked and he gave it to me

Ike di unu ncha na cho e mata ihe Nile undecided
Re: Making Love & Raising A Family by ferhyntorlah(f): 6:39am On Dec 17, 2013
coogar: but women? lord of mercy!!!
fake hair, fake brows, fake lashes, push-up bras to help fatigued böobs, fake pads to push up the bütt, fake nails, fake hymëns, fake armpit hair(i once saw a chic with strands of fake brazilian hair in her armpit) grin cheesy grin

so my dear, it is not the same.

My Dear Coogar,
All these "fake" accessories are to attract you men nao.
Re: Making Love & Raising A Family by Nobody: 7:19am On Dec 17, 2013

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Re: Making Love & Raising A Family by Nobody: 7:22am On Dec 17, 2013
Lovely contributions up there. As a single lady in a relationship with a guy with Anger management prob, Baby Mama and other matured minds, what ways would you recommend to live with such partner?
Re: Making Love & Raising A Family by Nobody: 7:26am On Dec 17, 2013
Re: Making Love & Raising A Family by Nobody: 7:32am On Dec 17, 2013
Re: Making Love & Raising A Family by EfemenaXY: 7:50am On Dec 17, 2013
^^ The middle finger to be precise tongue tongue
Re: Making Love & Raising A Family by Nobody: 8:40am On Dec 17, 2013
chaircover:

WRONG!!!! tongue grin grin grin grin

I heard that Its the fingers. Look at how long or fat the fingers are and then compare to the yekini. . . . . .

no be me talk am o! I be church sista grin grin grin grin
grin grin grin cheesy Wetin man no go see for nairaland? Na wa o! grin
Re: Making Love & Raising A Family by Nobody: 8:44am On Dec 17, 2013
Re: Making Love & Raising A Family by Nobody: 9:20am On Dec 17, 2013
coogar:


hahahaha - i trust her with my heart & soul. i could lock her in a room with 4,000 shirtless men & their 10-packs & throw the key away.

I've learned that trust, like respect, is reciprocal . . .

Does she trust you too? do you deserve to be trusted in a room filled with naked size 2 models undecided
Re: Making Love & Raising A Family by Nobody: 9:21am On Dec 17, 2013
jennykadry: The only password I have of my hubby is his internet banking and phone password. The password on his phone is his year of birth and he only pass word locked it cos of the kids. How did I know? Cos I use his phone to ring Nigeria all the time...he has a better plan and I don't use plans. I asked and he gave it to me

Ike di unu ncha na cho e mata ihe Nile undecided

Nwanyi a bu sharp babe . . grin grin

Honestly that and his ATM pin are the only passwords I need to know! cool

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Re: Making Love & Raising A Family by Nobody: 9:37am On Dec 17, 2013
What a thread



Following smiley
Re: Making Love & Raising A Family by bluuu: 9:38am On Dec 17, 2013
Ujujoan:

I've learned that trust, like respect, is reciprocal . . .

Does she trust you too? do you deserve to be trusted in a room filled with naked size 2 models undecided
i dont trust coogar in that area.
Ujujoan:

Nwanyi a bu sharp babe . . grin grin

Honestly that and his ATM pin are the only passwords I need to know! cool
grin gringrin
middle finger!! hmmm lipsrsealedlipsrsealed
Re: Making Love & Raising A Family by Adeybaba: 9:58am On Dec 17, 2013
I jst started following this thread and have learnt a lot from it I jst want to comment concerning the husband that is stingy am talking from experience the point is the guy is naturally stingy so sorry to say that from all what has being said the guy in qtn hand is tight when it comes to anything 4 d wife.

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Re: Making Love & Raising A Family by Saraha1(f): 10:23am On Dec 17, 2013
Make na no corrupt me oh. Am still a student oh. Lol
Re: Making Love & Raising A Family by damiso(f): 10:26am On Dec 17, 2013
Efemena_xy: ^^ The middle finger to be precise tongue tongue

Father Lord in Heaven,My eyes hurt grin grin grin grin.But all of una are married women why una dey wonder about other men's yekinis angry grin, face your oga's yekini pls tongue tongue tongue.

As for Passwords pins etc, as others have said the only ones I am really bothered about is the bank cards, internet banking grin grin grin and I know those.As has been said knowing those stuff should not be the premise for saying he cheats or not.It should be more a convenience thing.

My Mum and Dad have this old family friend I have known all my life.The man is on his 2nd marriage to someone who should be working for the CIA (she snatched the man from his first wife as she was a member of the household staff don't want to give specifics cos he is quite known in Naija coporate circles). I guess she knows the score tongue grin.Monitors the man like someone who is crazed, people can't even visit them at home without her suspecting.Do you know this man has another wife(ok mistress) in London? He has phones she does not even know about.He keeps them in people's offices not even his cos she can just show up and start ransacking.In a way I do not pity the man but when my mum paints the specifics its a really pathetic case.So its not about phones and passwords.
Re: Making Love & Raising A Family by Nobody: 10:51am On Dec 17, 2013
damiso:

Father Lord in Heaven,My eyes hurt grin grin grin grin.But all of una are married women why una dey wonder about other men's yekinis angry grin, face your oga's yekini pls tongue tongue tongue.

As for Passwords pins etc, as others have said the only ones I am really bothered about is the bank cards, internet banking grin grin grin and I know those.As has been said knowing those stuff should not be the premise for saying he cheats or not.It should be more a convenience thing.

My Mum and Dad have this old family friend I have known all my life.The man is on his 2nd marriage to someone who should be working for the CIA (she snatched the man from his first wife as she was a member of the household staff don't want to give specifics cos he is quite known in Naija coporate circles). I guess she knows the score tongue grin.Monitors the man like someone who is crazed, people can't even visit them at home without her suspecting.Do you know this man has another wife(ok mistress) in London? He has phones she does not even know about.He keeps them in people's offices not even his cos she can just show up and start ransacking.In a way I do not pity the man but when my mum paints the specifics its a really pathetic case.So its not about phones and passwords.
Yes my sister. You are right! Some men are snakes, you can never predict them. When women say they keep secrets better than men, i just can't help but laugh! Do you know how many men are raising families outside without madam knowing? And his friends will know and keep shut?
Re: Making Love & Raising A Family by Nobody: 11:08am On Dec 17, 2013
Ujujoan:

Nwanyi a bu sharp babe . . grin grin

Honestly that and his ATM pin are the only passwords I need to know! cool
Fa eji'ro Igbo agwa onye Ocha oku wink

The Internet banking is easy, you can transfer money anytime anywhere cool
Re: Making Love & Raising A Family by Nobody: 11:11am On Dec 17, 2013
damiso:

Father Lord in Heaven,My eyes hurt grin grin grin grin.But all of una are married women why una dey wonder about other men's yekinis angry grin, face your oga's yekini pls tongue tongue tongue.

.

Don't mind them embarassed
Re: Making Love & Raising A Family by coogar: 11:15am On Dec 17, 2013
ferhyntorlah:

My Dear Coogar,
All these "fake" accessories are to attract you men nao.

accessories to attract us or accessories to boost self confidence?

Ujujoan:
I've learned that trust, like respect, is reciprocal . . .

Does she trust you too? do you deserve to be trusted in a room filled with naked size 2 models undecided

whoa!!!
never thought of this. this is a very good question i am going to ask her. can she trust me with nüde models? i doubt it. she'd rather not want to conduct such an evil experiment.


Efemena_xy: ^^ The middle finger to be precise tongue tongue

looking at my middle finger & feeling highly blessed. grin
Re: Making Love & Raising A Family by Nobody: 11:59am On Dec 17, 2013
yellowpawpaw: I don't want to qoute u baby mama. Why did u say so? Is it statistically proven?
It might be true sha.

Just like I assumed that tall lanky guys have massive rod while big ones don't.


Jesu!
Re: Making Love & Raising A Family by Nobody: 12:02pm On Dec 17, 2013
See the kind discussion married women dey get for here grin grin grin Yekini discussioncheesy cheesy Make una continue.
Re: Making Love & Raising A Family by Nobody: 12:04pm On Dec 17, 2013
jennykadry:

Don't mind them embarassed

grin
Your own is even worse cos you have hooded and hoodless magnified yekini search warrant.
Re: Making Love & Raising A Family by Nobody: 12:27pm On Dec 17, 2013
PocketEconomist: You are right... The one that surprised me the most is that of Tiger Woods. He had a pretty wife, although that does not equate to being a kwokirikwo tigress, but that woman was gorgeous! He even got involved with porn stars! A man who is not contented will always cheat no matter what. Take that from me. It's lack of self control that pushes men into it. There is no excuse foq cheating. Although there should be a small room for forgiveness if you can.
I wouldn't exonerate any cheat but if a man or woman fails to care for their bodies as far as they can, they have little right to take issue with a spouse that loses sexxual interest in them. Look after your body. Nobody said you need to be Halle Berry or Idris Alba or whatever his name is, but you certainly need to care.
Re: Making Love & Raising A Family by Nobody: 12:43pm On Dec 17, 2013
chaircover:

That one was easy. We have one general password for everything and if it expires we start adding numbers to the end. Its even easier for us that way cos how many passwords will you need to remember. Also either of us can pretend to be the other when we ring up utility companies. He has only been caught once when he forgot to put on his feminine voice when speaking to sky TV. For us its about convenience.

Even our ATM pin numbers are the same for our UK and Naija banks. If I want to go shopping and cant find my purse, I just pick his card from his wallet and go.

As for phones, none of our phones has ever had a password on it. We have several phones each and they are aways lying around on chargers all over the house.

I am good at writing Emails and he doesnt, and so many times he asks me to send Emails from his box. Sometimes if someone sends him an Email that he wants me to see, he will call me and tell me to log into his account and read the email from so and so

As for facebook, the even the kids have that one and they use his fb account to post updates on their games . . very embarrassing, but he doesnt mind.

For us its not about checking up on each other or invading privacy, with todays jet age and with everything being password protected from checking your mobile phone bill to your tax return account and all what not its just so much easier for us.

If he were going to cheat, I am sure that he will find cleverer ways of pulling the wool over my eyes.
Darn! That's beautiful.
Re: Making Love & Raising A Family by Nobody: 12:48pm On Dec 17, 2013
joy4anney: Lovely contributions up there. As a single lady in a relationship with a guy with Anger management prob, Baby Mama and other matured minds, what ways would you recommend to live with such partner?
BM, CC, JK et al, what do y'all have to say?
Re: Making Love & Raising A Family by deols(f): 1:01pm On Dec 17, 2013
damiso:

Father Lord in Heaven,My eyes hurt grin grin grin grin.But all of una are married women why una dey wonder about other men's yekinis angry grin, face your oga's yekini pls tongue tongue tongue.

As for Passwords pins etc, as others have said the only ones I am really bothered about is the bank cards, internet banking grin grin grin and I know those.As has been said knowing those stuff should not be the premise for saying he cheats or not.It should be more a convenience thing.

My Mum and Dad have this old family friend I have known all my life.The man is on his 2nd marriage to someone who should be working for the CIA (she snatched the man from his first wife as she was a member of the household staff don't want to give specifics cos he is quite known in Naija coporate circles). I guess she knows the score tongue grin.Monitors the man like someone who is crazed, people can't even visit them at home without her suspecting.Do you know this man has another wife(ok mistress) in London? He has phones she does not even know about.He keeps them in people's offices not even his cos she can just show up and start ransacking.In a way I do not pity the man but when my mum paints the specifics its a really pathetic case.So its not about phones and passwords.

Ole gbe, Ole gba..interesting story.
Re: Making Love & Raising A Family by Nobody: 1:33pm On Dec 17, 2013

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Re: Making Love & Raising A Family by thehunted(m): 2:27pm On Dec 17, 2013
carmelion:

My dear,the thing tire me.

I heard the love vanishes when they start paying school fees.lol

This marriage thing sef.I tire.

Where is greatgod2012?.May god help us allgrin

SMH FOR YOU
Re: Making Love & Raising A Family by EfemenaXY: 2:29pm On Dec 17, 2013
joy4anney:
Lovely contributions up there. As a single lady in a relationship with a guy with Anger management prob, Baby Mama and other matured minds, what ways would you recommend to live with such partner?

There is a very thin line between a person with anger issues and one prone to committing physical abuse. What's to stop such a person from physically lashing out at their partner when irked?

Joy, I'll advise you - as the woman involved in a relationship with this man - to keep your distance. Yes you can support him (from a safe distance) towards resolving his issues via encouraging him to attend anger management classes and to see a psychiatrist too.

Is this guy involved in substance abuse? Because if he is, that more than explains his irrational behaviour which I no doubt believe might even border on psychosis.
Re: Making Love & Raising A Family by Nobody: 3:45pm On Dec 17, 2013
coogar:

whoa!!!
never thought of this. this is a very good question i am going to ask her. can she trust me with nüde models? i doubt it. she'd rather not want to conduct such an evil experiment.

Good . . . then you better don't attempt to conduct same for her!

A Pregnant woman says she can only trust the child in her womb . . as for the one on her back, she can't vouch for! cool cool
Re: Making Love & Raising A Family by Nobody: 3:49pm On Dec 17, 2013
damiso:

Father Lord in Heaven,My eyes hurt grin grin grin grin.But all of una are married women why una dey wonder about other men's yekinis angry grin, face your oga's yekini pls tongue tongue tongue.

As for Passwords pins etc, as others have said the only ones I am really bothered about is the bank cards, internet banking grin grin grin and I know those.As has been said knowing those stuff should not be the premise for saying he cheats or not.It should be more a convenience thing.

My Mum and Dad have this old family friend I have known all my life.The man is on his 2nd marriage to someone who should be working for the CIA (she snatched the man from his first wife as she was a member of the household staff don't want to give specifics cos he is quite known in Naija coporate circles). I guess she knows the score tongue grin.Monitors the man like someone who is crazed, people can't even visit them at home without her suspecting.Do you know this man has another wife(ok mistress) in London? He has phones she does not even know about.He keeps them in people's offices not even his cos she can just show up and start ransacking.In a way I do not pity the man but when my mum paints the specifics its a really pathetic case.So its not about phones and passwords.

You are sooo on point Dami . . . even if you have all the passwords in his life, you still won't be able to catch him if he's smart and careful!

All he needs to do is hit the delete button! cool cool

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