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Re: Making Love & Raising A Family by Nobody: 3:53pm On Dec 17, 2013 |
So I have a question for the married Nairaland men/women Do you ever have a crush . . . . an Achilles heel in the form of the opposite sex . . . someone who's not your wife/husband and yet you can't trust yourself in a room alone with him/her ! Does having feelings for someone else mean you don't love your husband/wife How do you handle unresolved feelings for an ex . . . 1 Like |
Re: Making Love & Raising A Family by willyboss: 3:59pm On Dec 17, 2013 |
joy4anney: Lovely contributions up there. As a single lady in a relationship with a guy with Anger management prob, Baby Mama and other matured minds, what ways would you recommend to live with such partner?@joy4anney,from ur post, it seems to me u've made up ur mind to live with him(damning the consequence). I would want to know if he hits u at the slightest of provocations or whenever he's in a rage.is he into drugs(or do u suspect he does drugs)? Women for who they are can provoke u to breaking point but that's never an excuse for a man to lay his hand on her. People say 'love is blind' but lovers shouldn't be! If he's in the habit of hitting u then that's a warning sign(scarlet flag) that I think u should consider strongly.ur life is very important u know(if not to u but to ur loved ones). If u think u can cope with it,no problem. Not all that glitter is gold! |
Re: Making Love & Raising A Family by EfemenaXY: 4:04pm On Dec 17, 2013 |
Ujujoan: So I have a question for the married Nairaland men/women YES O!! I've got the hots for a couple of actors, one of which is a certain actor on the hit Channel 4 Series called Top Boy. Only thing is I can't ever have him na Damiso, help me out here... you recorded the entire series 1 and 2 - what's his real name sef?? 2nd choice is another actor on Sky Living currently showing the Dracula series...Mwah!!! Oh for that kiss on the neck - so romantic! I even like him better than him appearing as King Henry VIII |
Re: Making Love & Raising A Family by Nobody: 4:21pm On Dec 17, 2013 |
Efe, be serious naw Uju is very serious. Uju pls don't mind her. I hvnt had such experience. But I don't think u can love two at a time. One must be infatuation or s*exual feelings and that if not handled well can explode into something else. As for an ex, once u r an ex, every other thing about u is completely erased from my system. New life, new joy and happiness and of course new ikwokirikwo Old things hv passed away |
Re: Making Love & Raising A Family by EfemenaXY: 4:29pm On Dec 17, 2013 |
^^ Who says I'm not being serious here? Or you're telling me that because they're actors it doesn't count? So why then does my heart go all flippety-flop when I see Duschane on Top Boy? Or me laying in bed, tossing and turning restlessly when the full moon comes out at night, thinking of mine only Dracula? YPP 'n Uju, pls help a sister out here! |
Re: Making Love & Raising A Family by coogar: 5:42pm On Dec 17, 2013 |
Ujujoan: i have conducted it thrice for her & she passed!
the pregnant woman is right - she doesn't even know the father of the child on her back & the one in her womb. i can see the difficulty in vouching. |
Re: Making Love & Raising A Family by Nobody: 6:57pm On Dec 17, 2013 |
@Willy, efemena and CC, thanks for ur response. He does not lay hands/ beat. But he talks out of anger things that can be hurtful at times and then switch off into his own zone |
Re: Making Love & Raising A Family by damiso(f): 7:08pm On Dec 17, 2013 |
Efemena_xy: Ashley Walters...Him and the other guy were in Kidulthood I think he is a rappers(hubby is always like I don't get your fascination with gang/street life ) I guess its true women kinda like bad boys. And yeah I agree with Efe, those tv crushes can be something else o .I actually blush when I watch Idris Elba, I don't know what will happen if I meet him in real life. . As per exes, my most serious ex was a douche bag so there is no unresolved feelings there .I don't think I have fancied any guy in that way since I got married. |
Re: Making Love & Raising A Family by Nobody: 7:09pm On Dec 17, 2013 |
joy4anney: Lovely contributions up there. As a single lady in a relationship with a guy with Anger management prob, Baby Mama and other matured minds, what ways would you recommend to live with such partner? If you don't mind,before I answer I want you to tell me what he has done when angry and what triggers the anger That is very important Be very sincere and open please and I and others will give our honest opinion. Waiting to hear from you |
Re: Making Love & Raising A Family by Nobody: 7:14pm On Dec 17, 2013 |
Ujujoan: Very sharp babe One time a refund check landed in both our names Fear no gree me forge his signature like my fellow women do,my gal pal was like GABA,just use left hand and sign his name I need to know how people get access to the accounts I need advice on that one My man is ultra savvy with what goes on with his money He is on the stingy side If you like blow his mind in the bedroom and his eyes are dim,once you talk about dollars,he is wide awake and latching unto his wallet. That is one huge flaw he has.he grew up poor and I think that is part of why he is stingy. |
Re: Making Love & Raising A Family by Nobody: 7:23pm On Dec 17, 2013 |
damiso: That is why I said a man that cheats will cheat no matter what He could have a phone and email accounts the wife never knows about and communicates with the other woman with that phone So thinking you have his password as a safety net is pointless. |
Re: Making Love & Raising A Family by EfemenaXY: 7:33pm On Dec 17, 2013 |
Baby mama: Lol! Osisi, you have absolutely no idea how I so...so...feel you on this! I bet your hubby's signature must be real neat and complicated like mine. So hard to forge even after nearly two decades of married life My own na real gra-gra writing...no time to waste. 1 Like |
Re: Making Love & Raising A Family by Nobody: 7:36pm On Dec 17, 2013 |
Ujujoan: So I have a question for the married Nairaland men/women I was trying to put together a post about exes and FB and social media Many married women have gone routes they never anticipated ,no thanks to FB and Internet fora As a rule I don't accept FB friendships from any man I was ever involved in romantically I have been asked but I have turned them all down I was engaged to someone and broke an engagement to marry my hubby and that man found me on FB and asked to be friends ,he is now married with children but I declined It is too dangerous We all know ourselves and how we are made There is no man I was involved with that I have bad tales about,they were all very loving relationships that could have been happy unions too I don't want to be reminded of the things we did and how it was It is dangerous to do so I accepted FB friends of this guy I had known from the age of 13 who liked and adored me from when we were kids He pursued me till I turned 23 when we lost touch,I told him when I was getting married and he wrote one last letter telling me how much he adored me,he is only 2 years older.he writes very beautifully and always wrote me letters though those years. I don't have my birthday on FB but surprisingly this man still remembered my birthday and wrote the most romantic poem on my FB wall on my BD 3 years ago When I saw it my heart skipped and I quickly deleted it I don't hate him ,but I choose to guard my heart and not give people bad impressions even though I did nothing wrong. Now can a married woman develop feelings for someone else Definitely yes,it is very possible and it happens Does that mean you don't love your spouse ,probably not How do you guard against it? It is a conscious effort not to go down that part making rules for your self and cutting off that relationship entirely That's why we need to guard our hearts It is easier with someone you had a history with rather than a brand new man so keep them at arm's length |
Re: Making Love & Raising A Family by EfemenaXY: 7:46pm On Dec 17, 2013 |
damiso: Ashley Walters...even the name sounds romatic sef...handsome, sexy dude... I bet he's got baby soft palms too...(sigh) Dami, who's Idris Elba? Osisi, sorry for the digression o! A girl's allowed to dream na, abi? |
Re: Making Love & Raising A Family by Nobody: 7:49pm On Dec 17, 2013 |
Efemena_xy: Idris Elba hmm My best friend adores that guy and yes she is married She thinks he is the sexiest man on earth See his picture attached I think Barack Obama is very sexy Whenever I see him on TV there is this smile on my face and when he smiles,Chei That man was created on a Sunday wallahi rofl But this is different I am not looking to sleep with Obama Liking people on TV is different IMHO The man di too much sha and my hubby knows I like him and teases me with it You should be able to play with your spouse I know he likes Aisha Cesay and loves to see her on TV,he thinks she is very gorgeous and I agree,she is beautiful It's all innocent I know he likes big boobs for instance and when we see a woman with boobs I know exactly what he is thinking and sometimes in that play mood our eyes meet and I punch him in the shoulder and we start laughing. I am not intimidated,he has eyes he is allowed to look I ain't lacking at all at all
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Re: Making Love & Raising A Family by Parisfran(f): 7:57pm On Dec 17, 2013 |
Baby mama: Your BFF's crush is gay . My BFF had a crush for yrs on that Prison Break guy and when he proclaimed his gay status, I laughed at her for months.. |
Re: Making Love & Raising A Family by EfemenaXY: 7:59pm On Dec 17, 2013 |
Baby mama: Lol! Very true. I think part of the appeal is knowing they are out of reach. Nice pic of Idris but Ashley beats him - hands down, by a mile!
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Re: Making Love & Raising A Family by Nobody: 8:02pm On Dec 17, 2013 |
Paris-fran: That is a small boy na To me o I don't find small boys sexy Person wey suppose call me aunty Is that boy there over 25 ? |
Re: Making Love & Raising A Family by EfemenaXY: 8:07pm On Dec 17, 2013 |
Baby mama: Lol! My turn to laugh Baby mama: Lol! Osisi, you're funny! Okay, Wesley Snipes... Oh yes...sex on legs... 1 Like
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Re: Making Love & Raising A Family by Nobody: 8:51pm On Dec 17, 2013 |
Efemena_xy: Tua! An ex convict A criminal that spent time in the penitentiary God forbid bad tinz !! This one get serious comma No abeg |
Re: Making Love & Raising A Family by Nobody: 9:05pm On Dec 17, 2013 |
My oh my! These ladies r spoilt! CC will soon come with Vin vicker and 007 May God forgive u all! *Sprinkles holy water* |
Re: Making Love & Raising A Family by Nobody: 9:14pm On Dec 17, 2013 |
Chai! See discussion! And if you see your oga sampling ukwu... Una go give am dirty slap. |
Re: Making Love & Raising A Family by willyboss: 9:18pm On Dec 17, 2013 |
joy4anney: @Willy, efemena and CC, thanks for ur response. He does not lay hands/ beat. But he talks out of anger things that can be hurtful at times and then switch off into his own zone@joy4anney,you should be grateful to God Almighty u have a guy that tells and expresses how he feels when he's angry.that means such a guy might not bear grudge.it's always better when people let off steam when they are angry than keeping mum,seeking vengeance. You'll do urself alot of good by avoiding things/situations that triggers his anger button.whenever he switches off,u have it in u to switch him on...wishing u the best in ur relationship.w |
Re: Making Love & Raising A Family by Nobody: 9:23pm On Dec 17, 2013 |
@Baby Mama, in all sincerity, anytin he is angry and we are apart all he does is not to pick my calls and if I provoke him the money he says words that could be hurtful. When together he has never raised his hands. He would just walk out if possible or stay mute |
Re: Making Love & Raising A Family by damiso(f): 9:49pm On Dec 17, 2013 |
Paris-fran: Idris Elba is gay . No I don't believe you joor. |
Re: Making Love & Raising A Family by damiso(f): 9:54pm On Dec 17, 2013 |
Efemena_xy: Idris Elba is Luther (a crime show on BBC 1).He also played the lead in the new Mandela movie.His voice, his skin......Pls let me stop .Hubby knows I like him sha same way I know he thinks beyonce is gorgeous. |
Re: Making Love & Raising A Family by Nobody: 12:45am On Dec 18, 2013 |
joy4anney: @Baby Mama, in all sincerity, anytin he is angry and we are apart all he does is not to pick my calls and if I provoke him the money he says words that could be hurtful. When together he has never raised his hands. He would just walk out if possible or stay mute So why do you call him? Seriously why do you call him? Is he a boyfriend or a husband? I don't get your desperado technique here . Someone is angry and would like to be left alone, let him be naw...why are you suffocating him Sorry osisi I just couldn't help it 1 Like |
Re: Making Love & Raising A Family by Nobody: 12:47am On Dec 18, 2013 |
@CC Say what CC? What is Kama sutra Idris Elba is not gay, isn't his woman expecting for him ? Damn he is gorgeous... Even Obama told women to give him breathing space in the White House. I cannot wait to watch his Mandela movie.....he was nominated for awards |
Re: Making Love & Raising A Family by Nobody: 1:33am On Dec 18, 2013 |
Nairaland women and hawt celebrities . . . SMH! |
Re: Making Love & Raising A Family by Nobody: 9:39am On Dec 18, 2013 |
Baby mama: Tnx Mama Osisi . . . this is very helpful. |
Re: Making Love & Raising A Family by Nobody: 9:40am On Dec 18, 2013 |
yellowpawpaw: Efe, be serious naw ikwokirikwo mistress . . . |
Re: Making Love & Raising A Family by Nobody: 9:44am On Dec 18, 2013 |
Meanwhile joke apart . . . I think I'm in love with Jackson Avery of Grey's anatomy. Anybody trusting me in a room alone with him is tempting satan That rugged bad boy look is heavenly . . . his smile actually makes my heart skip for real. He's on my must meet celebrities list . . even if it's just to look into his ever so green eyes just once . . . *faints*
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