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Re: When The Wrong One Loves You Right. by Odunharry(m): 11:00am On Aug 03, 2014 |
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Re: When The Wrong One Loves You Right. by lanrefront1(m): 11:17am On Aug 03, 2014 |
holamiday: I'm currently in that situation right now. My lover in secondary school, 7 years ago, is still head over heels in love with me. She calls, tries to convince me we are meant to be, advises our other friends of the situation so they can talk to me and all that. She tells me how she's turned down myriads of proposals from other guys & that she's still a virgin all because of me. Sometimes she even cries on the phone saying i was her first love. It's obvious she still has those long forgotten feelings. She's a good girl & quite good-looking on every level. I just use the above post as an example. There are many others similar to it. The point is this: almost every commentator on this thread do not understand what the saying "when the wrong ones love you right". Its not talking about un-reciprocated love which many are terming it to be. If someone loves you and you don't feel like loving them back, then he/she is not loving you right because they simply are not the one for you. "When the wrong one loves you right" means when a guy or girl comes along, exactly the type of person that you like, right type of beauty, right height, right built, right financial status, does the right thing says the right thing, considerate, kind-hearted, unselfish, cares deeply for you, but alas, he or her is the wrong person because: Maybe he/she from OSU caste Maybe you discover he has gone out with your elder sister some seven years ago Maybe your parents wants you to marry an Ibo spouse and you've promised them you would and this person happens to be Yoruba or Hausa. Maybe he is a Muslim and you happen to be a Christian girl, but you're at peace with him more than all the Christians brothers Maybe after sometime you discover that you guys are second or third cousins Maybe after a while, you discover that he or she is the child of your Father's business rival. Maybe after a while, you discover he is a loan shark or she is or she is a singer who sings a night clubs for a living...... Etcetera and etcetera...... So guys, understand and start commenting rightly... So what would you do when the wrong love you right? 2 Likes |
Re: When The Wrong One Loves You Right. by Nobody: 11:28am On Aug 03, 2014 |
GodMode:I have self esteem issues because i no longer find someone attractive after many years?? I don't understand your reasoning. 1 Like |
Re: When The Wrong One Loves You Right. by vanbonattel: 11:30am On Aug 03, 2014 |
They say it's wrong to date a married man but if a married man loves you right? 1 Like |
Re: When The Wrong One Loves You Right. by Nobody: 11:34am On Aug 03, 2014 |
[quote author=donpeey22] That's why i said that it depends on what the person you love consider as 'the right thing'. Do you know that there are some girls that would not date a guy they consider to be too confident? Among undergraduate male students for instance, there are those that are bookworms, they hardly have time to party or show off those shiny stuffs that some girls find attractive, but they are the ones that end up graduating with best results and become influential people in the future. Most of the times when such guys try to approach a girl in this category for a relationship, they get rejected. On the other hand there are some girls that would look beyond how the guy was dressed at that moment, or that he might not have enough time/cash to take her partying, and accept him way he is, so they manage to build the relationship and become a successful couple in the future. Now, compare the two scenario above and see why i said earlier that getting a girl by doing or saying the right thing like you said depends on what she considers as the right thing. And unfortunately, it is difficult to know what a girl might HONESTLY consider as the right thing [/quote)true talk,most interesting comment. 2 Likes |
Re: When The Wrong One Loves You Right. by Richy4(m): 11:36am On Aug 03, 2014 |
lanrefront1: Sorry to quote you but did you read what the OP wrote? many comment here are in line with the OP's write up. maybe you just read the head line and did not care to understand what she wrote 3 Likes |
Re: When The Wrong One Loves You Right. by Nobody: 11:44am On Aug 03, 2014 |
Elle780: Yea u nailed it. Is 4 d cute and sexyI wish it would be a fair show and not like that |
Re: When The Wrong One Loves You Right. by sirjohnson(m): 11:45am On Aug 03, 2014 |
iamtewwy: this might b off topic tho, but i have to du ds because it has been bothering me and giving me concerns am 21 and have not dated any gal before, my reason for not going into any relationship is dat, Just go and woo, sorry I mean toast a gal, what you will do afterwards will come automatically. |
Re: When The Wrong One Loves You Right. by lanrefront1(m): 11:45am On Aug 03, 2014 |
Richy4: Oh, I forgot to include the OP among the people I'm talking about....she does not really understand the saying which was popularised by Celine Dione's song "When the wrong ones love you right" Neither IAS she able to communicate it adequately. see some of the thing she wrote: ((i heard people said this so many times but i still dont understand the meaning behind it. I know i have loved someone that doesnt deserve me and i may have ignored some great guys who genuinely loved me.)) |
Re: When The Wrong One Loves You Right. by Nobody: 11:45am On Aug 03, 2014 |
adexsimply: don't ever mistake infatuation for love.Point taken. |
Re: When The Wrong One Loves You Right. by lasheez(m): 11:48am On Aug 03, 2014 |
The one you like does not want you,the one you dont really like wants you.Its a double edge sword but you can learn to like the later wth time and your dream will finally come true. |
Re: When The Wrong One Loves You Right. by Nobody: 1:00pm On Aug 03, 2014 |
Ok, since everyone's sharing their experiences, let me share mine. I have this female friend, she loves me to the extent she can even do anything for me. I was fond of her before but later, the feeling grew cold and distant. I didn't understand what happened but it just happened (mind you, I didn't sleep with her). This girl is so cute, she has these beautiful eyes and skin coupled with good character. I know many guys dying to see her smile at them but I just feel weird when I'm with her. I don't really know what's wrong with me, I try as much as possible to show some love, atleast feign love abit but in the end, I feel awkward. I guess this world is filled with love and couples but we match it with the wrong persons. I pray one day, I find a way of loving that girl because she'll be a "blessing" to a man. |
Re: When The Wrong One Loves You Right. by teeblazer: 1:38pm On Aug 03, 2014 |
Kinkybraids: Very interesting and relevant topic. It reminds me of what my older brother said to me once. ....yeah. |
Re: When The Wrong One Loves You Right. by ElNur1: 1:39pm On Aug 03, 2014 |
nickz: fu ck LOVE 1M likes 4 u... He all about her but she all about hers.. 1 Like |
Re: When The Wrong One Loves You Right. by novia22(f): 1:40pm On Aug 03, 2014 |
Kinkybraids: Very interesting and relevant topic. It reminds me of what my older brother said to me once. Nne eeeh God will bless u for dropping this kinda comment. All it takes is turning back and giving the other person waiting a chance..that's the problem I had. I found myself loving someone immensely when the nigga had a girlfriend, claimed he loved me and when I selfishly asked him to break up with her for us to be together, the nigga told me he couldn't cos he doesn't know what tommorow holds...Meanwhile there was this other guy who was virtually on his knees begging for a chance to prove himself to me ...I took the bold step of giving him a chance and till this moment I'm typing this, I dnt and have never regretted making that decision. 3 Likes |
Re: When The Wrong One Loves You Right. by userbusy21: 1:41pm On Aug 03, 2014 |
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Re: When The Wrong One Loves You Right. by Nobody: 2:13pm On Aug 03, 2014 |
that's life for you, somebody is trying very hard to get your attention but you are very busy trying to get someone elses attention and that person also have some other person he/she is looking up to get the list keeps on going. |
Re: When The Wrong One Loves You Right. by Nobody: 2:30pm On Aug 03, 2014 |
novia22:at times what you need to love that person you see as the wrong person back is to give the person your attention and concetration and maybe before you say jack, you have fallen in love completely. |
Re: When The Wrong One Loves You Right. by Flygeriansteve: 2:32pm On Aug 03, 2014 |
The perfect situation is when you love someone and that person loves you back. Sadly this rarely happens and you have to content yourself with loving someone who doesn't love you or being loved by sb you don't love. I don't wish either on myself but if faced with a choice, I'd choose the latter--the wrong one loving you right. Call it tough love perhaps, at least you don't run the risk of giving love and affection and never receiving your entire life. I seek those things which I know will destroy me in the end-Anon |
Re: When The Wrong One Loves You Right. by Nobody: 2:32pm On Aug 03, 2014 |
novia22: I guess my brother was right after all. While we were debating I told him I dont see the point of turning around and being unsatisfied, he then said the guy that you give a chance to by turning around will not waste that chance and he will work harder to keep you. To support this further ( just to say you trully made a great decision) I was advised by two married women at work when i was 20 (still young and naive). They said that a woman should always be with a man that loves her more than she loves him because he will always put her first and value her. All the best 3 Likes |
Re: When The Wrong One Loves You Right. by Nobody: 2:43pm On Aug 03, 2014 |
lasheez: The one you like does not want you,the one you dont really like wants you.Its a double edge sword but you can learn to like the later wth time and your dream will finally come true. i have to disagree. They will never love you. I had to learn this the hard way. If you are man maybe because women can learn to love. If you are woman loving a man that doesnt want you, he will eat the food you cook for him, keep you as his companion until he meets someone, use you for his sexual needs and even humiliate you for being so foolish to still love him. Men can be selfish 2 Likes |
Re: When The Wrong One Loves You Right. by ihedinobi2: 3:30pm On Aug 03, 2014 |
onstelly:Why? |
Re: When The Wrong One Loves You Right. by Orikinla(m): 3:36pm On Aug 03, 2014 |
Be realistic. Whosoever loves you honestly is the right person. Personally, girls and women who are not attractive seem to dislike me. In fact, some of them hiss whenever they see me. But those who are beautiful, pretty and sexy like me and they include the married ones. So, they are not wrong ones. No wrong one can love you truly. |
Re: When The Wrong One Loves You Right. by uzoexcel(m): 3:47pm On Aug 03, 2014 |
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Re: When The Wrong One Loves You Right. by novia22(f): 3:47pm On Aug 03, 2014 |
Kinkybraids: I always believed and still believe in that saying....because in most sincere cases, the lady has no option to fall back in love with the guy/man....and everyone is happy apart from bad belles of course! |
Re: When The Wrong One Loves You Right. by uzoexcel(m): 3:51pm On Aug 03, 2014 |
hit d gym and all ll be well Krystalxxx: These days....love to a naija guy only happens with some well rounded, very pretty, cute or assy girl. So called love only exists for certain people |
Re: When The Wrong One Loves You Right. by jp130(m): 3:53pm On Aug 03, 2014 |
wel so much being said abt lov. i wud advice guys n ladies to always turn to God for guidance. most guys are weak by alowi ourselves to b control by our eye(wat we c), mind(inteligent likes in a woman), etc n dereby hurti pples feelings. i tinx relationships shud end in mariage else dnt go in. stay by urself if u cn |
Re: When The Wrong One Loves You Right. by Nobody: 4:08pm On Aug 03, 2014 |
uzoexcel: hit d gym and all ll be wellI don't think you know me ....I'm the one person who is as thin as a toothpick...no matter what or how much I eat(or I'm forced to eat).lol...my plump frnd in sec skul used to vex,she had ulcers trying to lose weigt and I stay over slim no matter what I eat |
Re: When The Wrong One Loves You Right. by uzoexcel(m): 4:09pm On Aug 03, 2014 |
loll.was jst pulln ur legs..nice sense of humour u got Krystalxxx: |
Re: When The Wrong One Loves You Right. by adexsimply(m): 4:15pm On Aug 03, 2014 |
novia22:not always true |
Re: When The Wrong One Loves You Right. by novia22(f): 4:30pm On Aug 03, 2014 |
adexsimply: not always true That's why I used the words " most" and "sincere" in the comment I made. |
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