i and my girlfriend have been dating for the past nine months, we have our issues like every normal relationship, i was her first intimate relationship, i was in my final year she was in her second year but due 2 some, she's in her first year. recently we had some serious trust issues and we kinda broke up, i did a lot of things she said a lot of things we both wronged each other and said things 2 hurt each other. the bottom line is that some where along d line, we found ourselves 2geda again.
i'm thru wit school n yet 2 serve, i reside 2hrs away from the town where i schooled and she schools and resides in that same town. i've heard her complain about what its going to be like next year 4 her, i must agree its not going 2 be easy though i have plans on how 2 make things easy 4 us but during our fight she said some things dat made me decide this morning that we should be non-exclusive,i.e feel free to date other guys dnt tell me about it, and i too shld feel free to date but no details. there is every possibility dat we might find love else where, but honestly i want 2 work on my self i'm too possesive. i told her about this and asked her opinion she said i found some one else n want her 2 switch 2 a game mode because of that. truth is dat she stepped out of line b4 we broke up i'm just , i dnt know wat 2 do but bliv it wat really bad. i dnt know if i am making a mistake right now i need ur opinion on this plz if dia's any thing else u wld like 2 know i'm ready to tell cos i need help

well i dont knw man, all i hv 2 say is dat rite now u really need 2 concentrate on ur life, she step out may because she wnts more tins which u might not really hav rite nw. get does tins n u will b a better man.

You should have just told her you needed an opportunity to play . . . I wonder when guys are going to stop coming up with 'cute' excuses to cheat

yes u made a mistake. but u must move on and learn from it. urs is not peculiar as most of us males have been so stupid before. u will waste more time dreaming that u can get her 2 return 2 loving ways with u as u ones enjoyed but thats far from it now.Anyway, try it and u will see what i am talking about.
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The mistake is not heavy as you think

let her go!