lolaredvelvet:


Dont be ridiculous. If you dont understand one's plight because you haven't suffered their fate, then dont comment at all

@OP.. although your mother might have failed you as a parent, you can still move on to a better life. Find a mentor e.g a pastor, uncle, aunty etc.. that can play the role of a guardian your life. Get closer to God, learn some skills, work hard to make something of your future. Dont let this affect you mentally so that you wont continue the cycle into your children's life. Stay positive and remember that you deserve to be loved. You may not have gotten that love from her but the beauty of life is that you can create your own loving family with ur future wife