LewisO:

Tashaamania:

tf is wrong with you?

kristina1:
A lady is supposed to do all this without complaint,it's awkward to even think some cant do it.
However,a man is supposed to help when she is tired,disposed or weak.

Vyolet:
If she cannot do any of those,why not do them yourself? Is any duty gender specific?

cyprianlah:
Please answer o,cause I don't understand

cyprianlah:


See them! Always coverin dia asses! Let. Ur husband cook for U

naijaboiy:

Shattap and go and learn how to do those chores instead of lazying about here

naijaboiy:

So because I can do those chores I should leave my work to come and be doing what my wife is supposed to do

I can only help and not take it upon myself to be the cleaner of the house.

How can a lady at 25 not know how to do any of these simple chores and she says she wants to get married? And yet you are here defending such mediocrity shouting gender up and down...

SMH

naijaboiy:

So going to work to hustle for the family's up keep is not useful abi?

I laugh

So if you can't do all these simple things what do you have to offer in marriage?

Just to give birth to battalions and lie on the couch everyday while your husband does the domestic chores abi

Do not expect a man to take care of you and serve you simply because you've got a vaginà

Tashaamania:


its always been like that..
Peeps creating these sorta threads have had their lives frustrated by a woman, thats what I think

Nneka123:
You see the thing with men! so a woman's job in a marriage is to be a house wife like wtf! After wasting all those years in the university, you end up not getting a job, because your husband doesn't want you to work, he wants you to be cooking all day long! Arrant nonsense!

voodoo85:


its only in third world countries like that. europe and america long time stopped expecting women to be housewives . to be honest its up to africans and their mentality- they r losing work force, losing money as a country and will never be developed countries until they change mentality. but whats for me? pffff nothing - am good in europe. have good job, am good cook, very organised and awesome in sex and my nigerian husband never ever had a complaint- independent, theres no such thing " its your job because u r woman". he would just laugh from naijaboy speeches.

Nneka123:
Why are you dissing Africans? remember your husband is from Nigeria, and he's Africa too! and you don't have to stereotype that all African men let their wives become house-wives, and besides in Europe & America, some women are house-wives too

and who cares if you're good in bed? funny woman

Misblah:
kidding right?

Nneka123:
You see the thing with men! so a woman's job in a marriage is to be a house wife like wtf! After wasting all those years in the university, you end up not getting a job, because your husband doesn't want you to work, he wants you to be cooking all day long! Arrant nonsense!

Nneka123:
You see the thing with men! so a woman's job in a marriage is to be a house wife like wtf! After wasting all those years in the university, you end up not getting a job, because your husband doesn't want you to work, he wants you to be cooking all day long! Arrant nonsense!

voodoo85:


Supposed to do who asked u to work? stay at home, i can work. pffff bread winner u see. a joke! am very good at those things but am not gonna sit at home to serve my husband! i have work as well! am not his maid! he is independent and grown up person not a fuccking baby!

voodoo85:


boy u r talking shitt

Tashaamania:

tf is wrong with you?

LewisO:
I did observe somethings about u, u're been too harsh, and u don't need it.

This is a social network, I believe u ought to be a matured lady, so if anybody is trying to just have some funny or been jovial with u that doesn't mean they are iddiots, we aren't seeing each other physically, so so frightened or too furious about some peoples comments or approach on here?

Raw speeches are all propaganda, u ought to be a little beat friendly, if u are nobody is gonna make any assault about any astute u make.

If if where to take things too serious the way u did, I would lashed so many people on here.

Why firstly the day u were trying to derail me for no reason without a prove, I felt very bittered, what else am I gonna do, I believed I don't need to approach back discourteously, when lately u were trying to take me for granted with some harsh statements, than to ignored.

So just do try and be calm and respect some people on here!

Tashaamania:


hian!! Wtf is your problem? I ask again

LewisO:
Question

Tashaamania:


I'm been honest here, tell me, whats the problem?

Nneka123:
Why are you dissing Africans? remember your husband is from Nigeria, and he's Africa too! and you don't have to stereotype that all African men let their wives become house-wives, and besides in Europe & America, some women are house-wives too

and who cares if you're good in bed? funny woman

Tashaamania:


I'm been honest here, tell me, whats the problem?

Vyolet:

Show me a rule book that makes house chores a woman's duty while providing money for the house should be for the man alone.

Now you meant to say,a woman should sit home all day and do chores,fulltime housewife right? While the man alone goes out to bring in food. Lazy mentality. Everyone should work and be useful.

A man wants his woman to work and provide money too and yet expect her to get back home to do chores while he sits and lazy around in the name of watching tv.

Vyolet:

Be creative and argue intellectually, incase you do not get my point,lemme break it down.

The fact that you are a man isn't enough criteria to be dependent on a woman for house chores,do them yourself.

A woman should learn to do those chores for herself and not for a man,no time to please anyone.

A woman should be useful for herself by having a means of sustenance. If a man doesn't provide for her,she will surely provide for herself. Women are hustling and according to statistics and base on my personal experience,women hustle more than men these days and it is has even gone beyond 50/50,it is now 70/30 in favour of the woman.
Now with this statistics,a man still expect the chores to be a woman's job?
My dear,anyone can assume any duty. Your woman can work while you work and you can both share the chores as well. No one should feel funky all cos he is called a 'man'