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What Women Want by 2SWT(f): 4:41pm On Jan 16, 2015 |
Just relaxing listening to ''all of me'' by John Legend. I felt like writing this article. While reading remember its what women not girls want. Here we go 1. TIME we love when you spend quality time with us. QUALITY not QUANTITY. Make the little moments you spend with us treasured. Do things that that will make us remember those moments 2. BE STRONG We are women and remember they say we are weaker vessels. We need a man who will be strong for us. We get emotional easily so we need a man who can be our strength when we are weak 3. COMMUNICATION This is very important. Let us know what and wher you're up to, when you're coming over and when you're going. Tell us what you have in mind, it makes us feel more fulfilled 4. MAKE US PART OF YOUR LIFE This is really necessary if you claim its a serious relationship. We love to know your friends, your family, your colleagues, church members etc. We love to be part of your dreams, we love to dream with you and hustle with you, we also like enjoying with you 5. CORRECT US l don't know if this applies to all women but l love it (ask my boyfriend if you think am lying). When we are wrong correct us with care. We know we are not perfect and we're not above correction 6. NEVER GIVE US A REASON TO DOUBT YOU Be open to us to the extent that we can take whatever you say. We hate doubting you but if you give us reasons to do so, we'll surely do 7. BEAR WITH US At times we behave like kids, we nag, we do some silly things it doesn't mean we no longer love or care, its just part of us..please try understand and bear with us 8. PET US BUT DON'T SPOIL US we love when you pet us, cuddle us, allow us rest our heads on your chest and shoulders (make us feel safe) when you surprise us with little gifts (they matter alot) when you spend on us, when you help us do some house chores but please don't over do it!!don't spoil us we have hands also 9. LISTEN TO US You know we love talking alot, listen to us even when you feel its nonsense just give us a listening ear afterall they say out of every nonsense there's a sense. 10. PROMISES Don't promise us heaven and earth (we're not interested) when you know you can't afford it. Make only promises you can fulfill. Be the guy who will fulfill those promises our ex (es) broke 11. DON'T JUDGE US We told you our pasts because we feel you're man enough to handle it. If we're not ready to change we wouldn't have told you. Help us get over our pasts dont judge us please 13. TREAT US RIGHT (we are not your ex (es) Don't say you treated her right yet she left you - we are not your ex. Do what is right, we understand your past and will not leave like she did. Treat us right and we'll stay 13. BE A MAN stop acting like boys, we know its part of you but don't let it over shadow the man in you. Stop being a mummy's boy, we can treat you right most especially stop saying wizkid is your mentor even at 30 gosh!! Be a man, a real man 14. WE HAVE DREAMS ALSO Don't focus on your dreams only, we have our own dreams also. Help us achieve our dreams and we will love you forever 15. DON'T CHEAT ON US lts really painful when we turn down other guys just to be with you and then you cheat on us. Do you think we can't cheat? Yes we can but we know its not right....give us some respect please 16. MARRY US We don't like it when guys come and go. Don't deceive us and break up with us, don't make us feel we've found the one and run away, don't have sex with us and disappear (we value our bodies ), don't start a relationship with us if you're not willing to marry us....please guys Fellow Women what did l forget ?? Feel free to add yours 14 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: What Women Want by dammywapes(m): 4:44pm On Jan 16, 2015 |
Will all this put an end to woman wants ? 1 Like |
Re: What Women Want by Tymax(m): 4:45pm On Jan 16, 2015 |
You are asking for too much. Can you do everything you listed? 2 Likes |
Re: What Women Want by dammywapes(m): 4:45pm On Jan 16, 2015 |
2SWT:Will all this put an end to woman want ? 1 Like |
Re: What Women Want by thiefnubu(m): 4:49pm On Jan 16, 2015 |
Ok What most women really want: 1- money 2- more Money 3- plenty money 4- limitless money 5- all your money 6- a functioning preeeek (please note that this is optional) Ask the Aristos in this section... Them go help me confam am 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What Women Want by Truth24(m): 5:10pm On Jan 16, 2015 |
Busy |
Re: What Women Want by Rapmoney(m): 5:11pm On Jan 16, 2015 |
Op, when men open up and say the truth, u don't like it. You people prefer lies often times. 1 Like |
Re: What Women Want by xpac01(m): 5:22pm On Jan 16, 2015 |
Just trying to tell us you are a 'woman'. Well, whatever, i don't care about women. So I just jump and pass. |
Re: What Women Want by major466(m): 5:24pm On Jan 16, 2015 |
The points listed up there are ok, but number 5 is way too tricky. If you attempt to correct some ladies, hell will be let loose. To them they're always right. Reason why some guys takes the blame for whatever situation they find themselves for peace to reign. So, some guys as old as 30 see wizkid as their Mentor? This is serious |
Re: What Women Want by Nobody: 5:28pm On Jan 16, 2015 |
@Op..u go gal! Nice ...romance, spontaneity, affection...and all things to make a gal 's toes tingle,her heart race with pure pleasure thumping in loyalty Ooooh lala #Real Men understand this, boys be thinking all a woman wants is money, money, money! 1 Like |
Re: What Women Want by Nobody: 5:28pm On Jan 16, 2015 |
You are very correct @op Nice one |
Re: What Women Want by LewisO: 5:33pm On Jan 16, 2015 |
Greedy girls needs. 1 Like |
Re: What Women Want by Nobody: 5:34pm On Jan 16, 2015 |
sometimes u try to correct a gal and d next thing she says is "dont judge me" on point 2SWT |
Re: What Women Want by LewisO: 5:34pm On Jan 16, 2015 |
Those list only fall-in other countries not with Nigerian girl. If u do some of those things u listed, I bet u they will take u for granted. Most girls are lutton! 2 Likes |
Re: What Women Want by major466(m): 5:36pm On Jan 16, 2015 |
BlaqCoffee109:I see you guys are enjoying yourself |
Re: What Women Want by jeremiah505(m): 5:41pm On Jan 16, 2015 |
It feels Good to be in Love... Thanks for the tips... I'll sure work with them.. 1 Like |
Re: What Women Want by 2SWT(f): 5:44pm On Jan 16, 2015 |
dammywapes:Check out the full list |
Re: What Women Want by Nobody: 5:46pm On Jan 16, 2015 |
major466:...we love and put up with U naij men, we deserve to be loved like we supposed to be 1 Like |
Re: What Women Want by 2SWT(f): 5:49pm On Jan 16, 2015 |
AgapeCharis:thanks dearie**kisses him and runs away hope your bae is not here |
Re: What Women Want by MrCork: 5:53pm On Jan 16, 2015 |
2SWT: 3 Likes |
Re: What Women Want by dammywapes(m): 5:54pm On Jan 16, 2015 |
2SWT:I have. And if this could put an end to a woman's want then i have a question to ask. |
Re: What Women Want by Nobody: 5:54pm On Jan 16, 2015 |
Ladies should learn to communicate better biko!! You ask a lady what's wrong with her and she says "nothing".. And she expects u to miraculously know it?! *scoff* We ain't mind-readers! Nice thread tho OP. 2 Likes |
Re: What Women Want by 2SWT(f): 5:55pm On Jan 16, 2015 |
Tymax:too much Is like you've never dated a woman do these for a real woman and watch your relationship turn into a lovely one 1 Like |
Re: What Women Want by dammywapes(m): 5:56pm On Jan 16, 2015 |
Tinubu:I tell u my guy. Guy ow u take knw wetin dey my mind ? 1 Like |
Re: What Women Want by Nobody: 5:56pm On Jan 16, 2015 |
15. We Love men who keep their word... after the JT that we oh so love, you being a provider and protector...a man keeping his word puts the hood in the manhood!... 'Nuff said 1 Like |
Re: What Women Want by 2SWT(f): 5:58pm On Jan 16, 2015 |
Tinubu:u're not serious |
Re: What Women Want by MrCork: 5:58pm On Jan 16, 2015 |
...hangon ladies, wot is goin on wit this thread?....are ya'all light skin? 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What Women Want by Nobody: 5:58pm On Jan 16, 2015 |
2SWT:**drags her back and continues d kiss |
Re: What Women Want by 2SWT(f): 5:59pm On Jan 16, 2015 |
Truth24:I see you |
Re: What Women Want by Tymax(m): 6:00pm On Jan 16, 2015 |
2SWT:Dreamer. |
Re: What Women Want by 2SWT(f): 6:01pm On Jan 16, 2015 |
Rapmoney:Not really it all depends on the way you say it |
Re: What Women Want by 2SWT(f): 6:02pm On Jan 16, 2015 |
xpac01:You don't care about women ??: :-/:-/ 1 Like |
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