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| . by starbhooy(m): 12:45pm On Jan 29, 2015 |
Viewing this topic this thread most people will be like "Who is this trying to create a Fiction from the series Teen Wolf" but you thought wrong because even after reading the overview below talk less about the "free Ebook" i would be giving out your view of life will change.Fact is 92% of guys in the world are Beta Males which make the girls "Run the world". Basically we have the Alpha,the Beta Males (Nice Guys) and the Jerks.No much talk ,thus goes the overview : 1 Be confident. This cannot be overstated. If you think highly of yourself and believe unquestionably in your own capabilities, men and women alike will respond to you. Do not confuse confidence with arrogance. Confidence demonstrates quiet inner strength, surety, and reliability. Arrogance is just low self-esteem turned outwards, and perception people will have see is that of a hollow, insecure man, the very antithesis of the alpha male. 2 Assume your position. When you walk into a room as an alpha male, you simply know other people will listen to and respect what you have to say. If you doubt it, so will every other person in the room. 3 Use humor to your advantage. That does not mean be the clown of the room, but that you should be able to smile with genuine pleasure, to laugh at yourself, even to playfully laugh at others without seeming sarcastic or spiteful. Think of that commercial for after-shave lotion, where the actor playing an exaggerated alpha male says, “Look at your man—now look at me. Sadly, he’s not me, but he can smell like he’s me!” 4 Let your body do the talking. The way you carry yourself speaks volumes to those around you, without you even making a sound. Your posture, your hand gestures, your stance—all of it sends signals to those around you about your place in the world. You want those signals to be strong and confident, not protective and small. -Practice being what you want to be. Look for situations where there are people gathered, and walk into the room proudly. If you don’t feel it yet, recall something you did well in the past, and fills you with deserved pride, let that feeling carry you into the room. -Learn the art of body language. There are very specific cues that leaders use, and followers respond to. -Steepling shows a great deal of confidence. Make the steeple by pressing your fingertips of both hands together, with palms separated. The higher the steeple, the more confidence this signals —but don’t go too high. If the tips of your fingers touch your mouth, you’re now signaling lack of confidence. In a two-way conversation, the higher steeple generally belongs to the man in charge of the conversation. -Hands behind back. Because this is an attitude of exposure, you show courage, power, and confidence. By holding your hands behind your back, you signal your openness to listening. -The eyes have it. Looking people in the eyes is very powerful, and can be very difficult if you’re not used to it. -Look at the person you’re talking to, from one eye to the other, then down at their mouth. This keeps your eyes moving, yet still focused on your conversation partner. -Thumbs out! If you put your hands in your pocket, thumbs out, that signals confidence, and a little cockiness. 5 Don’t be afraid to fill the room with your presence. Stand with strong posture, use expansive gestures, and look relaxed and comfortable in your surroundings. See How to Look Approachable for more tips on looking totally at ease in any situation. 6 Listen. The alpha male, the true leader, spends more time listening than speaking. Listen actively and attentively, and people will respond. The more you listen without judgement, the more people will open up to you, and may even tell you things they never tell anybody. This is because they trust you innately—a key trait of the alpha male. 7 Watch others. One key way to learn how to be an alpha male is to emulate other alpha males. -Watch how they talk, how they stand, and how they act. Alpha males tend to have a straight posture and walk around with ease and confidence. -Watch how they look. Their hair, their clothing. Alpha males are interested in man’s fashion and they know how to use it to make themselves look more attractive. 8 Join a gym and get fit. Staying in shape will not make you an alpha male—that must come from the inside—but it will help with your health and well-being. It also sends another signal: the man who takes good care of himself can take care of others, too. 9 Be honest. Some feel that alpha males will lie and cheat to get what they want, but this only applies to men who are anything but alpha males. If you find you must trick someone into thinking you’re worth their time and energy, it’s actually evidence that you aren’t. Make sure you earn everything you get by adopting a policy of radical honesty. Be exactly who you are at all times; everyone else can take you or leave you. 10 Dress well. Try to look better than the guys around you so that you stand out. For example, wear patterns, collared shirts, nice pants, and possibly a tie. Don’t wear shirts that advertise a brand name or your favorite band; you want to advertise yourself. Read How to Dress Well As a Guy for more suggestions. -Dressing well does not mean dressing up, necessarily. Your clothes should fit you well, should be comfortable, and should be appropriate for the situation. Remember— clothes are window dressing. If you exude confidence and strength, and command respect by your presence, your clothes will be secondary. 11 Learn how to flirt. Knowing how to forge a romantic connection is essential to being seen as an alpha male. Being confident, accomplished, and attractive doesn’t necessarily mean that you’ve got what it takes to interact with a potential mate, but will provide you a huge advantage. -If you want to prove that you’re dating material to someone you’re “friends” with, read up on how to escape the friend zone. 12 Develop new skills. By learning new skills and developing new abilities, you keep your mind and body sharp and in shape. It helps you develop a well- rounded skill set that will make you the go-to guy when people have questions. Become a man not just of style, but of substance by studying things that interest you, and becoming conversant and practiced in each idiom. Learn how to box, build a shed, walk on your hands, do a roundhouse kick, survive in the woods, or win a street fight. Develop your mind by learning about architecture, art, and music. 13 Above all, be a leader. This means not only taking charge of a situation, but doing it well. Start in your immediate surroundings by being a leader in the workplace, helping your team perform, or even asserting yourself as your dog’s pack leader. Practice being the kind of leader that people will want to follow. Drops your numbers to be added to the whatsapp group to get the direct link to download the "Becoming an Alpha Male" book. #Before i came across this book,met this guy who happened to change me partly but now i know this guy happens to be an Alpha male also,his NL name xxxtedyxxx. 3 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: . by hippyj(m): 12:47pm On Jan 29, 2015 |
Ok,in case. |
| Re: . by Nobody: 12:56pm On Jan 29, 2015 |
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| Re: . by Nobody: 2:05pm On Jan 29, 2015 |
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| Re: . by mentorandfriend(m): 2:16pm On Jan 29, 2015 |
Nicely written. The important thing is Being yourself. We lose confidence by trying to pretend what we are not. 5 Likes |
| Re: . by fejikudz(m): 2:20pm On Jan 29, 2015 |
OP..u try |
| Re: . by Nobody: 2:46pm On Jan 29, 2015 |
Alpha Male or Alfa Male, if u no get money u remain PheMale... We no get time for all this long stories o, just show us you are capable of taking care of us and case closed. By the way; do you know that Money intoxicates and builds confidence 10times more than a man who's high? 3 Likes |
| Re: . by naijaboiy: 2:47pm On Jan 29, 2015 |
Still reading -_- |
| Re: . by jejemanito: 2:53pm On Jan 29, 2015 |
sexyseun:madam sexy you are absolutely WRONG. The only thing that can do that is 'living a fulfilled and happy life' |
| Re: . by Nobody: 3:02pm On Jan 29, 2015 |
jejemanito:And how can you live a fulfilled and happy life without money? Most especially in this part of the world? Please sir don't let the westerners deceive you, they live an average life because basic amenities has been provided by their govt. |
| Re: . by Nobody: 3:03pm On Jan 29, 2015 |
sexyseun:speak for yourself lady. some ladies are responsible and dey don't need someone to impress them with money. 3 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: . by Nobody: 3:07pm On Jan 29, 2015 |
AyokunleRuth:kindly read my post very well, i never said guys should impress with money but they should be capable of taking care of their lady, oh wait, don't you want to be taken care of by your man right? And if only you know what an Alpha male entails you won't be blabbing here about responsible or not responsible. |
| Re: . by Frankenstein: 3:08pm On Jan 29, 2015 |
You can't become an alpha male. You're either born an alpha or not. 1 Like |
| Re: . by Frankenstein: 3:14pm On Jan 29, 2015 |
sexyseun:Taking care of you? You can't take care of yourself? By the way, the topic isn't about taking care of dependent, high-maintenance, career-shunning, third class, face-value narcissitic women. 2 Likes |
| Re: . by Nobody: 3:14pm On Jan 29, 2015 |
sexyseun:read your post carefully. you made it sound like all those qualities aren't important. Are you telling me you can't take care of yourself? pls lady be careful of what you post and how you express your points because am tired of how guys think less of ladies. Wait till some dumb head quote you then you will know what am saying. |
| Re: . by themejiwalker(m): 3:15pm On Jan 29, 2015 |
sexyseun: I agree. Even shy people tend to become much more vocal once the pocket is endowed. Money makes the world go round baby!  2 Likes |
| Re: . by themejiwalker(m): 3:32pm On Jan 29, 2015 |
Frankenstein: Boss, You have to understand that ladies like to associate themselves with success. It does not matter if she can pay her bills or take care of herself of not. Women expect some certain level of responsibility from their men. Not all girls ask their guys for money but it does not mean a guy should ignore the little things. |
| Re: . by SkinnyDude(m): 3:51pm On Jan 29, 2015 |
what shall it profit you if you become an alpha male and stil end up being broke? 2 Likes |
| Re: . by Nobody: 3:57pm On Jan 29, 2015 |
sexyseun:Chai You are a classical gold diggers Recruiting ladies with same mindset like yours since 18BC... A girl like you open your mouth and say such things.. Anyway..we all know the types of speech runs babes makes.. I ain't surprised.. #PEACE 2 Likes |
| Re: . by Nobody: 4:02pm On Jan 29, 2015 |
@ OP Here is my whatsapp number 09037837792 |
| Re: . by Nobody: 4:16pm On Jan 29, 2015 |
kevinberry:Why are u such a dumb-ass retarrd? Can't u just read and comprehend before you call someone "gold diggers"  . In your haste to diss me you forgot to even type very well. |
| Re: . by Nobody: 4:24pm On Jan 29, 2015 |
sexyseun: #Golddigger #PEACE 2 Likes |
| Re: . by starbhooy(m): 4:54pm On Jan 29, 2015 |
sexyseun:Seun u got this all wrng... becoming an Alpha means building up your confidence and seeing life in a different way... 1 Like |
| Re: . by Frankenstein: 4:58pm On Jan 29, 2015 |
themejiwalker:Everybody wants to associate theirselves with success. In our society, most women heap 100% of financial needs on the men like we're still in the 19th century. Responsible or not, it's the money and its consistency that matters to them. To me, apart from regular gifts and whatnot, a guy shouldn't spend 1 kobo directly on any woman he's not married to. 4 Likes |
| Re: . by starbhooy(m): 5:01pm On Jan 29, 2015 |
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| Re: . by fr3do(m): 5:35pm On Jan 29, 2015 |
Frankenstein: a man can not be an Alpha male without money, but having money doesnt necessarily make you an alpha male. 1 Like |
| Re: . by Nobody: 1:23pm On Jan 30, 2015 |
AyokunleRuth:a lady should be able to take care of herself, sure thing but she's correct with what she said.even the bible said it: Ecclesiastes 9:16 But I say that wisdom is better than might, though the poor man’s wisdom is despised [/b]and his words are not heard. you might not even be able to stand among your peers if you are not financially okay. you are not a man if you don't have a bit of financial security. dont be deceived by what you read on romance section.a woman should not depend on a man for everything though but the fact that you have in excess to give out to whosoever is [b]in need is a kind of ego boost.a man should be able to provide for the woman he loves and a virtuous woman is worth every penny spent on her. the "gold digger thingy" is like a defense mechanism some " guys use when they can't act like a men! |
| Re: . by SlickRob(m): 2:17pm On Jan 30, 2015 |
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| Re: . by TheSonOfMark(m): 2:40pm On Jan 30, 2015 |
PARASITES WOULD BE LIKE: sexyseun: |
| Re: . by Nobody: 5:46pm On Jan 30, 2015 |
Preciousjoz:hmmmmmm you are right and she would have been to if she had explain a little. she made it sound like women should be taken care of by guys alone. the way a guy meets you will determine how you will be treated and taken care of. my piece. |
| Re: . by Nobody: 6:21pm On Jan 30, 2015 |
Frankenstein:God bless you |
| Re: . by Nobody: 7:43pm On Jan 30, 2015 |
Sexyseun, easy dear. Op u are right sir. |
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