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Re: Their Children Saw Them Having Sex- Should They Be Bothered? by Chigold101(m): 7:51am On Feb 11, 2015 |
chimkaire:why did u say their daddy caused it? |
Re: Their Children Saw Them Having Sex- Should They Be Bothered? by ngachi: 7:52am On Feb 11, 2015 |
;Dhahaha Joavid: |
Re: Their Children Saw Them Having Sex- Should They Be Bothered? by omotalkie(f): 7:56am On Feb 11, 2015 |
ITbomb:Di got me rily cracking. Serzly, how wud dey explain dat |
Re: Their Children Saw Them Having Sex- Should They Be Bothered? by dasparrow: 8:09am On Feb 11, 2015 |
@Post The parents were just careless. Why is there no lock on the door? And to make matters worse, they are busy practicing oral intimacy How many of our mothers practiced oral intimacy back in the day? Just goes to show how rotten this generation of ours is. Anyways, they should figure out what explanation to give their 7 year old. At 7, I definitely knew right from wrong. The boys will emulate/copy what they saw their parents doing. Shikena. 1 Like |
Re: Their Children Saw Them Having Sex- Should They Be Bothered? by Nicklaus(m): 8:12am On Feb 11, 2015 |
Richy4:Enough with the endearing thing!, m not your dear, can't be. And the fact that you know what BJ is, means you don't stand a chance to call me that do you know why Because an average Nigerian parent don't know what it means coz they don't do it. So if your parents do BJ m sure you ve barged in once or twice to know better. What can I say, Congratulations! you can now pass it on to your next generation. So the next time you want to make a point do not attempt to generalize the decadent plague dilating in your family boy. You are right, I just learnt a new thing about your family. What a family! |
Re: Their Children Saw Them Having Sex- Should They Be Bothered? by Nicklaus(m): 8:16am On Feb 11, 2015 |
dasparrow:I love that, thank you. Educate RICHY4 or whaever he cals himself pls |
Re: Their Children Saw Them Having Sex- Should They Be Bothered? by xynerise: 8:19am On Feb 11, 2015 |
Nicklaus:His/her choice. |
Re: Their Children Saw Them Having Sex- Should They Be Bothered? by EzeeYFB(m): 8:24am On Feb 11, 2015 |
Nicklaus:guess ur sex orientation is primitive....wats wrong with having MouthAction with one's spouse? |
Re: Their Children Saw Them Having Sex- Should They Be Bothered? by EzeeYFB(m): 8:29am On Feb 11, 2015 |
[quote author=Eofclub post=30617573]And the kids we go to school and belike.. '' hey mike, Guys what we saw our parents doing'' :-P[/quotelol...na ajebo pikin b dat,dey fit go mention am for their family morning prayer sef ] |
Re: Their Children Saw Them Having Sex- Should They Be Bothered? by Nicklaus(m): 8:41am On Feb 11, 2015 |
EzeeYFB:Oh enlighten me, I didn't realize Bj is a modern style. I m sure u ve done enough or had some yourself, probably makes you a better person, well fortunately I m one with good sense of self-preservation, and I don't orient to immoralities. So if BJ is ur own definition of modernization, I like PRIMITIVE.. |
Re: Their Children Saw Them Having Sex- Should They Be Bothered? by EzeeYFB(m): 8:50am On Feb 11, 2015 |
Nicklaus:twas never stated anywhere that penetration is d only form of sex ,no p wif u subcribing to penetration alone. |
Re: Their Children Saw Them Having Sex- Should They Be Bothered? by Bosch10(m): 8:50am On Feb 11, 2015 |
bennyrazz: bennyrazz: |
Re: Their Children Saw Them Having Sex- Should They Be Bothered? by bukatyne(f): 8:53am On Feb 11, 2015 |
cococandy: It is strange... 1 Like |
Re: Their Children Saw Them Having Sex- Should They Be Bothered? by Kx: 8:57am On Feb 11, 2015 |
Odillz: Ugu nor be vegetable? How do u go climbing vegetable tree, u be spider? |
Re: Their Children Saw Them Having Sex- Should They Be Bothered? by Bosch10(m): 9:05am On Feb 11, 2015 |
naijainfogalery:that is the worst thing you can do.how will u scold them.that will make them to want to xpose their parents deeds.if i am the one in that position,i will tell them about it and teach them about sex education,that it is meant only for couples and not young boys.bt u shuld have been teaching ur children this before then |
Re: Their Children Saw Them Having Sex- Should They Be Bothered? by Nobody: 9:12am On Feb 11, 2015 |
KoloOyinbo: Lol |
Re: Their Children Saw Them Having Sex- Should They Be Bothered? by picked(m): 9:27am On Feb 11, 2015 |
Dat shud bring d date of sex education for the children forward. You just have to face it n xplain to them.it not going to be easy(e.g it wat married pple do) cuz u ave to bak it up with lot of xplanation. |
Re: Their Children Saw Them Having Sex- Should They Be Bothered? by gidjah(m): 9:29am On Feb 11, 2015 |
Pls tell them 'YOU EAT CARROTS FOOT DONT YOU ?,every man has a carrot to be eating by a woman when they get married ',that might give a fair explanation abi ? ITbomb: |
Re: Their Children Saw Them Having Sex- Should They Be Bothered? by ask4bk(m): 9:40am On Feb 11, 2015 |
Aren't we speaking of 7 year old children again? In 2015, a 7yr old knows what's up. In their primary school they already have girls they call their wives (not seriously tho). I stay around kids 3-15 a lot and can say a bit of what they know and don't know. Those 7yr old twins can't be deceived about what they saw. It's just unfortunate it happened. Just forget it n continue ya life. Even in my late 20s, if I jam my parents banging, they'll still feel shame. Abi they shu come n start telling me too that mum was sucking ringworm out of dad's thing? Story for gods |
Re: Their Children Saw Them Having Sex- Should They Be Bothered? by lollybee15(m): 9:54am On Feb 11, 2015 |
Stupidity of the highest order. Why did they leave the door unlocked? Bad lesson they've taught the poor kids. I believe this wouldn't be the first time the kids would run into the room. Kids are always doing this. 1 Like |
Re: Their Children Saw Them Having Sex- Should They Be Bothered? by Nicklaus(m): 10:09am On Feb 11, 2015 |
EzeeYFB:perhaps it was, and you prefer to look the other way, as penetration happens to be the only way to reproduce, 'which is the fundamental essence' of the sex organs. Any other form of sex is just a filthy way of suppressing your sexual drives which in this so called modern-day is a hard thing to overcome, I guess. M not here to get at you, I only want u to think past the shallow beliefs of the selfish human cravings. You sound like an atheist. |
Re: Their Children Saw Them Having Sex- Should They Be Bothered? by Richy4(m): 10:25am On Feb 11, 2015 |
Nicklaus: I am sorry for calling you my dear. Because if you were, I would have been shocked who permitted/gave you access to intranet let alone commenting on an adult forum. Sorry I thought I was speaking to an adult I am sorry for making such mistake. Sorry and have a good day |
Re: Their Children Saw Them Having Sex- Should They Be Bothered? by Vince77(m): 10:26am On Feb 11, 2015 |
kestolove95:u no lie |
Re: Their Children Saw Them Having Sex- Should They Be Bothered? by Nobody: 10:36am On Feb 11, 2015 |
cococandy: Exactly. Very irresponsible of the parents I must say. 2 Likes |
Re: Their Children Saw Them Having Sex- Should They Be Bothered? by mikkyword(m): 10:39am On Feb 11, 2015 |
Tell them mummy was treating daddy of a particular illness that usually affects adult. And that that sickness don't affect children. So mummy has do that intermittently to prevent daddy from dying. Then teach them menace, because it is obvious that child has F9 in that discipline. I Hope this help. |
Re: Their Children Saw Them Having Sex- Should They Be Bothered? by Mariojane(f): 10:40am On Feb 11, 2015 |
IT IS BETTER THEY DONT EXPLAIN ANYTHING TO THE CHILDREN IF THEY ARE NOT UP TO TEN YEARS. at times simple explanation can make children minds wander off to an unimaginable land. they may want to start practicing what they saw. i once walked into my dad bedroom nd saw they rolling togeda. i was young then nd they didnt see me enter nd i left the room without them knowing. i black it out and didnt read anytin to it until recently when i started having sex before i recollect wht happened. it is a good tin at time if you allow your children decipher some tins by themselves. your explanation might complicate the whole tin 1 Like |
Re: Their Children Saw Them Having Sex- Should They Be Bothered? by Qmab: 11:06am On Feb 11, 2015 |
Mariojane:I totally agree with you. You can't always be certain what they saw is eventually going to affect their lives in a negative way. I think all they need to do is admonish them by lay emphasis on knocking before entry. Trying to talk bird and bees with them is just gonna confuse them. Funny enough, few years later ds kids will be watching American movies and will fast forward d sex scenes away because their parents are watching. 1 Like |
Re: Their Children Saw Them Having Sex- Should They Be Bothered? by ebony2011(m): 11:10am On Feb 11, 2015 |
its nothing to worry about. As kids the memory would soon fade away. 1 Like |
Re: Their Children Saw Them Having Sex- Should They Be Bothered? by Dotunwa(m): 11:12am On Feb 11, 2015 |
Ive read throu all comments on this tread, i like one or two comments and lots of advice for ds couple. But majority of guys doing d commenting is not taking some issues into cinsideration like: 1. Probably both dad and mom are completely naked and to see ur mom naked with her bombom, or even the V bushy region. Omo menh wat explanation can she give. 2. My son was just 3yrs old wen he started noticing dat d way i peck him is diff from d way i do his mom, so forget it those boys knows the truth. 3. Dont make mistake of ur life by lieing to them, they will never belive u again. So my candid advice is; Sit them down, demand an apology from dem for being rude, explain in short terms dat wat happened should be only for married couples and teach dem sex education urslf - i mean d dad. Dont lie or hide anything from dem, rather dont talk about wat will embarass u or motivate dem to try it out. If its my son, he will kno wats up, tell his mom to leave dad's Kingo alone and put some cloths on and ask me "Dad did mom hurt u? Sorry, u hear" dat only 4yrs old boy. Imagine wat a seven yrs old boys will do?! 1 Like |
Re: Their Children Saw Them Having Sex- Should They Be Bothered? by Nobody: 11:19am On Feb 11, 2015 |
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Re: Their Children Saw Them Having Sex- Should They Be Bothered? by Nicklaus(m): 11:29am On Feb 11, 2015 |
Richy4:ADULT ? Very funny coz you sound like a secondary school student. Grow up ! |
Re: Their Children Saw Them Having Sex- Should They Be Bothered? by jennifer22(f): 11:40am On Feb 11, 2015 |
baby124: U are so wise thanks for the advice, I learnt something from u. |
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