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Re: Help, A Married Woman Refuses To Leave My House, How Can I Send Her Away? by changeskc2(m): 8:11am On Jul 19, 2015
olola4:
It started around February,this woman happens to be a colleague at work wbut is 3year old marriage broke(with 2 kids)and her husband who I know as a very aggressive man (on the day he came to visit his wife at the office, I think he came to give her something he almost slap the security officer who was asking him what he came to do) sent the wife out of the house.After the husband have sent the wife away the only option the wife(my colleague at work) have is to move to the residence of her elder sister who happened to be my own neighbour in the same flat.

At first the only thing I do is to drop her children at school and carry her along to the office, later since am still single and am the only one leaving in my flat except sometimes when my fiancee or my younger brother come spend some days/weeks in my place, she started coming to my flat to watch film,she said her sister didnt subscribe and she is missing her favourite T.V. programs and opera, later she started watching film over night and now she is now leaving in my flat with the excuse that her sister's husband send her packing.
Wot happened to her salary. Can't she afford to rent a one room apartment?.

The problem now is that my fiancee cant come over to my place, i have to always lie to her that am not at home, and the woman herself is seducing me by wearing tight inside the house, also am the one to buy everything including foodstuffs and provisions even toothpaste.

The day I sat her down and told her that am not comfortable with her staying with me she was crying and when her one year old daughter saw her crying she also started crying and also she brings visitors which I hate,this will make me be like a stranger in my house.

pls fellow nairalander i need your advice.
Re: Help, A Married Woman Refuses To Leave My House, How Can I Send Her Away? by Dozzmani(m): 8:41am On Jul 19, 2015
The best thing to do here is to open up to ur girlfriend abt d whole issue and invite her over to stay for some time with u and see how things adjust itself.women no de carry dia man play,just ur girlfriend being around can send her packing [color=#990000][/color]

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Re: Help, A Married Woman Refuses To Leave My House, How Can I Send Her Away? by nnol(m): 8:47am On Jul 19, 2015
Tell her dat u ar an ogwu ego,pls dnt thank me
Re: Help, A Married Woman Refuses To Leave My House, How Can I Send Her Away? by Fourwinds: 9:04am On Jul 19, 2015
Sexcellency:
They call it HOSTILE TAKEOVER
kai! Girls can do subtle things
Re: Help, A Married Woman Refuses To Leave My House, How Can I Send Her Away? by Fourwinds: 9:06am On Jul 19, 2015
OP d day u will Tambowal her Techno D5, dat is when u will know u don by market
Re: Help, A Married Woman Refuses To Leave My House, How Can I Send Her Away? by Amono: 9:15am On Jul 19, 2015
U just hav to take a decision now or u end up having her as ur madam, my advice to u is to call her attention today towards evening, tell her to look for accommodation, dt ur wife will be joining u soon. If it means contributing to de house rent u do it once nd for all. Exept u hav other hidden agenda which u did not tell us. I wish u de best.

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Re: Help, A Married Woman Refuses To Leave My House, How Can I Send Her Away? by Excuzeme: 9:47am On Jul 19, 2015
olola4:
It started around February,this woman happens to be a colleague at work but is 3year old marriage broke(with 2 kids)and her husband who I know as a very aggressive man (on the day he came to visit his wife at the office, I think he came to give her something he almost slap the security officer who was asking him what he came to do) sent the wife out of the house.After the husband have sent the wife away the only option the wife(my colleague at work) have is to move to the residence of her elder sister who happened to be my own neighbour in the same flat.

At first the only thing I do is to drop her children at school and carry her along to the office, later since am still single and am the only one leaving in my flat except sometimes when my fiancee or my younger brother come spend some days/weeks in my place, she started coming to my flat to watch film,she said her sister didnt subscribe and she is missing her favourite T.V. programs and opera, later she started watching film over night and now she is now leaving in my flat with the excuse that her sister's husband send her packing.

The problem now is that my fiancee cant come over to my place, i have to always lie to her that am not at home, and the woman herself is seducing me by wearing tight inside the house, also am the one to buy everything including foodstuffs and provisions even toothpaste.

The day I sat her down and told her that am not comfortable with her staying with me she was crying and when her one year old daughter saw her crying she also started crying and also she brings visitors which I hate,this will make me be like a stranger in my house.

pls fellow nairalander i need your advice.

Look STOP playing Mugun if you dont want your own young life to get K-leg like her own.
Infact, your own would be worse. I hope you have not started sucking Bobby of the woman sha? I nor trust you o! grin grin


First, call your sweetheart, take her to somewhere QUIET and EXPLAIN EVERYTHING TO HER!
DONT HIDE ANYTHING (except if there is a part where you have been doing "naughty things" with the woman)

After that, they your fiance to your house and let her be the one to inform the woman that she is moving in the next day and as such, she MUST move out immediately.

If she wants to cry, let her cry, .... you are not the cause of her misfortune.

If you are "nice" like me, give her some cash to assist her to get a single room (dont break the bank o!)

Do these things quickly o, before that woman shout say you have r@ped her or put you in some very bad problem.

A stitch in time, saves nine
! wink wink wink

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Re: Help, A Married Woman Refuses To Leave My House, How Can I Send Her Away? by Bowaley17(m): 10:16am On Jul 19, 2015
Tell her you have to travel and you can't leave her in your house. So she should pack her bags and leave.
Re: Help, A Married Woman Refuses To Leave My House, How Can I Send Her Away? by fragile96: 10:19am On Jul 19, 2015
([quote author=olola4 post=36013059]It started around February,this woman happens to be a colleague at work but is 3year old marriage broke(with 2 kids)and her husband who I know as a very aggressive man (on the day he came to visit his wife at the office, I think he came to give her something he almost slap the security officer who was asking him what he came to do) sent the wife out of the house.After the husband have sent the wife away the only option the wife(my colleague at work) have is to move to the residence of her elder sister who happened to be my own neighbour in the same flat.

At first the only thing I do is to drop her children at school and carry her along to the office, later since am still single and am the only one leaving in my flat except sometimes when my fiancee or my younger brother come spend some days/weeks in my place, she started coming to my flat to watch film,she said her sister didnt subscribe and she is missing her favourite T.V. programs and opera, later she started watching film over night and now she is now leaving in my flat with the excuse that her sister's husband send her packing.

The problem now is that my fiancee cant come over to my place, i have to always lie to her that am not at home, and the woman herself is seducing me by wearing tight inside the house, also am the one to buy everything including foodstuffs and provisions even toothpaste.

The day I sat her down and told her that am not comfortable with her staying with me she was crying and when her one year old daughter saw her crying she also started crying and also she brings visitors which I hate,this will make me be like a stranger in my house.

pls fellow nairalander i need your advice.
[/quote)betterstill, u can leave d house for her and get a room self contain for u and ur fiancee sad
Dats a dumb question.
Re: Help, A Married Woman Refuses To Leave My House, How Can I Send Her Away? by babatty(m): 11:34am On Jul 19, 2015
Are u sure in ur mind that u are not interested in her, maybe she is attractive. If not my brother be firm, tell her to get an apartment and leave ur house. U can even assist her looking for the house. Afterall she is working too. Or else u will become a foster father ooo
Re: Help, A Married Woman Refuses To Leave My House, How Can I Send Her Away? by Mrkachi(m): 12:07pm On Jul 19, 2015
Send her away unless u want to marry a divorcée.

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Re: Help, A Married Woman Refuses To Leave My House, How Can I Send Her Away? by Nobody: 12:57pm On Jul 19, 2015
Sexcellency:
They call it HOSTILE TAKEOVER
Hostile or friendly takeover?
Re: Help, A Married Woman Refuses To Leave My House, How Can I Send Her Away? by Nobody: 12:57pm On Jul 19, 2015
Sexcellency:
They call it HOSTILE TAKEOVER
Hostile or friendly takeover?
Re: Help, A Married Woman Refuses To Leave My House, How Can I Send Her Away? by BOUNTYDOG(m): 1:33pm On Jul 19, 2015
@ OP do you have family members,mother,or sisters who comes visiting once a while,has any of them ever visited sinceshes been living with you?
Do you mean ur fiancee never pass the night or sense you have been accomodatng some ppl ever since the woman has been with you?
The woman's sister and her husband must be convinced u re sleeping with her u know,cos I'm sure the sister would not be happy as she is living with you.

Solution is to tell her ur fiancee has been suspecting you are having an affair with her and tells you if u re sure you are not having an affair with her,you should tell her to leave or she leaves ur life.if the woman has a good heart she would not want to be a party to breaking you relationship and would leave,and if she tries to talk you to it,then obviously her aim is to send ur fiancee away for her,and if that be the case u need not be told what to do.

FYI do u know the consequences of sleeping with a married woman as stated in the Bible?
Now u say she wears stuff to seduce u,do u know what you are about to commit?
Be wise bruf,if u pity her,u know her status @ work,u can help her plan her salary to get her an apartment even if u ave to add to it,that will have a record that you tried than draining urself lil by lil monthly and still shatter ur relatonship and not help her marriage either.do u know if her husband has been tpped she's living with a single man,tell me how u want to cum clean if afterall gobe
Re: Help, A Married Woman Refuses To Leave My House, How Can I Send Her Away? by hathiba: 2:03pm On Jul 19, 2015
it is either there is something u are not telling us about the paternity of those children... if it is that u have not had ay sexual intercourse with the woman before the husband threw her out,you would have long ago thrown her out.
its obvious u dont know the deceitfullness of a woman. i can see that u gradually playing game with ur DESTINY.Help is good bt the moment u realise its leading to.another thing, then its demonic. its obvious Devil had singled u out to destroy GODS PROPHECY concerning. if u allow yrself to sleep with that woman, u don enter one chance be that and the same kind of rejection she is suffering from any where she goes,expect greater percentage in ur life.. As sopn as u have finished reading thos txt, develop holy anger amd send her out now.
Re: Help, A Married Woman Refuses To Leave My House, How Can I Send Her Away? by Verrazano: 7:32pm On Jul 19, 2015
[quote author=olola4 post=36013059]It started around February,this woman happens to be a colleague at work but is 3year old marriage broke(with 2 kids)and her husband who I know as a very aggressive man (on the day he came to visit his wife at the office, I think he came to give her something he almost slap the security officer who was asking him what he came to do) sent the wife out of the house.After the husband have sent the wife away the only option the wife(my colleague at work) have is to move to the residence of her elder sister who happened to be my own neighbour in the same flat.

At first the only thing I do is to drop her children at school and carry her along to the office, later since am still single and am the only one leaving in my flat except sometimes when my fiancee or my younger brother come spend some days/weeks in my place, she started coming to my flat to watch film,she said her sister didnt subscribe and she is missing her favourite T.V. programs and opera, later she started watching film over night and now she is now leaving in my flat with the excuse that her sister's husband send her packing.

The problem now is that my fiancee cant come over to my place, i have to always lie to her that am not at home, and the woman herself is seducing me by wearing tight inside the house, also am the one to buy everything including foodstuffs and provisions even toothpaste.

The day I sat her down and told her that am not comfortable with her staying with me she was crying and when her one year old daughter saw her crying she also started crying and also she brings visitors which I hate,this will make me be like a stranger in my house.

pls fellow nairalander i need your advice.
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just put the whole situation into prayer u see d woman will pack and reconcil wit her husband
Re: Help, A Married Woman Refuses To Leave My House, How Can I Send Her Away? by Druss(m): 10:04pm On Jul 19, 2015
Dont be foolish. Are you a man or a mouse? Pack her things and lock your door. Pretend you are not at home at the worst level but stop helping this woman. She is purposefully taking advantage of you.

Secondly I dont know how a mother with 2 kids in tights is seductive - I mean really. Lets yarn fact you have slept with this woman - colleague at work and claims of tights seduction.

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Re: Help, A Married Woman Refuses To Leave My House, How Can I Send Her Away? by dhappyking(m): 11:35pm On Jul 19, 2015
See your life. You will soon marry her and with your eyes wide open!

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Re: Help, A Married Woman Refuses To Leave My House, How Can I Send Her Away? by marriedvirgin: 2:07am On Jul 20, 2015
please brother I know many people would say several things but I have an advice for you.Please don't throw her out suddenly.Help her and go around with her to look for an accommodation for her.Even if she is trying to seduce you don't give in.I think she is doing that because she is in a desperate situation and she is trying to see if you can date her which would give her a pass to remain in your house.Please for the sake of her child,don't throw her to the streets.Help her to go around and look for cheap accommodation where she can stay with her child.Explain things to your fiancé too.Don't lie to your fiancé about the whole issue.Your fiancé can equally help to look for accommodation too so that she can move into.








olola4:
It started around February,this woman happens to be a colleague at work but is 3year old marriage broke(with 2 kids)and her husband who I know as a very aggressive man (on the day he came to visit his wife at the office, I think he came to give her something he almost slap the security officer who was asking him what he came to do) sent the wife out of the house.After the husband have sent the wife away the only option the wife(my colleague at work) have is to move to the residence of her elder sister who happened to be my own neighbour in the same flat.

At first the only thing I do is to drop her children at school and carry her along to the office, later since am still single and am the only one leaving in my flat except sometimes when my fiancee or my younger brother come spend some days/weeks in my place, she started coming to my flat to watch film,she said her sister didnt subscribe and she is missing her favourite T.V. programs and opera, later she started watching film over night and now she is now leaving in my flat with the excuse that her sister's husband send her packing.

The problem now is that my fiancee cant come over to my place, i have to always lie to her that am not at home, and the woman herself is seducing me by wearing tight inside the house, also am the one to buy everything including foodstuffs and provisions even toothpaste.

The day I sat her down and told her that am not comfortable with her staying with me she was crying and when her one year old daughter saw her crying she also started crying and also she brings visitors which I hate,this will make me be like a stranger in my house.

pls fellow nairalander i need your advice.
Re: Help, A Married Woman Refuses To Leave My House, How Can I Send Her Away? by Excuzeme: 12:40pm On Jul 20, 2015
Druss:
Dont be foolish. Are you a man or a mouse? Pack her things and lock your door. Pretend you are not at home at the worst level but stop helping this woman. She is purposefully taking advantage of you.

Secondly I dont know how a mother with 2 kids in tights is seductive - I mean really. Lets yarn fact you have slept with this woman - colleague at work and claims of tights seduction.


grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin
***falls down from 2-Storey building****


Some men are not better than Dogs, anything with a hole, they can stick it inside!

Under 18's never finish seduce me, na one Agaid-nwanyi wey breast don nearly reach to they throw-way it for back like say na cloth, na im go seduce me?

Like say anybody nor know say second-hand tyre don travel road no be small undecided undecided undecided

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Re: Help, A Married Woman Refuses To Leave My House, How Can I Send Her Away? by Chuknovski(m): 5:57pm On Jul 20, 2015
[quote author=boombay post=36013069]wake up one night and use powder to rub your body from head to toe.
Tie a white wrapper and tie your TV remote with a red cloth
start chanting in a strange manner
like "kulu kulu maku moku"grin
make sure she hears you.
if she asks wahz going on tell her you're a ritualist that you use female only for the ritualsgrin
and if she doesn't ask you
trust Me she will leave immediately!grin
















or better still get a coffin as your center table in the sitting room!grin


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#itz actually what I love doing best
#have you smiled today?grin
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U loosing it, good advice tho
Re: Help, A Married Woman Refuses To Leave My House, How Can I Send Her Away? by Chuknovski(m): 6:00pm On Jul 20, 2015
Get some cash if you can,get a new apartment and takeoff without her knowing
Re: Help, A Married Woman Refuses To Leave My House, How Can I Send Her Away? by shithapuns: 7:52pm On Jul 20, 2015
This story stinks.
Am sure this dude is shagging that as.s daily.
Thats y ur judgement is beclouded....
Either that or u are 1 wimp or mouse of a man.
Dude grow some balls n be manly na.

So cos of this woman..ur fiancee cant come to ur house...n u r missing free kpekus n sufferi ng conji for nothing? ...
N u want us to blv this tori?

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Re: Help, A Married Woman Refuses To Leave My House, How Can I Send Her Away? by MurderX: 12:49pm On Jul 23, 2017
boombay:
wake up one night and use powder to rub your body from head to toe.
Tie a white wrapper and tie your TV remote with a red cloth
start chanting in a strange manner
like "kulu kulu maku moku"grin
make sure she hears you.
if she asks wahz going on tell her you're a ritualist that you use female only for the ritualsgrin
and if she doesn't ask you
trust Me she will leave immediately!grin
















or better still get a coffin as your center table in the sitting room!grin


**modified**

Thanks to those who liked and shared this post!
#itz actually what I love doing best
#have you smiled today?grin
cc: Andyblaze
tobloj
is this the post with the highest likes on NL.

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