passionate88:
Na now u know?

Mznaett:
Hmmm,,that's the hardest truth ever

misspicy:
Ok,i know this from time immemorial buh that pic...lol

Toks2008:


This is why i don't do casuals and funny enough will never use a condom because

1.It does not guaranty real pleasure

2.It does not really prevent HIV

So i would rather stick to one hot partner and hope that she does not bring me one.

Toks2008:


Best way to illustrate without crossing the line .

It will amaze you that many have never taught about this.

misspicy:

Yes....and u would be shocked that many still dont use condom at all,some men be feeling like,kingkong....

Toks2008:


This is why i don't do casuals and funny enough will never use a condom because

1.It does not guaranty real pleasure

2.It does not really prevent HIV

So i would rather stick to one hot partner and hope that she does not bring me one.

ronald4lif:


Risky one. This means you're placing your life in someone's else hands. Don't you think is more risky to contract the virus by having unprotected sex with one supposedly faithful partner than with condom with more than one girlfriend?

Toks2008:


Lets face it, using a condom is like licking a candy with the wrapper.Do you feel the taste?

The problem is when a guy or lady keeps different sexual partners thinking using a condom is a big life saver.

Toks2008:


I don't keep girlfriends dude. I go for a lady and take the risk.

You can't run from risking sex with one partner because you must marry one day.
I don't even do a lady i don't see myself marrying.

misspicy:

To an extent a condom is really a life saver,because half a bread is better than none,meaning a little level of protection is better than none as long as people have failed to see the effect of having multiple sex partners,to some guys it shows their sexual power

ronald4lif:


Since you can't have sex with a lady you can't marry I take it that the pregnancy factor won't be an issue should it occur.

For someone like yourself who can be loyal to one girlfriend and indulges with her only they can have unprotected sex hoping that she's equally faithful. But not the case for a guy who engages in flings once in a while. Unprotected sex is never an option to such people, even with their main girlfriend's.

The thing is, there would always be a risk factor to sex. Whether unprotected with one loyal girlfriend or protected with more than one woman. The safest way is abstinence. The idea of which is more risky or not is debatable. And one can never be too certain of the faithfulness of a partner to the extend of taking the risk of having unprotected sex with them. Marriage is the only exception for me to indulge in unprotected sex, faithful partner or not.

nnamdiokere45:
I jst have a simple question to ask.if ur theory is tru, dat means if d vaginal fluid of an infected lady touches any part of d skin, nt necessarily d penile shaft, hiv can still b transmitted rite? dats if dis ur theory is tru cus d skin on d penis is same as d skin on any part of d body.so pls enlighten me more.
P.S Doc nnamdi

Toks2008:


Thanks Doc

The viral load varies according to different body fluids. In saliva and sweat the viral load is not that sufficient to infect but in the blood and vaginal fluid the load is quite much.

The virus cannot enter the body through the skin unless you have a wound, a rash, or abrasions which could be hardly noticeable and yes if the fluid touches any part of the skin WITH ABRASIONS which can be so tiny yes it can pass especially the HIV subtype 02_AG/A which is the most virulent and spreading fast.

nnamdiokere45:
thank God u cleared urself. so if no abrasion or wat so ever on d exposed part of d penile shaft, condoms r safe rite?

Toks2008:


Definitely.

That was why i wrote that condom only reduces the risk but DOES NOT PREVENT.

The penile shaft is the most delicate and that is the place we are prone to having hidden abrasions due to many reasons.

Those who self-service,through shaving and even innocent scratching and so on.

nnamdiokere45:
ok.was jst observing sha.I hardly comment bt wen I saw d heading on ur topic, I had to enquire so mayb I cld learn more.d head doesn't suit d point ur try to create.condoms protects if used effectively n consistently. am a medical practitioner in a hospital in owerri.

Toks2008:



Doc you and i know that the diagrammatic illustration is exactly the case in most cases except you get a condom that covers the scrotal sac so apparently there is no way one can effectively wear it that it will not slide down especially when really enjoying the act without pulling it up intermittently.

Honestly condom is a pleasure killer.

nnamdiokere45:
lolz...wer wld u gt dat kind of cd.dis guy self u funi.lol
na break i dey abeg

nnamdiokere45:
lolz...wer wld u gt dat kind of cd.dis guy self u funi.lol
na break i dey abeg

collinsVP:


Thanks for squeezing out clarity from the thread Doc.

Without any abrasion either on the penile shaft or any other part of the skin, you are save with condom provided that you consistently and effectively used it.