Djdamian:


Really? So what did you do about the driver who drove my wife's car until 2 a.m., even though he dropped your Indian guests by 8 p.m. the previous day?

Sometimes, you need to be firm and uncompromising when running a business; otherwise, people will take advantage of you and deceive you. It’s just how things often work here in Nigeria.

That’s one of the reasons why 60% of SMEs shut down within their first two years.

There’s a lot you could have learned from me, but your personality and mental state are holding you back.

Bro, be calming down.

I wasn't aware of the driver driving your wife's car till 2am, some people are shady truly and that driver you were referring to, I later laid him off when I got information he was using my Ford to run around at night after you collected your corolla back..


Do you think that guy is still working with me, I understand some people aren't honest and the moment I learn and have evidence against their dishonesty is when I can validly react, I can't doubt you at first when you haven't proven to me to be doubtful, I always trust people at my first engagement with them until I see reason not to trust them anymore...



The only issue I had with you was, despite my openess with you, you still always threaten me with your lawyer, if you understand someone's nature and build trust with the person, you shouldn't be bothered about those things you were bothered about with me....


The guys I got after I laid off the 2 guys that were working with me are reasonable people, I have had no issues with them since they have been working with me, if they have any issue with officers on the road, I don't doubt that coz they have built that trust to that extent with me...

Omoapena:



I swear, if that guy fit pull up, i go contact pope to come be witness, make e camera am and post....


Normally, I dey reserved, but mushin blood still dey body and I can easily switch personality...

This is getting interesting
cc: pearl1910

Real matter don sup
Enough of Cho Cho Cho

Omoapena:
As for you pearl, I'm not ungrateful, he was duely appreciated for the opportunity he gave me, but the opportunity can't buy my integrity towards his stinking attitudes...


Infact, if I become a billionaire tomorrow through him, it doesn't mean I will cover up his other side of attitude...

You can call someone out without being abusive and insulting.
Ta, u get integrity? If they give u small change now, u go roll for ground.

I am enjoying the displays, as far as they are not my relatives it's fun.

Omoapena:



Bro, be calming down.

I wasn't aware of the driver driving your wife's car till 2am, some people are shady truly and that driver you were referring to, I later laid him off when I got information he was using my Ford to run around at night,

Now you see my perspective. If you take a moment to calm down, think, and put yourself in the shoes of a business owner with open mind and not being bias, you'll understand the reasoning behind my firm stance.

The real question is: as a business owner, how would you address this behavior from other drivers? What measures will you put in place to prevent things like this from happening.

If you can answer this honestly, you'll grasp why I hold I try to be firm and remove sentiment from business

Note:It was this incident that made me change my mind about the Indian business, and also the fact that there was no insurance policy put in place if anything happened to the vehicle.

The risk was too much

Pearl1910:


You can call someone out without being abusive and insulting.
Ta, u get integrity? If they give u small change now, u go roll for ground.

I asked Damian if he actually want to do this, he pushed me, calling someone hater and bitter, was it called for?


You're correcting me for being abusive and insulting forgetting its Damian that started the whole thing...

Like I said, if he didn't come for me, I won't have reason to go at him...

Omoapena:


If you feel you owe donbrowser 100k, pay it directly to him, nobody here needs your money.

Or, did anyone come to you to request help with the current situation of the economy?


You're just one hell of a proud show off guy.
That's who you are...

If I slap u ehhh...
Who are u speaking for?... No go collect 20k hold body. Dav wey no get shame don go ur back go collect him share.

Omoapena:


What was the motivation behind the giveaway, cox the last time I remember, everyone have moved on with the fuel reality, someone already offered the assistance when it was needed the most, why didn't you add yours then.

If you owe Donbrowser, pay the guy and he won't be pained anymore🤣

Don...mgbo... They say u are pained🤣🤣 U no tell Olayetan say Tpain dey pay u wella and u don't need chicken change from a bad deal?

Djdamian:

Now you see my perspective. If you take a moment to calm down, think, and put yourself in the shoes of a business owner with open mind and not being bias, you'll understand the reasoning behind my firm stance.

The real question is: as a business owner, how would you address this behavior from other drivers? What measures will you put in place to prevent things like this from happening.

If you can answer this honestly, you'll grasp why I hold my partners to high standards.

Note:It was this incident that made me change my mind about the Indian business, and also the fact that there was no insurance policy put in place if anything happened to the vehicle.

See, you can't change some things, it's just like asking how can someone prevent death, its not possible..

The only thing possible is to ensure you put some things in place, I believe there was a way you knew someone was driving the car till 2am, tracking your car is a form of having security over your car, if you employed someone, you can't start to mistrust the person when you haven't had experience with the person, you give the person chance until he/she proves untrustworthy...


You can't avoid something, give them a chance until they prove they are untrustworthy, if you're having that mindset that everyone is the same, you won't be able to do business or employ anybody cox you will keep believing everyone is out there to take advantage. I believe to some extent you trust yourself and I believe you have worked for people, you were once an employee, imagine your employer having doubts you may take advantage of him employing you when you haven't done anything for him to have that thought...


Life isn't hard honestly...

Omoapena:




I asked Damian if he actually want to do this, he pushed me, calling someone hater and bitter, was it called for?


You're correcting me for being abusive and insulting forgetting its Damian that started the whole thing...

Like I said, if he didn't come for me, I won't have reason to go at him...

I only pointed out that your face isn't perfect, just as I would tell anyone else who makes the kind of remarks you made about Pearl and his innocent lineage. None of us are perfect—neither am I, nor Pearl, nor Jacksonfire.

Hate stems from the way you speak to people. After all the insults you've directed at me over the past three days, can you honestly say you love me?

Being bitter means holding on to negativity and past experiences, and every chance you get, you let that negativity spill out—which is exactly what you've been doing for the past three days.

As you can see, most of my statements are not insults.

Omoapena:




Ehn ehn, I no know say you mean am o,
Oya, make we meet for mobil filling station challe ge bus stop.

Since you want put body for physical...

Choose time and date...

Mumu... Me and u dey Ojodu, Lagos. U dey set meeting for Challenge Ibadan.

Djdamian:


Send location,let's have a one on one talk

One on one talk or make I pull up with men?

Pearl1910:


Mumu... Me and u dey Ojodu, Lagos. U dey set meeting for Challenge Ibadan.

You dey fear, I'm currently on leave with my people here...

Omoapena:



See, you can't change some things, it's just like asking how can someone prevent death, its not possible..

The only thing possible is to ensure you put some things in place, I believe there was a way you knew someone was driving the car till 2am, tracking your car is a form of having security over your car, if you employed someone, you can't start to mistrust the person when you haven't had experience with the person, you give the person chance until he/she proves untrustworthy...


You can't avoid something, give them a chance until they prove they are untrustworthy, if you're having that mindset that everyone is the same, you won't be able to do business or employ anybody cox you will keep believing everyone is out there to take advantage. I believe to some extent you trust yourself and I believe you have worked for people, you were once an employee, imagine your employer having doubts you may take advantage of him employing you when you haven't done anything for him to have that thought...


Life isn't hard honestly...

In business, we practice risk management by evaluating potential loopholes and making every effort to close them. If you don't, others may exploit them and drive you to bankruptcy.

If you're honest with yourself, you'll see I wasn't tough on you. The payment terms were reasonable, the total package was fair and achievable. Yes, there were times you missed payments, and you were also engaged in other ventures during our agreement.

Now, I was tough on Eric, and I admit that. Being new to the business, I was cautious and didn’t want anyone to take advantage of me. But he completed the business, and we moved forward. He was incredibly mature—the most mature person I've ever worked with in this business.

Omoapena:


Talk to Damian, he's an investor, he should be interested in this since that's his main purpose for being here...

Sir how can I reach out to mr. Damian or can I get his contact from u this is my whatsapp no sir 091...638...43...17.....4

Djdamian:

I only pointed out that your face isn't perfect, just as I would tell anyone else who makes the kind of remarks you made about Pearl and his innocent lineage. None of us are perfect—neither am I, nor Pearl, nor Jacksonfire.

Hate stems from the way you speak to people. After all the insults you've directed at me over the past three days, can you honestly say you love me?

Being bitter means holding on to negativity and past experiences, and every chance you get, you let that negativity spill out—which is exactly what you've been doing for the past three days.

As you can see, most of my statements are not insults.

Damian, you're mixing things up, when I asked pearl to drop a comprehensive report of his fuel usage, was I bitter in asking or was I sounding like I hate pearl..Pearl...


See, what you don't know is, I'm asking all that so when I'm convinced, I will trace back to where fault is on my end...

I don't like when someone is saying something and I tried everything to see if it's achievable but yet, I'm not achieving it, it makes me question where is thw fault coming from...


I currently have 3 cars, I've done the experiment with the 3 cars and I'm not getting that results, reason why I keep doubting Pearl, it's not hatred bro.

Make una settle. Make una go take beer and pepper soup for town talk things over,all this energy for typing na campaign after election

Pearl1910:


If I slap u ehhh...
Who are u speaking for?... No go collect 20k hold body. Dav wey no get shame don go ur back go collect him share.

Yes I no get shame
When are you doing yours?

Djdamian:

In business, we practice risk management by evaluating potential loopholes and making every effort to close them. If you don't, others may exploit them and drive you to bankruptcy.

If you're honest with yourself, you'll see I wasn't tough on you. The payment terms were reasonable, the total package was fair and achievable. Yes, there were times you missed payments, and you were also engaged in other ventures during our agreement.

Now, I was tough on Eric, and I admit that. Being new to the business, I was cautious and didn’t want anyone to take advantage of me. But he completed the business, and we moved forward. He was incredibly mature—the most mature person I've ever worked with in this business.

You can be tough, but you still have to be reasonable, when you want to venture into any business you won't be managing yourself, you have to think of every possibility loopholes, then put some things in place to tackle those loopholes, the moment you sense the person is trying to exploit the loopholes, you refer back what you have put in place to counter it....


Honestly, it is the employers duty to first put trust in his employees, coz your employees are also your ladder to the top, if you can't trust them, why work with them?

2RightHands1Coc:
Make una settle. Make una go take beer and pepper soup for town talk things over,all this energy for typing na campaign after election

Fortunately, I don't take alcohol 🤣🤣🤣

I know many people will not believe this but I don't take alcohol, I'm always sober😁😁😁

Even gabrinchi join to shalaye. Opari!

Instead make una go where men wey dey buy house mount, una dey here dey shalaye.

Why this rain stop now, i need red tomatoes jor

dav1002:

This is getting interesting
cc: pearl1910

Real matter don sup
Enough of Cho Cho Cho

I get time today,
I dey house like this.
Tell am to pick time and venue around Berger.

Cc
You
Pope
Obinoral
And anyone around Ojodu-Berger can come and attend the showcase

Pearl1910:


I get time today,
I dey house like this.
Tell am to pick time and venue around Berger.

Cc
You
Pope
Obinoral
And anyone around Ojodu-Berger can come and attend the showcase

Lolz
Why you dey give me venue, nah you wan pull up...

I dey hood like this, pull up at mobil filling station😁😁😁😁

Omoapena:


Damian, you're mixing things up, when I asked pearl to drop a comprehensive report of his fuel usage, was I bitter in asking or was I sounding like I hate pearl..Pearl...


See, what you don't know is, I'm asking all that so when I'm convinced, I will trace back to where fault is on my end...

I don't like when someone is saying something and I tried everything to see if it's achievable but yet, I'm not achieving it, it makes me question where is thw fault coming from...


I currently have 3 cars, I've done the experiment with the 3 cars and I'm not getting that results, reason why I keep doubting Pearl, it's not hatred bro.

Before the conversation about Pearl, you had already been making insulting comments about his earnings,calling him a liar and many Nairalanders were bashing him as well. I recall saying that drivers shouldn’t compare their earnings with others, as circumstances differ from case to case.

All I did was advise Pearl not to feel the need to prove himself to anyone because it only leads to more criticism. This isn’t the first time he’s posted, yet he keeps getting insulted.

Jackson has been insulting the man without reason, but somehow, you made it all about yourself.

I don’t have any issues with you. Our deal ended with both of us achieving what we wanted. Everything else I did was simply to ensure you complied with and stuck to the business agreement.

To be honest, I don’t want to keep dragging this conversation—three days of back-and-forth isn’t easy.

As you always say, life nor suppose hard;it's just unfortunate you don't understand my kind if person till now.

Omoapena:




You can be tough, but you still have to be reasonable, when you want to venture into any business you won't be managing yourself, you have to think of every possibility loopholes, then put some things in place to tackle those loopholes, the moment you sense the person is trying to exploit the loopholes, you refer back what you have put in place to counter it....


Honestly, it is the employers duty to first put trust in his employees, coz your employees are also your ladder to the top, if you can't trust them, why work with them?

How does one build trust? Isn’t it something that develops over time?

You weren’t completely honest about our business dealings. If you were, you’d understand that our first year was filled with ups and downs. We didn’t know each other personally when I handed the keys to you, just as you didn’t know me either. The only connection we had was that you sold my first car to me.

By the second year, I became much more open with you. I allowed you to take the vehicle outside Lagos, gave you the freedom to pursue the Indian business, and even encouraged you. When you skipped payments, I sometimes let it slide. I offered you more flexibility, which gave you time to focus on other ventures.

Djdamian:


Before the conversation about Pearl, you had already been making insulting comments about his earnings,calling him a liar and many Nairalanders were bashing him as well. I recall saying that drivers shouldn’t compare their earnings with others, as circumstances differ from case to case.

All I did was advise Pearl not to feel the need to prove himself to anyone because it only leads to more criticism. This isn’t the first time he’s posted, yet he keeps getting insulted.

Jackson has been insulting the man without reason, but somehow, you made it all about yourself.

I don’t have any issues with you. Our deal ended with both of us achieving what we wanted. Everything else I did was simply to ensure you complied with and stuck to the business agreement.

To be honest, I don’t want to keep dragging this conversation—three days of back-and-forth isn’t easy.

As you always say, life nor suppose hard;it's just unfortunate you don't understand my kind if person till now.

Djdamian:
Pearl1910, I suggest you avoid trying to prove anything to anyone anymore on this thread; it will only invite more criticism and negativity.

You can't change the hate some people carry inside their heart,it follows them like a shadow,like body odour.

Stay focused on your journey, achieve your goals quietly without plenty shalaye.

Much love.

My own issue with you was when you mentioned hate cos people didn't agree with pearls point of view
That was totally uncalled for

dav1002:




My own issue with you was when you mentioned hate cos people didn't agree with pearls point of view
That was totally uncalled for

Na Jacksonfire get that hate part cos how can you explain the insults from him when his situation is totally different

Omoapena:


Lolz
Why you dey give me venue, nah you wan pull up...

I dey hood like this, pull up at mobil filling station😁😁😁😁

Mobil filling station for Berger abi Ibadan?

Brother, let's just make this die down.

I'm not hating on pearl, I'm not bitter towards pearl, I don't even know him, so I have no reason to be bittered towards him...

dav1002:


Mobil filling station for Berger abi Ibadan?

No o, for Challenge bus stop mushin...


😁😁

Djdamian:


Na Jacksonfire get that hate part cos how can you explain the insults from him on situation is totally different

Shey na cos of big grammar wey jack dey fire na him make you think say na hate

Pearl sef no small for that aspect
I gats open dictionary when reading from him too

Pearl419 dey insult
Jack dey insult
Na 1-1

Equation balance

Peace at last, the season film has finally come to an end...


Omoapena
Djdamian

I'm already writing a script about your saga, how do you want me to conclude the ending part??