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In as much as am concerned, Prayer is the Master Key..Pray to God and ask for guidance to overcome and overturn whatever it is that's been said about your relationship...I stopped believing in soothsayers(pastors)..after a pastor I had visited some years bck told me not to having anything to do with light skinned ladies and I should always maintain a Skin haircut(fadan) coz my destiny doesn't permit it...today am still rocking my hair and doing fine with my girlfriend of 8yrs...Your Man was told some yrs bck that you have a short life span but he defiled all odds and went ahead to proposed to you..if he could do that despite the risk..why not overlook what your Dad said and go ahead..but forgive me for what about to say..What if your Dad actually lied you about what's been told by certain pastor coz he doesn't like the guy? Dear like I had said earlier prayer is the key..i pray God sees your heart and tears and listen to your prayer for guidance..#Shalom