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Re: Why Do People Abandon Their Single Friends After Marriage? by Nobody: 8:47am On Dec 23, 2015 |
All newly married couple needs to be left alone by there single peeps ..it just the fact of life alow them to enjoy their hooneymoon some peeps honeymoon last 6month some 2years ..after the enjoyment of been alone with ther patner they wil cum back to u .dont be so angry they left just acept them back that life ..asuming they where governor and came back to u to be their special assitant or minister to so and so ..will u reject them ...smh |
Re: Why Do People Abandon Their Single Friends After Marriage? by Nobody: 9:28am On Dec 23, 2015 |
SarahGee: You intend to remain single for the rest of your life, so shall it be. ![]() |
Re: Why Do People Abandon Their Single Friends After Marriage? by coldcandy: 9:31am On Dec 23, 2015 |
some women, when they get married, feel some guilt about their former wayward lifestyles. most times the married lady avoid her single friends cause they remind her of the escapades they did while single. they don't want them spilling the beans (accidentally) when the hubby is around. |
Re: Why Do People Abandon Their Single Friends After Marriage? by 400billionman: 9:32am On Dec 23, 2015 |
SarahGee: Are you the naijasinglegirl ? |
Re: Why Do People Abandon Their Single Friends After Marriage? by 400billionman: 9:48am On Dec 23, 2015 |
Shinelle: Yes, some job offers wont even afford you time for family talkless friends.. |
Re: Why Do People Abandon Their Single Friends After Marriage? by shollyBi(m): 9:50am On Dec 23, 2015 |
Re: Why Do People Abandon Their Single Friends After Marriage? by Bollinger(m): 9:59am On Dec 23, 2015 |
Pidggin: Again you misunderstand. You seem to want to see or hear what you want. I hope for your sake that you are not married because you are courting with avoidable problems. Like it or not, people of like minds move together. That is how it is, and that is how it will always be. I'm still trying to figure out what kind of conversations they would have. Their priorities and interests would be different, so what could they have to talk about? And just so you'd know, marriage is not a status; it is a responsibility which has to be managed carefully. |
Re: Why Do People Abandon Their Single Friends After Marriage? by tivta(m): 10:11am On Dec 23, 2015 |
Only childish people do such.
All my married friends still hold me in high esteem. |
Re: Why Do People Abandon Their Single Friends After Marriage? by tivta(m): 10:17am On Dec 23, 2015 |
loops 'seems like it is mostly females that suffer such' well am not surprised, after messing up big time in the past... |
Re: Why Do People Abandon Their Single Friends After Marriage? by Spanner4(m): 10:18am On Dec 23, 2015 |
FILEBE: Lol, my manest man hw fr na |
Re: Why Do People Abandon Their Single Friends After Marriage? by Deldima(f): 10:40am On Dec 23, 2015 |
EfemenaXY:well said!! Thank u jare... |
Re: Why Do People Abandon Their Single Friends After Marriage? by Kisses4rmDxtanx: 10:48am On Dec 23, 2015 |
Most of d times is d husband 2b dat usually corrupts dier fiance's mind. 'hey bae i dnt wnt 2b seeing u wt dat frnd of urs any more' maybe d guy dun gist d babe b4 nd d babe turn am down, or d babe will b a bad influence 2 his wife 2b. Bt which eva d case let it worth it. |
Re: Why Do People Abandon Their Single Friends After Marriage? by Emmydek(m): 11:05am On Dec 23, 2015 |
SarahGee: Islam has answer to your question. The answer is husbands'(boyfriends.lol) right to restrict wife |
Re: Why Do People Abandon Their Single Friends After Marriage? by maryhaam(f): 11:50am On Dec 23, 2015 |
yomi007k:loool hugz |
Re: Why Do People Abandon Their Single Friends After Marriage? by 400billionman: 11:52am On Dec 23, 2015 |
oslae: Do not blame the newly married ladies. Some girls do not know how to sift good advice from a bad one. A newly married lady will likely start discussing her new marriage as topic during gossips with her old friends who may start advicing her wrongly. |
Re: Why Do People Abandon Their Single Friends After Marriage? by daveP(m): 12:23pm On Dec 23, 2015 |
Specialbaby:it doesnt make sense. You have a bestie from year 1 to year 3 or 4 when you wanna get married, then the attitude of seperation starts. Its crappy. The reason given in itself needs the sayer to listen to it again. Why would one fear a bestie of SNATCHING your fiance/e? Does it mean the trust given to a bestie is empty afterall. Jealousy, yeah, but it simply butresses the fact that not many are calm/safe till they tie the knots, or till reception takes place, etc. Insecurity: you need to be assured of your partner's security/trust before you venture in. I've been in these shoes with 2-3 ladies and they cut off. Are they indirectly saying that i'm very capable of ruining their jackpot to getting married? Laughable! Hearing the news of a wedding happening in a week's time and its your bestie, close frnd have said it all Why i can still give slack for ladies-ladies, it still proves that two bestie ladies arent in full trust as two guys that are roomies but arent in agreement. |
Re: Why Do People Abandon Their Single Friends After Marriage? by Cutehector(m): 12:35pm On Dec 23, 2015 |
First off, my friendlist is just few, so cutting ties with the single brethren is just a no no. And i wouldnt advice my bride to be to cut ties with her friends either cuz there is a saying dat if you show me your friend, i will tell you who you are. Of course i will be getting married to a lady with a good upbringing and i expect her friends to be good too.. Unless i knw that my bride to be might be that nutty den she just has to cut ties with her nutty friends too ![]() |
Re: Why Do People Abandon Their Single Friends After Marriage? by daveP(m): 12:52pm On Dec 23, 2015 |
From observation on comments so far, seems many are tilting blame to the husbands in the sense that they dont want her female friends around them. Is this congruence to the fact that men truly know deep down that 'the friendship kept by femalefolks are not genuine enough for a 100% trust'? This is based on comments read. Not saying men are clean when we talk of friendship, but its a societal thing. Even ladies attest to it. Dangerous friends around. Better have 5 diehard, true friends in 6years like cutehector says, than have a basketful with chameleon effects in a year. This case is a sorry case. Proving foundations are weak. Asoebi of bridal train is slightly out of taste to the bride's friend, cos of that Bidemi refuses to be part. Why, cos the bride insist they must wear it without adjustment. Is the bride feeling insecure? Bidemi knows her very well and knows why the bride stubbornly insisted. Hmm. A look@ bridal trains these days might be a better way to extract the trust of the bride on her friends. Maybe that's why sisters, cousin full them these days. Trust!! 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Do People Abandon Their Single Friends After Marriage? by Nobody: 3:47pm On Dec 23, 2015 |
a man/woman shall leave his/her family (aka friends) and cling to his/her wife/husband. |
Re: Why Do People Abandon Their Single Friends After Marriage? by seaga: 11:52pm On Dec 23, 2015 |
If you are not loosing friends, you are not growing up |
Re: Why Do People Abandon Their Single Friends After Marriage? by mikolo80: 5:24am On Dec 24, 2015 |
SarahGee:abeg free them, come mowu marry make we sef no invite them |
Re: Why Do People Abandon Their Single Friends After Marriage? by SarahGee: 8:57am On Dec 24, 2015 |
kaeforum: I reject it in Jesus name and I rerun it back to the sender ![]() |
Re: Why Do People Abandon Their Single Friends After Marriage? by ladycomfort(f): 10:02am On Dec 25, 2015 |
Evathyst:. As from today henceforth people shall afford you like a plague. You shall be rejected in life. Stay away from my opinions comment or views on Nl. Oloshi |
Re: Why Do People Abandon Their Single Friends After Marriage? by Whobedatte(m): 8:00am On Dec 27, 2015 |
Chommieblaq:simple philosophy. |
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