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Re: My Cousin Wants To Call Off His Wedding by missionmex(m): 9:01am On Dec 25, 2015 |
A broken relationship is better than a broken marriage. 4 Likes |
Re: My Cousin Wants To Call Off His Wedding by Nobody: 9:01am On Dec 25, 2015 |
Okay |
Re: My Cousin Wants To Call Off His Wedding by philfrey08: 9:02am On Dec 25, 2015 |
VampireeM: A woman whose not concerned about household stuff but her beauty alone CANT make a good wife 5 Likes |
Re: My Cousin Wants To Call Off His Wedding by oforij(m): 9:05am On Dec 25, 2015 |
@bros, its not in anyway flimsy. It's obvious she's not ready 4 marriage. You dont expect a lady with marriage based orientation to have nothing as savings after working for two years, and let alone does'nt even have a clue about 'Kitchen ethics' marriage is a thing of self compromise... 4 Likes |
Re: My Cousin Wants To Call Off His Wedding by ultimate77(m): 9:06am On Dec 25, 2015 |
Trunaijian:gbam!!! 2 Likes |
Re: My Cousin Wants To Call Off His Wedding by Psalm18: 9:07am On Dec 25, 2015 |
Hmmm |
Re: My Cousin Wants To Call Off His Wedding by shabbey09: 9:07am On Dec 25, 2015 |
Na wa oh, men are different sha, my husband didn't want me to bring a single pin to his house. Infact I had to dash out my fridge and TV. It's not enough reason abeg. He should only talk to her to have a saving culture. 4 Likes |
Re: My Cousin Wants To Call Off His Wedding by Psalm18: 9:07am On Dec 25, 2015 |
missionmex:True |
Re: My Cousin Wants To Call Off His Wedding by Nobody: 9:08am On Dec 25, 2015 |
nonsense |
Re: My Cousin Wants To Call Off His Wedding by otiigba1(m): 9:08am On Dec 25, 2015 |
GOOD! Idea! Tell him to hurry up, before he makes the biggest mistake of his life, by getting himselve tied down with some ugly and wicked biatch! |
Re: My Cousin Wants To Call Off His Wedding by AllenCEO1: 9:10am On Dec 25, 2015 |
End time wedding |
Re: My Cousin Wants To Call Off His Wedding by Sahaboi(m): 9:11am On Dec 25, 2015 |
End time excuse |
Re: My Cousin Wants To Call Off His Wedding by Nobody: 9:12am On Dec 25, 2015 |
wwwkaycom:married her and see the living hell of your life. that WOMAN IS too young for her thinking and haven't fit to be wife, forget her and find another woman while she learn the lesson of her life. foolish WOMEN everywhere! 5 Likes |
Re: My Cousin Wants To Call Off His Wedding by Nobody: 9:12am On Dec 25, 2015 |
The earlier the better.... Your cousin his right, the lady is not ripe for marriage.. 2 Likes |
Re: My Cousin Wants To Call Off His Wedding by watered(m): 9:12am On Dec 25, 2015 |
I must say I didn't even bother to read your post because I'm of the opinion that. 'Broken relationship is better than broken marriage'. If he feels for whatever reason(s) he doesn't love her anymore and wants to call off the supposed wedding he should do so to avoid being enlisted among the long list of divorces. 3 Likes |
Re: My Cousin Wants To Call Off His Wedding by passionate88: 9:12am On Dec 25, 2015 |
VampireeM:He also said she uses her money only for material things. |
Re: My Cousin Wants To Call Off His Wedding by Nobody: 9:14am On Dec 25, 2015 |
VampireeM: Really? That's what u think? A woman who can't handle her finances, how will she handle that of a family. Don't be surprised that she'll use money for family upkeep for jewelries and bags and tell the husband to bring another one. Well your opinion though, from a woman's point of view. It is respected. 2 Likes |
Re: My Cousin Wants To Call Off His Wedding by dominique(f): 9:14am On Dec 25, 2015 |
Before he breaks up with her, he should first give her an ultimatum; Set your priorities right, adjust your attitude or the relationship is over! The way she'll change wi be like film trick. Nobody will want to face the humiliation of a broken engagement. For the fact that he has been with her for almost 2 years and is contemplating marriage, that means something must have attracted her to him. He should help her work in correcting her imperfections. That's what love and companionship is all about. 2 Likes |
Re: My Cousin Wants To Call Off His Wedding by MANOSUB(m): 9:14am On Dec 25, 2015 |
Maybe God wants him to acquire a landed property first before thinking who to marry |
Re: My Cousin Wants To Call Off His Wedding by Nobody: 9:15am On Dec 25, 2015 |
shabbey09: At least you wanted to but he refuse, the lady in question feel it's not her duty to buy all those things.. Believe me, her type will have millions but will refuse to help her husband in time of need.... It is good to pay attention to certain things before it gets out of hand 5 Likes |
Re: My Cousin Wants To Call Off His Wedding by Nobody: 9:15am On Dec 25, 2015 |
They should sort everything out b4 marriage. |
Re: My Cousin Wants To Call Off His Wedding by badonkadonk: 9:15am On Dec 25, 2015 |
wwwkaycom: I gbadun this your friend jere.. Ex the babe before she begin tell am say na im responsibility to go market shop for foodstuff... Some women sef... Once had a babe that said cos rice is her favorite food na only rice she go dey cook for me chop.. I say talk tru? I convert her status from staylite to come and go straight... No tym o... 2 Likes |
Re: My Cousin Wants To Call Off His Wedding by ify84(m): 9:17am On Dec 25, 2015 |
The guy should look for another tangible reason... This is no reason to call off a marriage. |
Re: My Cousin Wants To Call Off His Wedding by jopretty(f): 9:18am On Dec 25, 2015 |
If we demand the guy must have some things to show he's man enuf una go call us gold diggers. So because she hasn't started buying those stuffs means she's not ready for marriage? What if she's saving towards then without his knowledge? 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Cousin Wants To Call Off His Wedding by banio: 9:18am On Dec 25, 2015 |
Run away from a manipulative lady. She will manipulate you to your grave. A lady that will manipulate U to buy kitchen Utensils. She will also manipulate U into going to the market and serving her meals. Her reason, this is 21st century, husbands cook for their family 2 Likes |
Re: My Cousin Wants To Call Off His Wedding by jopretty(f): 9:19am On Dec 25, 2015 |
ify84:my thought exactly. |
Re: My Cousin Wants To Call Off His Wedding by ashatoda: 9:22am On Dec 25, 2015 |
Look dont let us be sentimental, lets call a spade a spade, she is not ready 4 marriage. If u see a lady dat believes it is d responsibility of a man to shoulder all responsibilcties know 4 sure dat if u marry her dere wil be serious conflict in future. Yea it is d responsibility of a man to provide, lets nt play hypocrisy wit d truth no man can carry d burden we need each odas input to av a succesful and hapi home. Ask her dat is her father d only one shouldering d responsibilities. Mothers are d homemakers and dey bear a lot if d woman of d house now tells u dat she wont be able to assist it wil lead to problems later. It is d duty of d woman to buy d dishes and oda little kitchen tins aw many tins do u tink a man wil tink of it is d constitution of d lady. Wat i bliv he should do is sit her down and av a heartfelt talk she myt nt be aware of d importance of dis. He culd also use one of d elderly women either in d lady's family or church dat she respects dat wil counsel her, if she den fails to change he can den take wateva step he wish 6 Likes |
Re: My Cousin Wants To Call Off His Wedding by misspicy2(f): 9:22am On Dec 25, 2015 |
wwwkaycom:my brother he is doing the right thing,yes I said that even me that am still some years before marriage have this kitchen things I started buying and the fact that she said its his duty shows that she will be a liability apart from that,its a normal thing for the bride to take kitchen wares to husband house in my culture,I don't know your culture sha but all my elder ones went to their husband house with kitchen wares,and equipments 5 Likes |
Re: My Cousin Wants To Call Off His Wedding by Nobody: 9:23am On Dec 25, 2015 |
VampireeM:One cant help but to respect your dumbness. It is indeed spectacular |
Re: My Cousin Wants To Call Off His Wedding by Cutehector(m): 9:23am On Dec 25, 2015 |
wwwkaycom:it is not very flimsy to warrant separation jor. U dnt marry out of pity! Neva mk dat mistakes, couples out thr been calling off their wedding a day to the wedding so.. 1 Like |
Re: My Cousin Wants To Call Off His Wedding by Halen(f): 9:23am On Dec 25, 2015 |
A broken engagement is much more better than a broken marriage. Some gals sha! |
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