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Take Pains And Read These,it Will Help by emmaak2(m): 7:54am On May 10, 2016 |
VIRGINITY WITHOUT EXTRA OIL
A lot of ladies complain that guys walk away from them simply because they
refused
to give them sex, some are even tempted to
give away
their virginity just to keep the guys.
Let me be very blunt here. Virginity
may
not be the real reason the guys go away. Yes,
no doubt, there are several guys who
want sex,
and if they
don’t get it they walk away. The
problem may not be with the virginity or the sex.
The
story of the Ten virgins in the Bible
reveals that
both the wise and foolish were both
virgins, the other five were not refused from
seeing
the
bridegroom because they were virgins
or
because they lost their virginity, but because
they were foolish; they were called
foolish
because they had no EXTRA OIL. Most
ladies don’t have any EXTRA OIL
to sustain any relationship. While many brag
about
their
virginity, that is all they have to offer.
They forget that virginity ends the
night after the wedding,
but EXTRA OIL is what will keep
marriage going.
If a man ask a lady for sex she says
NO,
the man can walk away if what he really
wanted was
sex and also if that is all he thinks the
lady can
offer him. A man may not come to a
lady for sex, along the line he may be
tempted to
ask for
sex, if the lady turns him down, the
man
may still stay in the relationship if he sees other
things that are valuable to him, but if
he
doesn’t, he
may walk away.
Before you think guys are walking away
because
you are a virgin, look inwardly. Some
ladies who
brag about virginity are somewhat
timid, some impolite, uncultured and aggressive.
Why would a
guy stay with such a lady? Some ladies
do not
have manners, some do not have
much upstairs,
some are not social, some are dull, and
maybe
the best thing they have is their hips,
nice
backside, nice breast and nice lips, and so when
a guy comes because of all the
physical
shapes
and wants sex, if he is turned down,
he walks away because there is nothing else
interesting
about the lady.
Most men now are even scared of
marrying such virgins. Their fears
prompt them to want to test
before
they discuss marriage.
However, you don’t need to test to be
sure she will be good, you can know a
lady who will be
good at home and bed by her decent
conversation, by the level of
knowledge
acquired,
by her quest/zest passion for knowledge and by
God’s leading. I know of many ladies
who are
still virgins, they have great
relationships, they
have many friends around them, you may not
even know they are still virgins
unless they tell you. Do not break your
virginity
because a guy wants to walk away,
unless you don’t have anything else to offer in the
relationship. It is not all about virginity,
work to
build up virtue. Virginity is good, but
to
your virginity, add knowledge, add EXTRA
OIL….“And
beside this, giving all diligence, add to
your faith,
virtue; and to virtue, knowledge; And
to knowledge, temperance; and to
temperance, patience; and to patience,
godliness, And
to
godliness, brotherly kindness; and
to brotherly kindness, charity.” 2Pet. 1:5-7.
Virginity or no virginity...,do you have
any Extra
oil to sustain a relationship?
Ponder on this my distinguished
ladies!!!....... 1 Like |
Re: Take Pains And Read These,it Will Help by iceberylin(m): 8:04am On May 10, 2016 |
So the Extra oil here is B.Job We can manage that (for a while) 1 Like |
Re: Take Pains And Read These,it Will Help by sinaj(f): 8:15am On May 10, 2016 |
Extra oil! |
Re: Take Pains And Read These,it Will Help by emmaak2(m): 8:25am On May 10, 2016 |
iceberylin: WRONG INTERPRETATION |
Re: Take Pains And Read These,it Will Help by emmaak2(m): 8:26am On May 10, 2016 |
sinaj: WHATS ON YOUR MIND |
Re: Take Pains And Read These,it Will Help by makdcash(m): 9:34am On May 10, 2016 |
Re: Take Pains And Read These,it Will Help by Tapout(m): 10:17am On May 10, 2016 |
iceberylin: oboy ye |
Re: Take Pains And Read These,it Will Help by stingbreed(m): 12:19pm On May 10, 2016 |
This is crazy |
Re: Take Pains And Read These,it Will Help by emmaak2(m): 2:55pm On May 10, 2016 |
YOU PEOPLE DONT GET IT |
Re: Take Pains And Read These,it Will Help by Rockyfancino(m): 4:30pm On Jul 23, 2016 |
This is really crazy! But I get your explanation. Don't let me go through such uncultured post just to prove a point. okay? |
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