Hey guys, you all haven't been fair to the female folks here. What if we reverse the question to "How do you know the character of a man" Women are not the trash you call them and shouldn't be treated as such. We only reciprocate what our guys dish out to us. Agreed we are complex but thats not to say that all we pass out is shit like the ducks!! We only give u back the shit u injected in the fist place. Treat your lady right and you will be shocked how she responds positively back at you. Respect her opinions and show her some love guys!!!!

@ Poster:

If you guys will actually want to take out a little time to get to know a girl before wanting to f**k, I dont think it'll seem so hard!!

A lady's true character steers at u in the face.u have to look deeper than what the eyes can see.The problem is dat most guys makes them masters of pretence practice cos they are too busy trying to figure out how to sleep with the girl other than knowing her true character.

lbotus:

A lady's true character steers at u in the face.u have to look deeper than what the eyes can see.The problem is dat most guys makes them masters of pretence practice cos they are too busy trying to figure out how to sleep with the girl other than knowing her true character.

at first it is hard to read a ladys character
but as time goes on it becomes easy

y me how u dey

candylips:

y me how u dey

hey baby am cool and u

y me

y me:

hey baby am cool and u

am cool too darling . whats up today

candylips:

am cool too darling . whats up today

nothing much just that am missing u

y me, what bout moi?

what you understand about character that you are looking for? what you are calling good character might be nothing to another. Do how you define the character you are looking for? its key

Anyway, I suggest the following

1. shine your eyes (better still God-given eyes)
2. be real. be yourself
3. by her fruits you will know her
4. get wisdom, get understanding
5. check out her friends, mother and family

God help you and her to be true to each other.

patwhizkid:

y me, what bout moi?

i always miss you dear

but yu seem to have forgotten moi.

y me:

nothing much just that am missing u

i miss u too darling. i no see u here yesterday hope u had fun  

Candylips
the summary of wat i wrote is that a guy need to see beyond wat she potrays herself to be.No matter how good she is in pretence, u will always know her character if u have the 6th sense.

you know what, if you meet a lady when the going is wel, hardly will you know her xter, but when things turns the other way, that is when she will exhibit her true xter

y me:

at first it is hard to read a ladys character
but as time goes on it becomes easy

So we should adopt the trial and error format. Oh, I'd love that!
It means I can hurt the first 6 girls in my bid to understand the 7th. Why should she be hard to read in the first place?

lbotus:

Candylips
the summary of wat i wrote is that a guy need to see beyond wat she potrays herself to be.No matter how good she is in pretence, u will always know her character if u have the 6th sense.

Oooook. . .the 6th sense! So whats that? Where do they sell this 6th sense?

Just get to know them. . . . . the whole point of acting is that it's temporary. . . . . a person's true colour eventually slips through even if it's bit by bit, it will happen.

under adverse circumstances, one can tell the character of a woman or person

How do we know the true character of a man? Give him your heart and see what he does with it lol. If he nurtures and cherishes it marry him, if he abuses it then you know if you gave him ur future he would waste and destroy it so run while you still can.

Ujujoan:

@ Poster:

If you guys will actually want to take out a little time to get to know a girl before wanting to f**k, I dont think it'll seem so hard!!

maybe if u girls take a little time to get to know the guy rather than wanting to spend his money or make him spend on u, u will know if he is going to be a wife beater. take that!

If you see a a well-mannered lady,you will know,it is not written on the face,but simple knowledge/wisdom tell you so.In the midst of crowd a well behaved lady disciplines herself,she takes her time instead of talking to much,she studies people and the environment,she is in.She chooses her words,when interacting.She is not free in conversation/carried away.She is generally responsible.

pinkstar:

If you see a a well-mannered lady,you will know,it is not written on the face,but simple knowledge/wisdom tell you so.In the midst of crowd a well behaved lady disciplines herself,she takes her time instead of talking to much,she studies people and the environment,she is in.She chooses her words,when interacting.She is not free in conversation/carried away.She is generally responsible.

but some girls sabi pretend like hell na

yeah!!!!!!!!! WOmen ,u cnt knw them,
no mata hw u try u can knw them .
they r like ***flower***,
@@@ ohhh,soory

candylips:

but some girls sabi pretend like hell na

I hear ya

Thank you so so much for all your response. I think I'll just stay close enough and time will unveil what she has covered inside. Thank you for the advice you're the best. I really didn't want to jump into believing everything about her. I'll find out about her myself through time. Thank you.

@ Poster:

If you guys will actually want to take out a little time to get to know a girl before wanting to f**k, I dont think it'll seem so hard!!

my sentiments exactly (without the expletives) . Maybe if guys stopped wasting so much time and money on getting into a girls pants they will learn more about her xter first

@Topic

The only way to get to know a lady's character is to be A SENSITIVE BASTARD."Nice guys" always settle with pretenders.I'm not saying you have to be an "all-out-bad" guy but mess with her emotions every now and then (this doesn't include sleeping with her friends or sisters).Let her know you're admire her and care for her (from a distance) but act like she don't mean s**t to you every now and then.The curious "demons" in her will come out frequently.You'd know 90% of what she really is in less than a month.

Nuff said.

hello

@Pittbaby

my sentiments exactly (without the expletives) . Maybe if guys stopped wasting so much time and money on getting into a girls pants they will learn more about her xter first

Exactly.And maybe if he took you out to dinner and made you pick up the tab, you'd call him cheap and cut off any future ties with him, lol