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. by Nobody: 12:09am On Aug 02, 2016 |
God have mercy. 7 Likes |
Re: . by Nobody: 12:18am On Aug 02, 2016 |
Touching actually. God will grant your heart desires. 3 Likes |
Re: . by Theoritical(m): 12:21am On Aug 02, 2016 |
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Re: . by Nobody: 12:22am On Aug 02, 2016 |
It is well 1 Like |
Re: . by Theoritical(m): 12:37am On Aug 02, 2016 |
U are most fortunate my friend.. If only the man who passes urine with tube do have an inch of ur privilege' u wish to marry because u have a reproductive organ' howabout the man whose spinal cord was paralysed, hence, his organ is dead.. U tired of fasting! ![]() 22 Likes 1 Share |
Re: . by wordbank(m): 12:37am On Aug 02, 2016 |
I'm awake cos my business is giving me alotta concerns. May every of our good desire come to fruition in due time in Jesus name AMEN My brothers and sisters, it is done! 5 Likes |
Re: . by MRBrownJ: 12:59am On Aug 02, 2016 |
if you base your happiness on what you DONT possess, instead of being happy, positive and cheerful for what YOU GOT (however small it may be , that you foolishly choose to disregard), then you are doomed. you are BLESSED by being healthy, smart, well fed, have friendship, have family around, have a marketing job, have an income AND you have the option of waking up tomorrow and giving life another try... while many people's aim in life is the very little in your life that you selfishly referring as "nothing". just the fact that you have a job/salary, makes you more successful than many Nigerians! BE HAPPY FOR WHAT YOU GOT AND ENJOY THAT, UNTIL MORE IS COMING! if you are miserable today, then you will equally carry such miserable/negative vibe around you, and with such, nothing good can be created. have a smile (its free) and a positive outlook on life, be happy, count your blessings, love the man you see in the mirror every morning, and cherish the life you got. its the 1st step in being successful in life, it starts within! FORGET about hoping/praying that God will bring miracles into your life. if you are expecting miracles from God then i suggest you wake the fukc up asap, and instead be proud and work towards building a better life for yourself. its called HARDWORK and there is nothing free in this world, and whatever you get for free isnt as valuable as what you worked for and created for yourself. its called LIFE and whoever told you that it was gonna be easy, is a damn fool. you can NEVER succeed in life with such failed state of mind! here you are comparing yourself with the next man, hoping to put value in your life by wanting irrelevant BS such as marriage/kids, while you havent even gotten a proper life for yourself yet (aka foundation). even if you got married today and have kids, you can only but fail, as you dont have the necessary tools to sustain it. as i said earlier, people like you cant succeed so long as you remain this miserable negative being seeking irrelevant BS "dreams" to put the IMAGINARY value that you are looking for in your life! 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: . by sobastical: 12:59am On Aug 02, 2016 |
Godchild2015: God is never slothful neither is He slow... You have a degree He did that for you, what about those who can't afford to go to school or those that go and yet got dropped out and yet they can get back to school. My brother it could be a little thing your attention is drift away from. Ye ask, and receive not, because ye ask amiss, that ye may consume it upon your lusts. - James 4 vs 3 1 Like |
Re: . by waywardpikin: 3:01am On Aug 02, 2016 |
OP life is never easy, we just have to make the most of what we have with the cards that we've been dealt. For now I would suggest that you avoid Facebook to avoid slipping into more depression. I just want you to know that all you see on social media is all smokes and mirrors. No matter how perfect a person's life might seem (financial success, marriage, achievements, etc), everyone is fighting his own battle that you cannot see. You will find that you're even more fortunate than quite a number of people. This too shall pass my dear. I can promise you that. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: . by Nobody: 4:20am On Aug 02, 2016 |
Godchild2015: Don't worry, someone always tell me that the devil never show interest in useless persons. Never relent, be steadfast, be more prayerful, you are a overcomer. ![]() ![]() |
Re: . by Nobody: 6:25pm On Sep 11, 2016 |
i know you have done everything.... God has also answered praise him to the fullest of your ability.... Gods time is Gods time, its way above mans plans sing praises like never before thats why the wall of jericho fell# give thanks,dance like its the last day on earth # 1 Like |
Re: . by ifyalways(f): 6:37pm On Sep 11, 2016 |
Have things gotten this bad? Family giving marriage deadline to their daughters ![]() 6 Likes |
Re: . by gidjah(m): 7:48pm On Sep 11, 2016 |
God child, pls brazen up. He is able to do beyond all that you can think. Who told you can't get a honored job even on 25th of December? ?pls don't try this god. Never never loose hope o, keep been practical, match actions with words and watch god come to your behalf. 1 Like |
Re: . by southernbelle(f): 9:41am On Sep 12, 2016 |
This op is sounding depressed and there are signs of desperation in her statements, please take it easy on yourself. You do not know tomorrow or the day after tomorrow, don't look at anyone else's life and compare yourself with what you think you are seeing. Your prayers and heart desires are not difficult for God, release the negativity and keep believing that the best is what you will get. Take solid steps towards achieving your dreams of a better career or business, and try not to look haggard, tensed up or downcast. It is well with us all. 3 Likes |
Re: . by Nobody: 9:15pm On Sep 19, 2016 |
Hmm |
Re: . by Atk1nson(m): 10:27pm On Sep 19, 2016 |
Godchild2015: I just did madam, u complain too much and you have negative mindset. I opine that the source of your problem is ur mindset and attitude to life challenges. Even if you are doing a marketing job and it is seems ur dream job is no where, pls continue to be diligent with ur work and have an optimistic outlook to life-problems. Some people were born with disabilities and they felt it was their destiny to beg and remain a pauper in life, some others were born with same thing and they never gave up. There are so many stories where people use their disability to attract attention and tap into opportunities that they would not be able to get if they were not disabled. You have a lover and probably a very loving relationship. if you don't have money for marriage, pls both of u should just go to ur parents and let them pray for u guys. who says u must pay one money or do one party before marriage is recognised. don't let ur desire to please family or society ruin u. u guys are poor today, who says you cannot live and be happy. i know a man who thru his life was either a gateman, cleaner or some sort of menial worker. His wife also, had like 4 kids staying in one room. I did wonder how such a life was, but this man was always happy and thankful. Today, his son has graduated, is a chartered accountant with masters and works at a top ministry. He rented a flat for his parents. Two of his daughters are married. If he had dis kind of ur mindset, or his wife did, he will probably commit suicide or abandon his family. I left school highflying only to come to the labour market to meet something else. Fortunately, I had a girl that kept telling me not to give up, no matter what the situation is. I started with just collecting some small change running errands for people, I used the money to support my other ideas. Fortunately, it paid off shortly You have fibroid, so? is it an unsurmountable problem? shake off d African mentality that ur marriage is nt fulfilled without children. There are so many orphans in society, pls adopt and train one if u must have a child. Your current mentality is not just dragging u down, it is likely dragging everyone that closely relates with u down. I feel for ur fiance, u r probably d one dragging him down with this ur mindset 6 Likes |
Re: . by Chubhie: 10:32pm On Sep 19, 2016 |
Godchild2015:You must learn to change your perspectives and stay positive. look to the bright side and be grateful. Be strong,self motivate and draw inspiration from your inside. You seems to have limited yourself into thinking that marriage is the be-all? What if marriage happens to you now and you end up most miserable?You are already setting yourself up for future unhappiness by intending marriage as an escape route. There's a divine purpose imprinted into your DNA.Your goal is to discover this and live an amazing existence. 2 Likes |
Re: . by Nobody: 10:48pm On Sep 19, 2016 |
Atk1nson: Wetin dey do me no be wetin dey do you. So I will pretend I did nt see what rubbish you have done . I don't need ur self pity. Being here pouring my heart is the only way I can relief my pain and forget what ever the challenges are. I said no quoting do you care to know why? And what you could think of is to do that same thing I pleaded for. Like I said earlier, the only way I let go of my pains is using this page and there after I edit by deleting whtever I must have written. Was about deleting my post before I saw the unbelievable. You re free to insult me call me manners of names. But know these , I opened this thread to pour out my mind not for anyone to insult me or pity me. I have enough issues to deal with already, thanks. 2 Likes |
Re: . by Nobody: 10:52pm On Sep 19, 2016 |
Chubhie:I think you need to read whoever you quote again. Was talking about health issues and here we re , you changed it to marriage. The subject was far different frm marriage. Only brought marriage stuff base on wht my gyn told me as regards the health issue. So marriage is the last thing I need to be border about right now.Thanks. |
Re: . by Chubhie: 11:02pm On Sep 19, 2016 |
Godchild2015:Don't give up on yourself. There's nothing you are passing through now that's peculiar to mankind. Things change and conditions improve for there's no permanence in nature.It's both a natural and spiritual law that this too shall pass. Don't resist your life given. yield,accept,learn and grow through it. stay positive and think less of what people say. |
Re: . by Atk1nson(m): 11:06pm On Sep 19, 2016 |
Godchild2015: From today henceforth, see your life as half-full, start counting ur blessings no matter how small, and with time it will multiply. I know people who faced much more that this and they were even the ones encouraging others. |
Re: . by Nobody: 6:58pm On Jan 22, 2017 |
Thank you Jesus for this great priviledge of witnessing another beautiful year. Yea! Today is my birthday. Wow, thank you Jesus. 2 Likes |
Re: . by sisisioge: 7:21pm On Jan 22, 2017 |
Godchild2015: Hallelujah! Happy birthday! So have they sent you packing or u got a new bf? ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: . by Nobody: 9:16pm On Jan 22, 2017 |
[quote author=sisisioge post=53038957] 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: . by sisisioge: 10:24pm On Jan 22, 2017 |
Godchild2015: It is well baby. I wish you could find some happiness within yourself and live a happy life. Having a happy demeanor is attractive to others and good for your looks and wellbeing. No one wants to associate with gloom. Husband, betttet job, children, comfort, love and everything good will find you soon...enjoy. 2 Likes |
Re: . by Atk1nson(m): 11:10pm On Jan 22, 2017 |
Godchild2015: amen, it will end in praise 1 Like |
Re: . by Nobody: 12:10am On Jan 23, 2017 |
Godchild2015:Happy birthday to you. I hope things get better for you. 1 Like |
Re: . by Nobody: 4:02pm On Jan 23, 2017 |
sisisioge: Thanks so much. And a very big amen to your prayers towards me. 1 Like |
Re: . by Nobody: 4:03pm On Jan 23, 2017 |
NotOfThis:Thanks ma |
Re: . by Nobody: 9:21pm On Mar 09, 2017 |
It is well with my soul. 3 Likes |
Re: . by ifyalways(f): 7:39pm On Mar 10, 2017 |
Godchild2015:Sorry but what exactly is the problem? ![]() |
Re: . by Nobody: 7:50pm On Mar 10, 2017 |
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