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Bastards exist amongst black people and there are women from none black races who do exactly the same thing as those two you have described.How would you describe their mentality? Mixed heritage children from single parent households exist most grow up to be very successful and grounded individuals irrespectful of parental heritage. There are ignorant women out there, you cannot explain motives and behaviours by your attempt at an analysis. Maybe if your removed the slightly contrived tone and I would say condescending point of view it could possibly have some impact not sure what that maybe at this point in time.

Op if it were that easy to have a child in Nigeria outside of wedlock and still be unmarried without taking big insults from people, maybe, these women would not mind staying back in Nigeria to have babies with these same black Nigerian men who would turn around to gear at them for being unmarried.

At 30 somthing, we all know a woman's best child bearing time is behind her and soon, she will not be 'fertile' anymore. We also know she cannot get married to herself. There are options for her: getting pregnant and having her baby now and be patient for a partner tommorrow even if that tommorrow is when she is in her 70s, or she opts for sperm bank from an anonymous donor.

You and i know too well that in Nigeria, a child born through surrogacy will experience social problems as there are many backward people who would always want to taunt the child and call him "test tube baby". So the best option for these women is to opt for the so-called Bastard who has a known father. It is easier that way.

When a lady is faced with this, then you leave her a choice. There is abosutely nothing wrong if people want to have offsprings of a slightly different colour. The problem is that you are the one seeing it that it is a sign of low self esteem.

The human being has always done that which he thinks is fanciful for him. That's why we wear different hairstyles, and our kind of dressing would change from time to time. The human being has always asked: what if i look differently? It is in the same vein that these ladies may just want a mixed race child. It has nothing to do with having a low self esteem and i think black people cannot keep using our history of slavery and colonialism to always think is the reason we act the way we do. The success of the pro black concious movement should not be seen in how many black people will see actions like these ladies have displayed as a sign of slave mentality. The success of the pan africanist movement should be seen in how many black people can now move on and and not always see a slave mentality in every innocent action of another black man.

Remember white people also want children of mixed race. What do you call that, slave mentality too?

and permit me to take on a more tangential topic, now that you raised it, which is the cultural practice of stigmatizing some group of people that born out of wedlock by calling them the name Bastard.

I think the practice of calling one a bastard is a very backward one. This is a practice very prevalent in societies with long history of monarchy. And the reason that is is because of power politics involved in succession, nothing more! If it were not all about power, i want you to notice that the girls born out of wedlock are not called bastards, only the men. The reason is that for those societies, women's claim to the throne, if at all they have any, is not very strong.

The reason i think that practice should stop already is because i think it is unfair to the 'bastard' himself as his birth is no fault of his but is parent's. It doesn't make any sense make a man suffer for what he is no cause of, but a product. So stop refering to anyone as bastard.

dumbest post of the year. for some who claims to be abroad, u dont knw d word bastard is old fashioned /outdated in d west abi. hw many oyinbo dey marry. dey just hv kids for 2-3 diff guys. most of those mixed race footballers in epl never knw their fathers e.g glen johnson, Dele alli, ross barkely, Ashley Cole. bt they are beta dan ur generations. so thier life their business.

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TheInquisitor:
I know a Nigerian girl fresh of the boat from Delta state here in Rochester New york who simply got pregnant for a white guy even though that guy does not want the baby and ran away. The guys is 6 years younger than her and is not even real white but Lebanese/Portuguese.
The girl just wanted to have baby by white guy and fraudulently got pregnant to hook the Bleep buddy guy but the guy took off. She still kept the pregnancy. Very sad indeed. The baby will grow up a bastard.But according to black Mental slaves like this girl,it's alright as long as it's white.

I was talking to a cousin of mine recently ,she's 34 years old and unmarried from imo state. She told me that I should help her to come here to America and she does not care about marriage but just want to get pregnant by white guy and at least have a baby. Very sad indeed for the black race. shameless slaves! The child will grow up a bastard ,but according to black pea brain slaves like this cousin of Mine , it's alright as long as it's white.

There are Many other cases like this one but i gave the two examples above . One thing that these girls have in common is that they are all 30 something and desperate and prostitutes who don't mind fvcking black guys.They feel the next step of their ageing desperation is to get pregnant for a white guy and have a mixed bastard baby.
While I have no objections towards interracial marriage ,In fact my girl is white and it wasn't intentional. I feel it's highly unethical and immoral to deliberately procreate bastard babies instead of looking for a white partner (if that's your preference)who will settle down and start a family rather than procreating bastard mixed race kids.

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ogbe240:
and permit me to take on a more tangential topic, now that you raised it, which is the cultural practice of stigmatizing some group of people that born out of wedlock by calling them the name Bastard.

I think the practice of calling one a bastard is a very backward one. This is a practice very prevalent in societies with long history of monarchy. And the reason that is is because of power politics involved in succession, nothing more! If it were not all about power, i want you to notice that the girls born out of wedlock are not called bastards, only the men. The reason is that for those societies, women's claim to the throne, if at all they have any, is not very strong.

The reason i think that practice should stop already is because i think it is unfair to the 'bastard' himself as his birth is no fault of his but is parent's. It doesn't make any sense make a man suffer for what he is no cause of, but a product. So stop refering to anyone as bastard.

Raine80:
Bastards exist amongst black people and there are women from none black races who do exactly the same thing as those two you have described.How would you describe their mentality? Mixed heritage children from single parent households exist most grow up to be very successful and grounded individuals irrespectful of parental heritage. There are ignorant women out there, you cannot explain motives and behaviours by your attempt at an analysis. Maybe if your removed the slightly contrived tone and I would say condescending point of view it could possibly have some impact not sure what that maybe at this point in time.

Raine80:
Bastards exist amongst black people and there are women from none black races who do exactly the same thing as those two you have described.How would you describe their mentality? Mixed heritage children from single parent households exist most grow up to be very successful and grounded individuals irrespectful of parental heritage. There are ignorant women out there, you cannot explain motives and behaviours by your attempt at an analysis. Maybe if your removed the slightly contrived tone and I would say condescending point of view it could possibly have some impact not sure what that maybe at this point in time.

You are mixed

African men willingly and intentionally create ""basterd" children right here in Africa. Are they any different from those women? At least the women keep and care for their children,

Then a useless kid will run back to their father when they grow up, after all the sacrifice and effort of their mother.

Muafrika2:
African men willingly and intentionally create ""basterd" children right here in Africa. Are they any different from those women? At least the women keep and care for their children,

Then a useless kid will run back to their father when they grow up, after all the sacrifice and effort of their mother.

No reasonable child will ever run back to his father who was never there for him.

ianSweet:


No reasonable child will ever run back to his father who was never there for him.

Exactly!

Emphasis on the word "resonable."

Op you are talking about NY City. here in Ajah where I leave, I know a girl that had a child for a Mozambique man(whiteman) the man ran away. She later had another one for a Lebanese who also took off. She just had another for a Chinese. Is she not mother of all Nation? Meanwhile her very first child is black. All of them boys.

I doubt you're actually based abroad. .. if not you wouldn't be using the word 'bastard' carelessly.

LePrezident:


You are mixed

Mixed what exactly?

Raine80:

Mixed what exactly?

Mixed race