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Re: Share Your Challenges As A First-born by Talk2Bella(f): 10:21pm On Apr 18, 2017 |
ednut1: hahahahahahah no be lie walai my brother comes to mind 5 Likes |
Re: Share Your Challenges As A First-born by CoCoLav(f): 10:21pm On Apr 18, 2017 |
OP, your story is touching. I respect first borns a lot because they are like experiments. Parents learn from their mistakes with the first child and that is why the younger children have it easier in life. My elder sister for instance, my parents did a lot of trial and error with her which allowed them become better parents with us. 12 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Share Your Challenges As A First-born by holatimmy(f): 10:21pm On Apr 18, 2017 |
Let me give you mine as a last born 1.You are spoilt when your elder one cooks for you 2.You can't contribute to any decision making in the house. 3.Whenever you are bullied,you get a sorry and a pat on the head. 4.The smallest piece of meat is yours. 5.You should be like your elder ones Abeg...Being a last born no be beans 10 Likes |
Re: Share Your Challenges As A First-born by odiereke(m): 10:21pm On Apr 18, 2017 |
Am first, with 9 sinlings behind me. Na Baba God's grace oooooo. 7 Likes |
Re: Share Your Challenges As A First-born by Olanrefront3355(m): 10:21pm On Apr 18, 2017 |
Mom use to pass those scape goats to me to manhandle ![]() I wished.... But I'm the only child, wat to do? 2 Likes |
Re: Share Your Challenges As A First-born by 4tunebest(f): 10:22pm On Apr 18, 2017 |
God has indeed been faithful to me... 1 Like |
Re: Share Your Challenges As A First-born by Nobody: 10:22pm On Apr 18, 2017 |
None. I dance to my own beat not the ones defined by society or my parents. 5 Likes |
Re: Share Your Challenges As A First-born by darbeelicous(f): 10:22pm On Apr 18, 2017 |
hehehehe..... Ntor ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() . . . . . But wait o, I thought the only duty of the first born is to beat and shout at us?? ![]() ![]() 4 Likes |
Re: Share Your Challenges As A First-born by AlphaStyles(m): 10:22pm On Apr 18, 2017 |
mehn op it ain't easy o every thing dy ontop my head 1 Like |
Re: Share Your Challenges As A First-born by Yuneehk(f): 10:23pm On Apr 18, 2017 |
The sacrifices you have to make. That is the major challenge most if not all first born go through. Also being held responsible for things that weren't even your fault. 5 Likes |
Re: Share Your Challenges As A First-born by djakinwande(m): 10:23pm On Apr 18, 2017 |
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Re: Share Your Challenges As A First-born by VeeVeeMyLuv(m): 10:23pm On Apr 18, 2017 |
lol i know that feeling, like you are given backpack filled with responsibilities to be worn your lifetime. if the TV volume is low you are blamed if your younger ones have not taken their bath or brush their teeth it is you they call, they also blame you for recession. if the girls have not prepared the meal you are also to be blamed ![]() 6 Likes |
Re: Share Your Challenges As A First-born by Nellizzy(m): 10:24pm On Apr 18, 2017 |
yea |
Re: Share Your Challenges As A First-born by Qmerit(m): 10:24pm On Apr 18, 2017 |
Is a long story... it gonna be a thread on it own soon |
Re: Share Your Challenges As A First-born by Nobody: 10:24pm On Apr 18, 2017 |
please I want to post a topic on what's bothering me and I need advice
can someone tell me please 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Share Your Challenges As A First-born by Stephanie1235(f): 10:24pm On Apr 18, 2017 |
Well am not a firstborn tho. buh I know what it feels to because of my senior brother, you guys are trying seriously it's even in the bible set during the time of moses when they were asked to kill a lamb am put the blood on their door as a mark of touch not I guess. It was Pharaoh's son that suffered it since he was the first born. Well I thank God tho because unlike my brother I was\am very lucky. He suffered since from childbirth and his still suffering now sef. What I got with ease he suffered to get. even most churches sef this days they hold prayer for firstborns, Anointing for firstborn and stuff. God bless y'all firstborns out there you guys are the best 27 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Share Your Challenges As A First-born by deekseen(m): 10:26pm On Apr 18, 2017 |
As a first born I used to point fingers at a lot of things whenever I faced difficulties. Truth is, almost anyone can face such difficulties too. As first born children we tend to bear too much burden. Life became bearable when I realized I'm not the messiah and so, I cut off some excess baggages. That's not to say I don't reach out and assist from time to time. I'm married now with my own family and they come first in everything I do. 9 Likes |
Re: Share Your Challenges As A First-born by teelaw4life(m): 10:26pm On Apr 18, 2017 |
In two words: Responsibilities and expectations. 4 Likes |
Re: Share Your Challenges As A First-born by Cutie09(m): 10:26pm On Apr 18, 2017 |
Tough being a first born child. Is not easy to say the least but I thank God for His Grace. It is well sha 1 Like |
Re: Share Your Challenges As A First-born by PublicAssurance: 10:27pm On Apr 18, 2017 |
my name CHUKWUUUUDIIIII is the most shouted name. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Share Your Challenges As A First-born by Nobody: 10:27pm On Apr 18, 2017 |
Its not easy, but I'll sail through. GOE 1 Like |
Re: Share Your Challenges As A First-born by Nobody: 10:27pm On Apr 18, 2017 |
I think it depends on the family and the age gap between the first and second born. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Share Your Challenges As A First-born by sharpwriter(m): 10:28pm On Apr 18, 2017 |
GloriaNinja:Babe, I find you come here... how are you my love? ![]() |
Re: Share Your Challenges As A First-born by ArcFresky(m): 10:28pm On Apr 18, 2017 |
Be like say I was used as a guinea pig for testing. I go 6 different school. Write exams tire...... But at least it was fun, no responsibility at all... 7 Likes |
Re: Share Your Challenges As A First-born by bobbybrown007: 10:28pm On Apr 18, 2017 |
been a first born child is very disturbing and also challenging, so many things on ur head, ur mind and also ur heart. Am a first born child buh things have been very difficult like seriously loosing my dad at a younger age was very hard, everything at times falls the other way round. When you are not there the world would be @ ur neck, comparizm and others takes place, at tymes you feel like giving up buh at tymes you still have to prove some people wrong. Mine is not what is meant to be written but spoken 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Share Your Challenges As A First-born by josh77(m): 10:28pm On Apr 18, 2017 |
e no easy at all person must b successful by force especially wen d distance btw u and ur siblings na 2 to 3yrs, yah don finish cos soon na competition 3 Likes |
Re: Share Your Challenges As A First-born by wunmi590(m): 10:29pm On Apr 18, 2017 |
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Re: Share Your Challenges As A First-born by bobbybrown007: 10:30pm On Apr 18, 2017 |
PublicAssurance:lolz, mine was bobby |
Re: Share Your Challenges As A First-born by Taryur3(m): 10:30pm On Apr 18, 2017 |
montezz:Reply your dm |
Re: Share Your Challenges As A First-born by Maxcollins042(m): 10:31pm On Apr 18, 2017 |
darbeelicous:That's why most of you don't go far in life. Always complacent with their comfort zones. 2 Likes |
Re: Share Your Challenges As A First-born by caywhy: 10:31pm On Apr 18, 2017 |
everything that you guys have said is exactly what I'm passing through at the moment. but I know my redeemer liveth. 5 Likes |
Re: Share Your Challenges As A First-born by Yuneehk(f): 10:32pm On Apr 18, 2017 |
lilyheaven:Awww this is so me. I have just 2 younger sisters that are never satisfied with their belongings. They want to take mine and add to theirs. Money nko, they'll say I'm the senior so I should find them "something". Going to my dad to complain, he'll say " Adannaya they're your sisters oo". It's all fun anyways 5 Likes |
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