Stats: 3,188,986 members, 7,936,178 topics. Date: Saturday, 31 August 2024 at 07:05 AM |
Nairaland Forum / Nairaland / General / Family / Share Your Challenges As A First-born (27986 Views)
My Younger Sister Disrespects Me Alot - Help A First Born. / The Reality Of The First Born In Every Nigerian Family / What Are Your Major Challenges As A First-time Parent? (2) (3) (4)
(1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (Reply) (Go Down)
Re: Share Your Challenges As A First-born by sirfee(m): 11:38pm On Apr 18, 2017 |
Maychang:Aint easy sis...all eyes on you(in the voice of 2pac),may God help us all. |
Re: Share Your Challenges As A First-born by toseen7: 11:43pm On Apr 18, 2017 |
ednut1:Confirm! |
Re: Share Your Challenges As A First-born by IBreakRules: 11:44pm On Apr 18, 2017 |
JohnXcel: Thank you! This is how I have been surviving all these years. |
Re: Share Your Challenges As A First-born by kings20(m): 11:45pm On Apr 18, 2017 |
its because even d devil is interested in Us he gets u he has gotten ur entire family 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Share Your Challenges As A First-born by kayyat(f): 11:45pm On Apr 18, 2017 |
hmm, the Lord will continue to be ur strength Taryur3: |
Re: Share Your Challenges As A First-born by dhantey324(m): 11:45pm On Apr 18, 2017 |
gregyboy: We learn in the harsh way, while the younger ones observe.. 1 Like |
Re: Share Your Challenges As A First-born by Olamilekan08(m): 11:46pm On Apr 18, 2017 |
Being the first and only son of 5 children, I am more of an assistant father coupled with the following: Mentor Chief adviser Scape goat (While younger) Intermediator Financial backup Peace keeper Fore runner Solution provider All these with lots of sacrifices. I am glad doing these because my younger ones respect me alot, holding me in high esteem for this and we are always happy around each other. 5 Likes |
Re: Share Your Challenges As A First-born by okhiai1(m): 11:47pm On Apr 18, 2017 |
Firstborn ehnnn na die check for example my current problem let me list it (2 sisters plus me =3 ) Grandma burial My school fees next semester My parent second born admission money I gat support pale My my last born waec GCE form and preparationfor next year school Second born needs new phone big Android to be exact Last born too need Phone before this month end as promised And me now to top it all I need laptop to get watin dem dey teach me for school Now imagine all this problem na only 1 of my wahala dey this budget ooo and how much I dey collect sef so now to anybody viewing this my comment abeg u need laptop any body way go dash me him own I go fast and pray for the person till tomorrow cause I need another stream of income ASAP before I feel depressed #firstbornnobeans 1 Like |
Re: Share Your Challenges As A First-born by dhantey324(m): 11:49pm On Apr 18, 2017 |
oheni:Ndi uwaoma! Lolz. 1 Like |
Re: Share Your Challenges As A First-born by BentSpoon(m): 11:52pm On Apr 18, 2017 |
Op ur problem is ur mistakes yea ur mistakes and the reason ur younger ones succeed is that they don't repeat that mistake. |
Re: Share Your Challenges As A First-born by sharpwriter(m): 11:53pm On Apr 18, 2017 |
GloriaNinja:Ayam okk ooo...happy you are nt like some ppl wey we go greet and dem go ignore.... May the Lord honour you in return. |
Re: Share Your Challenges As A First-born by Nobody: 11:59pm On Apr 18, 2017 |
ArcFresky: bro u said it all!!!/ Damn !! dem just use me tay experiment wen everything don spoil!! dem con tell d other's learn from his mistakes I just weak AF!!! |
Re: Share Your Challenges As A First-born by Worksunlimited: 12:03am On Apr 19, 2017 |
Hmm |
Re: Share Your Challenges As A First-born by hope4life: 12:05am On Apr 19, 2017 |
GloriaNinja:Being a firstborn too the experience is the same. Spiritually speaking, firstborn used his head to break out from the mother and cleared the way for others coming behind. He is a pioneer, landbreaker, which has its attendant challenges. All eyes are on you. Remember Reuben, Esau, Ishmael etc in the Bible they didn't make it as such compared to their brothers. But prayer can break the evil cord like Jabez |
Re: Share Your Challenges As A First-born by loadedvibes: 12:05am On Apr 19, 2017 |
Maychang: Op I think you need God.. been a first born doesn't have to hard.. are you born again ? |
Re: Share Your Challenges As A First-born by MasterJoe(m): 12:12am On Apr 19, 2017 |
Being a 'Big Brother' comes with a lot of responsibilities. So many siblings and cousins et cetera looking up to you for guidance and welfare. But would you trade the place of the Big Bro? No Papi. |
Re: Share Your Challenges As A First-born by igbsam(m): 12:38am On Apr 19, 2017 |
I know this feeling cos I'm one myself. Being a First born is a world of its own entirely. Only a supportive and united family can make one remain sane as a firstfirst child 3 Likes |
Re: Share Your Challenges As A First-born by macfishkilla: 12:50am On Apr 19, 2017 |
Been a first born is a very big burden,only God can change what devil has in stock.but by His grace we all survive the heat...can't even xplain |
Re: Share Your Challenges As A First-born by piagetskinner(m): 1:15am On Apr 19, 2017 |
all eyes are on you...expectations are great make terrible mistakes...and u become the scum of the family people frown more at your mistakes than they would an applause, when u make positive strides |
Re: Share Your Challenges As A First-born by justiz5(m): 1:26am On Apr 19, 2017 |
Maychang:Op it is not just about the first born but also about the irst son. In my culture, the first son carries all the responsibility of taking care of the younger ones, even the parents as well. If a lady happens to be the first born, she is free from any of these responsibilities. At times I just regret why God made me the first son. I can't enjoy my money. I must cater for my siblings' needs first. It's so frustrating. |
Re: Share Your Challenges As A First-born by justiz5(m): 1:35am On Apr 19, 2017 |
holatimmy:To insult you de hungry me. ![]() ![]() Can you compare all these challenges with first born face ![]() |
Re: Share Your Challenges As A First-born by mistermoi(m): 1:50am On Apr 19, 2017 |
Hmmmmmmmm. This got me thinking. |
Re: Share Your Challenges As A First-born by mudility(m): 2:21am On Apr 19, 2017 |
Its not easy atall.. You tend to follow a careful path because expectation is on you. Currently, I'm jobless without a girlfriend just striving to live right and my younger bro is married with two kids. On many occation, family members always remind me of this fact. Just early this month i got furious when my gran mum mention it again with so much pity for me...i was like granny hold it there joor..should i kill myself or do i join badt gang to make money, am i not trying to secure something for myself or do you want me to just get any girl i will not want to marry pregnant just because you think am old enough to be a dad or do you think am happy with my situation? I was really pissed and stormed off. I tends to withdrew from family members nowadays because they always makes me sad and feel like a failure. My only source of strength is my mum. I believe God will pick my call. 8 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Share Your Challenges As A First-born by UncleJJ(m): 2:31am On Apr 19, 2017 |
![]() |
Re: Share Your Challenges As A First-born by Akinyemi325: 2:58am On Apr 19, 2017 |
I Have A Very Bad Depression And Anxiety. I Feel As If I Am Tired Of This Life. I Cant Sleep Because Of Fear. Please Who Can Help Me Out Of These Evil Thought? Or Am I Running Mad? |
Re: Share Your Challenges As A First-born by Akinyemi325: 3:04am On Apr 19, 2017 |
I Have A Dream And I Am Thinking Of Death Everyday. I Cant Sleep And I Am Depressed, I Am Tired Of This Life. Please Who Can Give Me A Solution To My Problem? |
Re: Share Your Challenges As A First-born by abbeyboy2o15(m): 3:42am On Apr 19, 2017 |
First born=Jack of all trade |
Re: Share Your Challenges As A First-born by Ndipe(m): 3:58am On Apr 19, 2017 |
Lots of responsibilities. |
Re: Share Your Challenges As A First-born by Teel012(m): 4:04am On Apr 19, 2017 |
VickyRotex:u're either not a firstborn or u come from a rich home. |
Re: Share Your Challenges As A First-born by Teel012(m): 4:07am On Apr 19, 2017 |
Akinyemi325:. Hey man, don't give up, Holla at me, let's talk, i might be able to help, we've all had or are having similar experiences, how we manage it is different though. 1 Like |
Re: Share Your Challenges As A First-born by Teel012(m): 4:11am On Apr 19, 2017 |
I don't know where to start, but honestly, the firstborn is the GUINEA PIG of the house. M sure some of us know what guinea pigs and white mice are used for in the lab. |
Re: Share Your Challenges As A First-born by WachsComedy: 4:29am On Apr 19, 2017 |
I was always the one to be blamed when ever my younger ones do something bad and at the end of the day I get punished ![]() |
(1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (Reply)
10 Pains Of The Nigerian Bachelor / Man Forced Into An Arranged Marriage At 24 Shares How He Ends The Marriage / Watch How These Kids Danced At A Birthday Party (video)
(Go Up)
Sections: politics (1) business autos (1) jobs (1) career education (1) romance computers phones travel sports fashion health religion celebs tv-movies music-radio literature webmasters programming techmarket Links: (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) Nairaland - Copyright © 2005 - 2024 Oluwaseun Osewa. All rights reserved. See How To Advertise. 2 |