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Please Help, My Marriage Is Crashing... by Lataability(m): 2:14pm On May 01, 2017 |
the love i have for my wife is fading away.. I no longer have feelings for her.. I don't feel anything sex for her again... and the worst part of it all is pr×××k that my can't stand even well she is fully naked.. please what do I do to love her again.. I want to save my marriage.. please I sincerely need your advice |
Re: Please Help, My Marriage Is Crashing... by Nobody: 2:18pm On May 01, 2017 |
Go for marriage counselling. Or you do things that will spice up your marriage. |
Re: Please Help, My Marriage Is Crashing... by SafeDavid(m): 2:20pm On May 01, 2017 |
Give us more details. The info you are giving us is not enough to give you good advice. |
Re: Please Help, My Marriage Is Crashing... by dingbang(m): 2:20pm On May 01, 2017 |
Is she fat_? Shapeless? |
Re: Please Help, My Marriage Is Crashing... by 9jayes: 2:23pm On May 01, 2017 |
Poverty no good walahi |
Re: Please Help, My Marriage Is Crashing... by Nobody: 2:27pm On May 01, 2017 |
If she stopped being sexy to you, it's probably because she stopped doing what she used to before marriage. Talk to her about this. |
Re: Please Help, My Marriage Is Crashing... by Young03(m): 2:28pm On May 01, 2017 |
Which side chick don suck ur diick comot from where e dey? Maybe ur wife is dirty |
Re: Please Help, My Marriage Is Crashing... by Amarabae(f): 2:28pm On May 01, 2017 |
Tell us the reason why the affection is going down. |
Re: Please Help, My Marriage Is Crashing... by Tajbol4splend(m): 2:29pm On May 01, 2017 |
Did you ever have feelings for her in the first place or you only thought you did |
Re: Please Help, My Marriage Is Crashing... by lilmaydee(m): 2:32pm On May 01, 2017 |
This is what happens when you marry for the wrong reasons. |
Re: Please Help, My Marriage Is Crashing... by Nutase: 2:37pm On May 01, 2017 |
Your mind is definitely wandering. Tame it and see the desired change. |
Re: Please Help, My Marriage Is Crashing... by ikp120(m): 2:43pm On May 01, 2017 |
Here is a secret that no man on earth will give you for free: "If the mountain does not come to Mohammed, Mohammed will go to the mountain" That's the solution you need bro! It took me a lot of thinking to get that secret, but you can have it as my Workers' Day gift to you! Good luck bro! |
Re: Please Help, My Marriage Is Crashing... by TheControversy: 2:50pm On May 01, 2017 |
You probably fell in love with her cuz of her looks. This tends to fade for women as time passes by. If she's fat advice her to lose some weight. If she's beginning to look old and unappealing cuz of the strain of life and marriage help her out by buying beauty stuff for her to maintain herself. Better still look for other reasons to love her. Is she a caring wife, is she good with the children (if you have any), is she respectful is she hard-working? Marriage is not all about your penis getting aroused when you see your wife, there's more to it bro. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Please Help, My Marriage Is Crashing... by subtlemee(f): 2:50pm On May 01, 2017 |
Make her be what you fancy |
Re: Please Help, My Marriage Is Crashing... by Nobody: 2:55pm On May 01, 2017 |
the love u have for ur wife is fading just like that?una dey make marriage fear oh |
Re: Please Help, My Marriage Is Crashing... by GEExclusive: 3:10pm On May 01, 2017 |
Get her to do some yoga... Thanks me later |
Re: Please Help, My Marriage Is Crashing... by Nobody: 3:21pm On May 01, 2017 |
You just don't wake up and find yourself in this situation. Between the pair of you , one of you checked out of the relationship. Someone stopped trying. What happened into the last 18 months? Anything significant you can think off? Now the easiest option would be to say sit down and talk to your wife, but I am aware not all women are receptive when it comes to discussing core issues. For all your best intentions things could be taken the wrong way and things could backfire. You know your wife so it's safe to say is she the sort of individual you could talk to about this with no repercussions? It's possible she might have noticed but does bit me know how to broach the subject. I commend you for trying many opt for the easy way out which is leaving. Marriage counselling is another option as well. It is also a harsh reality that despite all the best efforts things just don't get resolved. But first try before giving up. 1 Like |
Re: Please Help, My Marriage Is Crashing... by Nobody: 4:21pm On May 01, 2017 |
You're GAY. |
Re: Please Help, My Marriage Is Crashing... by Adesiire(f): 4:27pm On May 01, 2017 |
Probably u never loved her from the start..how long did u guys date for? Was there a particular reason y u married her or y u courted her. A lot of couples have issues because of this reasons. |
Re: Please Help, My Marriage Is Crashing... by ifex370(m): 4:45pm On May 01, 2017 |
Adesiire: And is none of the above 1 Like |
Re: Please Help, My Marriage Is Crashing... by Nobody: 5:17pm On May 01, 2017 |
Lataability: I hope it's my comprehension skills but it sounds as if your love for this woman was nothing but sexual feelings wrapped in a facade of love and that was what you took into the marriage. Unfortunately marriage and the love that can be enjoyed in marriage is about commitment not about sex. I'm not an expert and I'm not saying I'm correct but I think you need to check some things For her: What has she stopped doing that is making her less attractive to you. Does she know that she stopped? Why did she stop? Does she know the effect it is having on you and your feelings? Have you even discussed this with her? For you: What have you started doing that is making your wife less attractive? Is there another girl/lady? What about porn? Are your side attractions giving you unrealistic expectations? If you're not feeling sexual home and away, don't you think you should seek professional help? Generally, I'll say talk to her about it. Marriage is much more bigger than sex if you're both fulfilled in it. Please note that this is your problem. Don't make it look like her problem as it may affect her self esteem and things will only get worse. |
Re: Please Help, My Marriage Is Crashing... by Nobody: 5:25pm On May 01, 2017 |
TheControversy:comment of the year! |
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