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Re: A 17 Year Old Girl Confided In Me And Told Me This, What Do I Do? by SmartyPants(m): 1:52pm On Jun 16, 2017 |
DeGuyNxtDoor: You better be careful sir...don't go playing superhero here. First of all, gather enough evidence to clear yourself. Get her to text something or record her on the phone. Secondly, what did her dad send her to deliver to a 22 year old man? One on one it would not very easy for one man to rape a woman without really beating her up first... is she carrying bruises? If she knew there was no one in the compound, why would she think the sister would really be in? Does she know this guy or is he a stranger to her?-is there a potential relationship going on here? Why exactly is she afraid of her dad? What does she expect you to do? 5 Likes |
Re: A 17 Year Old Girl Confided In Me And Told Me This, What Do I Do? by izospindle(m): 2:00pm On Jun 16, 2017 |
she came to confid in you.....but you can't keep your mouth shut.....ameobo now everybody knows and useless blogger will start recycling it with salt and pepper....what a friend you are OP ![]() 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: A 17 Year Old Girl Confided In Me And Told Me This, What Do I Do? by pbethel: 2:03pm On Jun 16, 2017 |
Let her go to a hospital n get checked. She should try and open up to her dad. She needs d love from her dad. Watch ur steps with her too. Pray for her |
Re: A 17 Year Old Girl Confided In Me And Told Me This, What Do I Do? by slyrone(m): 2:30pm On Jun 16, 2017 |
ezteem:I agree with with you in a way, how can you rape someone you barely know and tell them you love them afterwards. she is not even filled with rage she seems calm. my take this isn't the first time she ll be having sex. and op u haven't even taken any step as a guardian if truly she was raped. you don't like her as a sister as much as u think if say na your sister u nor go done take steps? 3 Likes |
Re: A 17 Year Old Girl Confided In Me And Told Me This, What Do I Do? by Nobody: 2:35pm On Jun 16, 2017 |
Girl plays the pity card,you fell for it,girl didn't tell you the real story obviously. 4 Likes |
Re: A 17 Year Old Girl Confided In Me And Told Me This, What Do I Do? by Nobody: 2:36pm On Jun 16, 2017 |
slyrone:which kin yeye guardian be dat? If the whole thing fall on me at last nko? Her own father doesn't even know about this cos she never told him...why should I dive in? 2 Likes |
Re: A 17 Year Old Girl Confided In Me And Told Me This, What Do I Do? by Vman27(m): 2:41pm On Jun 16, 2017 |
why is she afraid to tell her father. abi no be her father sent her to the boy house ni op i smell her lie from here 3 Likes |
Re: A 17 Year Old Girl Confided In Me And Told Me This, What Do I Do? by Nobody: 2:44pm On Jun 16, 2017 |
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Re: A 17 Year Old Girl Confided In Me And Told Me This, What Do I Do? by Oyindidi(f): 2:46pm On Jun 16, 2017 |
You for direct her to the nearest police station 1 Like |
Re: A 17 Year Old Girl Confided In Me And Told Me This, What Do I Do? by Nobody: 3:00pm On Jun 16, 2017 |
Op where is ur location? She should visit international center for reproductive health and sexual rights for counselling and or any similar NGOs for proper follow up. shalom 1 Like |
Re: A 17 Year Old Girl Confided In Me And Told Me This, What Do I Do? by Wizklynd23(m): 3:46pm On Jun 16, 2017 |
OP, this is a simple case that shouldn't boiled u... Lemme drop ma views and advice based on your story OP.. First, this girl trust u and thats y she let u know about this whole stuffs and second OP this girl expect u to help issues wisely.. Well to me the best you can do is not what somma this guys saying here, just try and let her understand its not her fault such happened and try to encourage her to tell the issue to her dad cos failure to do that OP whatever u do in the name of help may bounce back on u infact negatively. Infact if its a wise girl this issue could have been dealt with since, simple lets she tell her mom if shes scared to tell her dad directly let the the mom do tha appropriate that need to be done.. Still typing OP........................ In the spirit of sharp OP start advicing this girl to tell her parents about this issue cos they are more of responsible to tackle this fragile issue at hand not you OP COS YOUR JUST A FRIEND..... STILL TYPING .................... Ah ah who log in into ma account and type all this. ;DOP, this is a simple case that shouldn't boiled u... Lemme drop ma views and advice based on your story OP.. First, this girl trust u and thats y she let u know about this whole stuffs and second OP this girl expect u to help issues wisely.. Well to me the best you can do is not what somma this guys saying here, just try and let her understand its not her fault such happened and try to encourage her to tell the issue to her dad cos failure to do that OP whatever u do in the name of help may bounce back on u infact negatively. Infact if its a wise girl this issue could have been dealt with since, simple lets she tell her mom if shes scared to tell her dad directly let the the mom do tha appropriate that need to be done.. Still typing OP........................ In the spirit of sharp OP start advicing this girl to tell her parents about this issue cos they are more of responsible to tackle this fragile issue at hand not you OP COS YOUR JUST A FRIEND..... STILL TYPING .................... Ah ah who log in into ma account and type all this. 1 Like |
Re: A 17 Year Old Girl Confided In Me And Told Me This, What Do I Do? by indodon(m): 4:31pm On Jun 16, 2017 |
did she enjoy it 1 Like |
Re: A 17 Year Old Girl Confided In Me And Told Me This, What Do I Do? by imma2(m): 6:03pm On Jun 16, 2017 |
That girl is manipulating the op, but he doesn't know. Girls are naturally trained that way. I may be wrong sha 2 Likes |
Re: A 17 Year Old Girl Confided In Me And Told Me This, What Do I Do? by Donald3d(m): 6:25pm On Jun 16, 2017 |
This is an easy case .If this is true : #SideNote how are we sure it wasnt you who actually.......never mind .... the wicked cannot go unpunished ,it may tarry but surely punishment would come. -First she has your trust and has confided in you : Awesome -She needs help but scared to tell her father :Telling her father is the only way out actually . -It could bounce back on you :You need a way to protect yourself if things go south. -She needs to protect herself from diseases or pregnancy :Which she only has few days to do since contraceptives have a time frame of effectivenese. Solution : Make her very calm and try to reduce her fear before you start talking . Find a way of making her narrate the story again that you really need to understand ,this time make sure you record the call,if its a physical meeting record the audio,discreetly of cause ,she must not know !!!! (Your way out if things go south). Try to convince her to tell her dad ,as much as possible . Make her understand the risks and the reasons she has to tell him ,diseases ,pregnancy prevention,internal bleeding etc. If she refuses to tell him ,try to make her tell her mum . If she still refuses . Tell her she has left you wit no choice . Approach the least harsh parent ,narrate the story and play the audio. Its for her own good. Then back out !!!!!. 1 Like |
Re: A 17 Year Old Girl Confided In Me And Told Me This, What Do I Do? by Erums(m): 6:32pm On Jun 16, 2017 |
Anoda rape matter..... Crazy. Bt this is serious if true.... The girl wud be feeling rapeninbsubsequent blowing time |
Re: A 17 Year Old Girl Confided In Me And Told Me This, What Do I Do? by ThatIgboBoy: 6:53pm On Jun 16, 2017 |
vargasvictory: The way u people mention ttherapist ehn,e go be like say Nigeria naa jand. Nobody goes to a therapist in Nigeria. Wake up from ur dream 1 Like |
Re: A 17 Year Old Girl Confided In Me And Told Me This, What Do I Do? by damsy01(m): 7:32pm On Jun 16, 2017 |
ezteem: I concor wit u She was never RAPED.. Imagine her 1st statement.. That "she did it today".. Dat statement means consent.. She jus want u to knw she's fit for sex nw incase if u r interested so u won't see her lyk a spoilt child.. And again.. Dat incidence ws nt her 1st 4 Likes |
Re: A 17 Year Old Girl Confided In Me And Told Me This, What Do I Do? by nsiazu: 7:39pm On Jun 16, 2017 |
DeGuyNxtDoor:Sorry to ask bro, how old is the said girl and how is her spiritual life? |
Re: A 17 Year Old Girl Confided In Me And Told Me This, What Do I Do? by iPopAlomo(m): 7:53pm On Jun 16, 2017 |
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Re: A 17 Year Old Girl Confided In Me And Told Me This, What Do I Do? by Nobody: 8:09pm On Jun 16, 2017 |
Lol. Op must be a learner. This girl simply wanna fcvk you but she's a "virgin" hence this made up story. What she wants from you is consolement which will lead to sex. Oga some people don dey ask of spiritual life. Na op be hin mother or father in the Lord. Her age is clearly written. 3 Likes |
Re: A 17 Year Old Girl Confided In Me And Told Me This, What Do I Do? by Whitemoney: 8:17pm On Jun 16, 2017 |
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Re: A 17 Year Old Girl Confided In Me And Told Me This, What Do I Do? by PREBuhari2019: 8:25pm On Jun 16, 2017 |
Why is she lying now? 1 Like |
Re: A 17 Year Old Girl Confided In Me And Told Me This, What Do I Do? by Bestchoice4me(m): 8:38pm On Jun 16, 2017 |
DeGuyNxtDoor:Of cuz,u gat to play ur part,maybe u should jst arrest d guy,diz is a rape case. |
Re: A 17 Year Old Girl Confided In Me And Told Me This, What Do I Do? by swiz123(m): 8:47pm On Jun 16, 2017 |
it's a good thing seeking for advice on this platform, but other times I think it's not worth it.As typical Nigerians,few tend to say meaningful things while a whole lot are too stupid to contribute anything 1 Like |
Re: A 17 Year Old Girl Confided In Me And Told Me This, What Do I Do? by solomix10(m): 9:01pm On Jun 16, 2017 |
Afonjashapmouth:i love your opinion bro... This girls of nowadays can go to any length to lie about lossing their virginity.. I just pity this guy ..he no get scope atall... if i was the one she is telling all this shit, i will be like hmmmm you were raped nd no bruises, you are nt ruffled, u didnt even shout... Deguynxtdoor you are the MUGUNEXDOOR 3 Likes |
Re: A 17 Year Old Girl Confided In Me And Told Me This, What Do I Do? by Medunah: 9:13pm On Jun 16, 2017 |
ezteem:You are sick!!!! |
Re: A 17 Year Old Girl Confided In Me And Told Me This, What Do I Do? by Caustics: 9:19pm On Jun 16, 2017 |
op the solution to this is investigation and eye witness accounts of what happened on that day. Police report should be obtained and the girl placed under protective custody. The father should be fined for negligence. And you should be detained for proper questioning with bail placed at N25,000. The accused 22yr old should be detained without bail and the case should be brought to court after she has been properly examined in a reputable government hospital. |
Re: A 17 Year Old Girl Confided In Me And Told Me This, What Do I Do? by MrRichmond: 10:07pm On Jun 16, 2017 |
You are being manipulated @ op Girls lie about rape all the time, from what I've seen I'm guessing you have taken a romantic liking to this girl. She may have been smashing the guy behind your back and now that things have turned sour, she feels guilty/sorry for you(the patient dog) and now she is playing the pity card. Be smart and ensure she is telling you the truth before doing anything! #bewise 4 Likes |
Re: A 17 Year Old Girl Confided In Me And Told Me This, What Do I Do? by Nobody: 11:08pm On Jun 16, 2017 |
Why can't she tell her dad? She didn't go there by herself Wait, how did she know the guy's age? Did she shower after she was raped? This girl is fucking lying to you to cover something up "if" she can't tell her dad 2 Likes |
Re: A 17 Year Old Girl Confided In Me And Told Me This, What Do I Do? by Nobody: 11:10pm On Jun 16, 2017 |
Caustics: Can someone tell this guy we are in Nigeria? 1 Like |
Re: A 17 Year Old Girl Confided In Me And Told Me This, What Do I Do? by Nobody: 11:11pm On Jun 16, 2017 |
swiz123: What have you contributed Sir? Hypocrisy at its highest 1 Like |
Re: A 17 Year Old Girl Confided In Me And Told Me This, What Do I Do? by policy12: 1:21am On Jun 17, 2017 |
@op she confided in you thinking you can keep secret , but you can't keep secret cos you are here sharing it with the rest of the world in a public forum. Mtchew only if she knew u will share her Secret with the rest of us Hmmm! You are more than.. .
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