Please Nairalanders I really need your help. this attitude of looking at a woman's back in first gaze is really affecting my perception about ladies,that I can't wait to look at either her attitude or anything else but except her back. Do you guy's think I need help?
cc lalasticlala
cc mynd44

you are ok ignore those below me, i do it too bt nt at ur level

No u don't cause we in same side only I like to test after I si

The solution to ur problem dey ur hand Bro
Just stop d habit nd u will get over it

There is absolutely NOTHING wrong with checking a gal's physical features 1st. The physical attraction is the FIRST step in wanting to know a stranger... You see a gal in the street, and ONLY if she attracts you physically (beauty/shape), you will decide to try to know her further (emotionally). if she is not your type physically, then you will not go further (unless you are after her money etc).
Nobody says:"woah that gal
Is ugly but she may have a great mind, so let me try and date her"

So, if anyone tells you that you are wrong, then call them hypocrites as we ALL do it, the catch is NOT to make the physical part, the only thing to focus on, in order to genuinely approach someone.

You are okay

You are a Serpent and a disobedient Oshiomhole for you like touching the fruit at the Centre of the Garden.

you need help son

You're not alone bro

U Need adura

That's good.Continue looking i can even lend my eyes to you.