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Re: If You Are A Victim Of Rape Or Sexual Abuse You Should Talk To These Three Women by burakado17: 11:22pm On Aug 23, 2017 |
JeffreyJamez:who have ever raped a man? Enjoyment lo ba wa. |
Re: If You Are A Victim Of Rape Or Sexual Abuse You Should Talk To These Three Women by femi4: 11:23pm On Aug 23, 2017 |
HannahHitler:So lesbians too experienced rape |
Re: If You Are A Victim Of Rape Or Sexual Abuse You Should Talk To These Three Women by pocohantas(f): 11:23pm On Aug 23, 2017 |
JeffreyJamez: Which women use their devious means to bring it down? Do you know how many times I have gotten into arguments with your fellow males on this issue on NL. Majority of them claimed the guys enjoyed it. I remember telling them it's statutory rape. What did the dumbfukcs tell me? They said the average guy fantasises having sex with an older female. You guys are the ones that trivialise the topic!! Stop lying!!! The only time they get defensive is on threads like this. Say the truth!! No mother would hear her child, be it male or female was abused and let it go!!! burakado17: Now this is exactly how the average guy sees it...enjoyment! Go sort yourselves out and stop blaming females. 4 Likes |
Re: If You Are A Victim Of Rape Or Sexual Abuse You Should Talk To These Three Women by Nobody: 11:23pm On Aug 23, 2017 |
naijaboiy: you talk about equality?... Is there equality in the number of girls raped on a daily basis compared to guys? How and when last did u hear that a boy or man was raped? But u can bear me witness that aleast every two days on NL we read different news about young girls being raped..and this happens on a daily basis. Btw..u dont expect a female who was a rape victim to come and be campaigning on behalf of both sex. She has to use her experience and how she pulled out successfully outa the mess to help her fellow girls..a method which may not be suitable for the male gender. By the way...its always difficult for a lady/girl to talk about embarrassing sex ordeals such as rape with a man...and that applies too for the men. What you should be concerned is...for men who has undergone the terrible ordeal and still survived and pulled through..this men should be the ones coming out to campaign for the boys/men victims too. There are some matters,so intricate and delicate,that are reserved for the same genders to handle..so that they can be a free flow of communication. Finally...you are all entitled to your own ideas...but i suggest, if any man who has been a victim to sexual abuse needs who to talk to,and there seems to be none concerned..he should get up,take the mantle of courage and be the first masculinist or male gender rights activist,make himself available and known,hereby forging and setting a pace others would gladly follow. ,................ Bri. 5 Likes |
Re: If You Are A Victim Of Rape Or Sexual Abuse You Should Talk To These Three Women by EmekaBlue(m): 11:24pm On Aug 23, 2017 |
cococandy:If a man rapes in a woman at her house, is it called rape? I guess NO because atleast she had Home advantage. JK....saw ur sweet pic and just playfully decided to quote u. Dont take us serious here okay. May u or ur sister and baby girls never be raped In Jesus name.Amen |
Re: If You Are A Victim Of Rape Or Sexual Abuse You Should Talk To These Three Women by tosyne2much(m): 11:24pm On Aug 23, 2017 |
tomdon:Woman sexually abusing a man |
Re: If You Are A Victim Of Rape Or Sexual Abuse You Should Talk To These Three Women by Obalende: 11:24pm On Aug 23, 2017 |
naijaboiy:They trying to replicate exactly wat they've done in North America. ... making most girls hostile to guys and teaching dem all sorts like safe space, wat and wat is comfortable and comfortable, consent legalese, older guys are freaks and pedophiles etc. Yao Biatch niggaz listen..... commercial sex dolls are now available. Woman no b God. God and God only shall I worship not woman. 2 Likes |
Re: If You Are A Victim Of Rape Or Sexual Abuse You Should Talk To These Three Women by KingTom(m): 11:25pm On Aug 23, 2017 |
JeffreyJamez:Bros J you get time to dey reply mumus o |
Re: If You Are A Victim Of Rape Or Sexual Abuse You Should Talk To These Three Women by Futureberry: 11:26pm On Aug 23, 2017 |
pocohantas:this is false,does that joke with male victims are not here right now,as you can see from most post, try and go through your post and cross check with the poster here,rape shouldn't be joked with |
Re: If You Are A Victim Of Rape Or Sexual Abuse You Should Talk To These Three Women by JeffreyJamez(m): 11:27pm On Aug 23, 2017 |
pocohantas: ..and have you ever spoken to any guy who has actually been a victim?.... Let me tell you something, most guys have been damaged psychologically from being abused as kids that they don't even see the wrong in it any more. That's how damaging it can be for the boy child. 10 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: If You Are A Victim Of Rape Or Sexual Abuse You Should Talk To These Three Women by JeffreyJamez(m): 11:28pm On Aug 23, 2017 |
KingTom: Doc, I'm.bored jare....e good to engage them once in a while 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: If You Are A Victim Of Rape Or Sexual Abuse You Should Talk To These Three Women by pocohantas(f): 11:28pm On Aug 23, 2017 |
Futureberry: I will find that thread. You'll read it and see the reactions of your fellow men on this issue. Some were even saying they're looking for women to rape them. That the location should be given... I was disgusted! You would never see women react that way to rape issue. And that's what pains them, the fact that women come together to fight this cause. |
Re: If You Are A Victim Of Rape Or Sexual Abuse You Should Talk To These Three Women by KingTom(m): 11:30pm On Aug 23, 2017 |
JeffreyJamez:You dey follow person wey dey cross RED SEA argue? Hmmmm you get power o |
Re: If You Are A Victim Of Rape Or Sexual Abuse You Should Talk To These Three Women by Nobody: 11:30pm On Aug 23, 2017 |
Are you part of the men are scum brigade, male harassment is definitely lesser but it does happen nowhere in that write up is it explicitly stated that young males can reach out to seek help, lucky me that my childhood wasn't traumatic, getting help for depression is what gets the least attention these days and that's where my interest lies ibkayee: 1 Like |
Re: If You Are A Victim Of Rape Or Sexual Abuse You Should Talk To These Three Women by Futureberry: 11:31pm On Aug 23, 2017 |
pocohantas:you don't need to,I see them every now and then,everyone can't be sane that for sure,educate the ones you can educate,the ones you cannot avoid them,don't let their shadows cover yours,every situation cannot be made right in this world,it it happens,another situation will just have to take it place |
Re: If You Are A Victim Of Rape Or Sexual Abuse You Should Talk To These Three Women by JeffreyJamez(m): 11:31pm On Aug 23, 2017 |
KingTom: If e dey cross red Sea, Omo na for e backyard o... ...na me.be Oracle!! |
Re: If You Are A Victim Of Rape Or Sexual Abuse You Should Talk To These Three Women by Nobody: 11:32pm On Aug 23, 2017 |
pocohantas:which teens have sexual and reproductive health issues more?? 3 Likes |
Re: If You Are A Victim Of Rape Or Sexual Abuse You Should Talk To These Three Women by KingTom(m): 11:33pm On Aug 23, 2017 |
JeffreyJamez:Baba Oracle your boy diweh for you o 1 Like |
Re: If You Are A Victim Of Rape Or Sexual Abuse You Should Talk To These Three Women by pocohantas(f): 11:33pm On Aug 23, 2017 |
JeffreyJamez: I have spoken to guys that were victims, majority said it was nice!!! That they touched big boobs. I remember watching BBN, Bassey and Kemen said they were touched intimately by helps. Bisola said, that child molestation, they said which molestation...we enjoy am! On international TV!!!! I have even dated a victim and I know how it affects (ed) him. He is the first guy that has ever admitted it hurts him. So, I would be the last person to trivialise such, sadly...majority of guys don't see it that way. Piiko: It's not about who has issues more, if not...we might probably ignore the male victims. I guess female victims get more attention because, asides the psychological trauma, they also face physical and biological issues. 2 Likes |
Re: If You Are A Victim Of Rape Or Sexual Abuse You Should Talk To These Three Women by Daboomb: 11:35pm On Aug 23, 2017 |
JeffreyJamez: The "female child" angle is just a ruse, a smoke-screen. Notice that they always lump it together with "women issues" just to make it look innocent and ganer sympather from those who are not discerning. They know that every father has a soft spot for their daughters so it is a "weak spot" they exploit. But even at that, these leeches are just Men-Haters trying to leverage on Rape, to pound Males that they think are responsible for their miserable life. What beautiful, well-loved and admired woman will form an NGO to fight men, if not "raped, enraged and frustrated women" like these ones. 1 Like |
Re: If You Are A Victim Of Rape Or Sexual Abuse You Should Talk To These Three Women by Queenserah26(f): 11:36pm On Aug 23, 2017 |
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Re: If You Are A Victim Of Rape Or Sexual Abuse You Should Talk To These Three Women by naijaboiy: 11:36pm On Aug 23, 2017 |
Bridgetania:[b]I don't really have the energy to argue on sensitive topics like this, especially this night. I'll say some of the points you raised are valid but not all. I don't see the reason why we should have separate fights against abuse. Everybody should come together to fight it and not divided. And the reason why men are having problems with this one sided fight against abuse is that these activist end up sending the wrong message to the victims. They don't tell them the right things sometimes. I've read books and listened to some seminars online and all I see are these activist spreading hate in an indirect manner. You see these victims turning out worse than they once were before the event. Some will change their sexual orientation and then they get life twisted. Should men also start championing the fight against abuse and then begin to spread hate against the female gender? We will all end up in the same place we started. Well I never wanted to talk too much. You just made me.[/b] 7 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: If You Are A Victim Of Rape Or Sexual Abuse You Should Talk To These Three Women by Nobody: 11:36pm On Aug 23, 2017 |
burakado17:Really? 1 Like |
Re: If You Are A Victim Of Rape Or Sexual Abuse You Should Talk To These Three Women by JeffreyJamez(m): 11:39pm On Aug 23, 2017 |
pocohantas: Still points to the case of Pyschological damage. They were made to believe it wasn't wrong by these "aunties" when they were kids,how do you expect most of them to see it as wrong now they're grown men? 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: If You Are A Victim Of Rape Or Sexual Abuse You Should Talk To These Three Women by Obalende: 11:39pm On Aug 23, 2017 |
naijaboiy: Exactly. Man hating is a serious issue in Toronto and the whole of Ontario right now. And most girls don't check wat they are being taught.... Most decent men don't condone sexual violence. Most guys will defend the ladies against such. It's true females get endless attention from guys asking them out and trying to sleep with them though. 1 Like |
Re: If You Are A Victim Of Rape Or Sexual Abuse You Should Talk To These Three Women by ibkayee(f): 11:40pm On Aug 23, 2017 |
Piiko:I actually acknowledged that men are underrepresented, I recognise that male victims of rape are often either ignored and/or ridiculed therefore even less likely to come forward which I think is wrong. The issue is when people bring up male rape victims solely as a red herring to divert from the issue of female victims and switch up the conversation and/or turn it into a competition The writeup didn't explicitly state young females either, I guess we should assume it's only goats they want to help Go be interested in depression, nobody is stopping you mate, you know you can even focus on both issues at the same time too right? 3 Likes |
Re: If You Are A Victim Of Rape Or Sexual Abuse You Should Talk To These Three Women by cococandy(f): 11:40pm On Aug 23, 2017 |
I can swear I've stood up for more male victims in my life than you ever have. The problem with people like you is the 'what about me?' Complex. You use it to try to sabotage the wellbeing of others because at the moment those people are being taken care of and you can't stand not being the center of attention. If they weren't doing it, you wouldn't have remembered it. Where are your threads addressing male victims of rape? Where are your comments about teaching sexual awareness to boys (rather than encouraging sex as a male victory)? Where have you ever seen women stand against men getting help? Is there any thread for male victims that you see women come to shit on like you people are doing here? Instead what we see are men like you standing up to deflect the attention from real victims who in many cases are female just because you can't stand seeing women get help. So You're not among the men who teach other men not to cry and thus encourage toxic masculinity which makes young boys think that having sex at a young age is an achievement for them and speaking up about abuse is a sign of weakness? Why don't you 'group of guys' gather to help first and let see which women will come to destroy it with their 'evil and devious ways'. You haven't even tried and you are already speculating about how women will destroy it. I'm sure you won't do that. Instead stay here and try to tear down this platform that's helping victims. Meanwhile your boy friends and brothers and fathers are going about town destroying the futures of young children. JeffreyJamez: 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: If You Are A Victim Of Rape Or Sexual Abuse You Should Talk To These Three Women by joepentwo(m): 11:41pm On Aug 23, 2017 |
av bin raped several tyms widtout ...
Nobody cares to tk it serious bkus am male |
Re: If You Are A Victim Of Rape Or Sexual Abuse You Should Talk To These Three Women by KingTom(m): 11:41pm On Aug 23, 2017 |
I'm just looking at those idiots who call male rape enjoyment. Do you catastrophic failures know what it feels like as a 13 year old hawking kerosene having yourself violated by one 'auntie' or worse as a 17 year old having your prick tied with a goat rope and middle aged sagged bag of rotten STDs take turns molesting you? These are just two of the numerous cases the police and justice system laugh off each day. What a shame. Check out the laws of statutory rape in Nigeria and you'll cry yourself silly. Bunch of sacllywags! 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: If You Are A Victim Of Rape Or Sexual Abuse You Should Talk To These Three Women by naijaboiy: 11:42pm On Aug 23, 2017 |
Obalende:Lai Lai o! Nobody fit be God.. |
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