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Re: Why Do Some People Fall In Love Online? by illusion2: 9:05am On Feb 18, 2010 |
Thelmabee: 'Thelma'. . . you aint solved nothing yet bk/babe90:lol ! Did this really happen ? If it did . . .shame on those people for taking advantage of the poor girl |
Re: Why Do Some People Fall In Love Online? by ayettymama(f): 9:42pm On Feb 18, 2010 |
doesnt anyone think online dating takes the fun out of proper dating?? however ive found many articles abt women who succesfully found thier partners online sha |
Re: Why Do Some People Fall In Love Online? by NaijaHunn(f): 9:47pm On Feb 18, 2010 |
It's true sha, love can come from anywhere, but personally I don't think I could ever, I'd be to scared that the person wouldn't be all that I gave him credit to be once I finally met him in real life. |
Re: Why Do Some People Fall In Love Online? by ayettymama(f): 9:50pm On Feb 18, 2010 |
^^ what abt webcam?? |
Re: Why Do Some People Fall In Love Online? by NaijaHunn(f): 10:10pm On Feb 18, 2010 |
ayettymama:Geez, lol, well, I'd definitely have to see him on webcam in the first place to even initiate any relationship, but I mean, I'm not only attracted to the way a guy looks, but also his mannerisms, etc, I don't mean to be picky but something about the way a guy moves his lips when I'm talking to him or the way he walks can easily turn me off, lol, I'd be more comfortable being in person that way I can give him a thorough assesment, besides it's easy to get carried away and build false hope when your behind the safety of a camera/keyboard |
Re: Why Do Some People Fall In Love Online? by maedan(f): 10:26pm On Feb 18, 2010 |
Lol @ "thorough assessment . We women can select shaaa. But both offline and online , some guys can be 100% cool to know. |
Re: Why Do Some People Fall In Love Online? by ayettymama(f): 10:31pm On Feb 18, 2010 |
Naija_Hunn: unno its gna be easy for a guy to sound sweet on the internet! sha! |
Re: Why Do Some People Fall In Love Online? by NaijaHunn(f): 10:38pm On Feb 18, 2010 |
ayettymama:My sentiments exactly |
Re: Why Do Some People Fall In Love Online? by Orikinla(m): 12:14pm On Feb 19, 2010 |
LET ME PUT THIS IN CAPS. IT IS NOT SAFE AND IT IS NOT WISE TO FALL IN LOVE ONLINE. MOST PEOPLE ONLINE USE FAKE IDs AND FAKE PROFILES. THEY CLAIM TO BE WHAT THEY ARE NOT. WE HAVE BITCHES AND WITCHES POSING AND POSTURING AS INNOCENT SWEETIES ONLINE. SOME BABES EVEN ON NAIRALAND USE UP TO FOUR IDs TO ACT AS FOUR DIFFERENT CHARACTERS. I MET SOMEONE ONLINE, BUT I DID NOT FALL IN LOVE UNTIL AFTER WE MET AND STARTED OUR RELATIONSHIP FOR OVER THREE YEARS BEFORE I CAN NOW SAY I AM IN LOVE WITH HER. YOU CAN MEET ONLINE, BUT PLEASE DO NOT FALL FOR THE PERSON UNTIL YOU HAVE MET OFFLINE AND DATED FOR A WHILE. What most people mistake for falling in love is FALLING IN LUST. |
Re: Why Do Some People Fall In Love Online? by Nobody: 12:21pm On Feb 19, 2010 |
please people should wake up and know wat time is it!!!!! there are busy young men and women out there who are quite busy to meet and socializie cos of their tight schedules. so meeting someone online, phone chats and later seeing in person can creates a wonderful relationship this is a social media age, u must nt wait 4 a girl at the conner of the street or pick her as u are driving along like a call girl, meeting pple online is perfect, it all depends on wat u want!!!!!! |
Re: Why Do Some People Fall In Love Online? by maedan(f): 12:35pm On Feb 19, 2010 |
I guess from the replies from some matured minds for and against, I would say there is nothing wrong in seeking friendship online. It's a new era, and like someone said, busy schedules and all that give no time for proper socialising. But as Orikinla stated, be cautious and get to know the person physically because some can cover up, use fake facebook ids to get u to add them, reveal your personal life while keeping themselves protected. If not for the risk of meeting the wrong people, I would advise online daters to keep it up. |
Re: Why Do Some People Fall In Love Online? by justwise(m): 1:35pm On Feb 19, 2010 |
maedan: Now u are sounding 'new fashioned'. haha |
Re: Why Do Some People Fall In Love Online? by Sonofpeace(m): 6:57pm On Feb 19, 2010 |
why do some people fall in love online? it is simply because they can't fall in love offline. |
Re: Why Do Some People Fall In Love Online? by Enockia(m): 7:15pm On Feb 19, 2010 |
Sonofpeace: |
Re: Why Do Some People Fall In Love Online? by Duniverse(m): 7:56pm On Feb 19, 2010 |
Its commonly found with the females. Guys normally takes it for fun noting more. |
Re: Why Do Some People Fall In Love Online? by steve49ja(m): 9:55pm On Feb 19, 2010 |
Its nt as bad as sm peeps on here paint it 2 be, are U guys kiddin abt sm1 fakin his/her identity? Common peeps whatever happened to webcam,numerous pictures to which U'l specify d pose, mms, ah!! 2many 2 mention we aint talkin mere frnds but a relatnship, apart frm d offlin physical munchy smoochin thingy there's really nt mch difference wit online,it dosnt tak2long b4 da people involved gets 2meet up and hang out even if it dosnt happen ertime but @list once in awhile aint 2bad, if U dnt liv in da sam house/street/state/country wit ya partner aint it lik online Dtn?if U ask me, da online thingy is quite matured and wud build whoever engages in it for da future,long distance relationship (which in mst case is inevitable) wnt be strange or new to U, you'l kno exactly wat to do, da funny thin is it is very very easy to know if da oda person loves U& if da person's faithful or not, I recommend it. Its worth the try So to ansa ya (op) qxtn, cos the person on da other end pleases and connects with their heart. |
Re: Why Do Some People Fall In Love Online? by ruskiee(m): 9:56pm On Feb 19, 2010 |
@op Because love does not have a permanent address. |
Re: Why Do Some People Fall In Love Online? by Akebulan: 6:41am On Feb 20, 2010 |
Why? Same reason why people fall in love in person. Because they fall in love! Because they like something about the person, thats why. If youre trying to imply that falling in love online is wrong, (to each her own but, ) i think you have the wrong idea. In a world filled with so much hate, am suprised we care where or how people fall in love. Love is love, regardless if you were in the bathroom taking a piss or on the internet checking your email when you tripped, why does it matter? |
Re: Why Do Some People Fall In Love Online? by Akebulan: 6:43am On Feb 20, 2010 |
ruskiee: LOL good one |
Re: Why Do Some People Fall In Love Online? by Jairzinho(m): 9:09am On Feb 20, 2010 |
I guess one of the reasons people may be slightly cautious about revealing their real Ids online,may be becos u can never tell when the other party would unilaterally break off all comunication ,thereby leaving one in an emotional lurch . |
Re: Why Do Some People Fall In Love Online? by Sonofpeace(m): 9:52am On Feb 20, 2010 |
Some of us are really getting it all wrong the question why do people fall in love online to me its tactical en also cunning. I still stand by what i said previously that one can make friends online en not to fall in love online, anybody that does fall in love because of webcam, chatroom, skype, phone chat etc is either confused or fraudulent. In a scenario where a guy met a lady online en later met her offline where the fortunately fell in love, will you say that they fell in love online because they 1st met online? |
Re: Why Do Some People Fall In Love Online? by H2O2: 10:21am On Feb 20, 2010 |
What exactly is love and why is it so puzzling to perceive that it can be harvested and compounded online? Hearts can meet anywhere. It's not insurmountably difficult to understand that love is an emotion triggered by whatever special kind of impulses the brain receives and interpretes a certain way. The emotion can be enhanced and kept alive through physical interactions with the someone; when you're able to see them, feel them, smell them physically etc . . . these are all vital to the survival of love. However, to think that feelings of love cannot be initiated through wired interactions with people met online is simply flawed. People both online and offline can impress upon your mind certain images of themselves that you in turn could misinterpret and could end up being misled. You never truly know who a person is completely even in person; pray serendipity leads you to a genuine individual who will not deceive you. |
Re: Why Do Some People Fall In Love Online? by Sonofpeace(m): 12:20pm On Feb 20, 2010 |
H2O2:i assent with your opinion but i really believe that anybody that fall in love online without seeing the person one on one is psychologically demerited. |
Re: Why Do Some People Fall In Love Online? by Akebulan: 5:42pm On Feb 20, 2010 |
H2O2: Well said. Wish I could use this as my signature |
Re: Why Do Some People Fall In Love Online? by obiagu2(f): 8:09am On Feb 21, 2010 |
To everyone who doesn't understand or who doesn't believe in internet dating let me tell you it can be real. I always thought that it was for losers until one day I met my husband online. We talked for a year about everything. He being from Nigeria and me being from the United States we had many differences. We taught eachother about our lives and our cultures. We became best friends and despite the nigerian scam worries that everybody told me about I knew he was different and special. I went to meet him in person. I fell in love with him even more. I loved his family and his culture. I finally felt like i belonged with someone for the first time in my whole life. We got married a year ago and we remain so happy and finally complete. I will love him with all of my heart forever. God did bring us together! My husband is black I am white he is Nigerian I am American He is calm and I am nervous BUT WE ARE ONE! and we are a great example that LOVE can be found on a computer as easily as anywhere else in the world. Please don't put down something simply because you can't relate to it. Thanks |
Re: Why Do Some People Fall In Love Online? by sley4life(m): 2:50pm On Feb 21, 2010 |
lazy arse |
Re: Why Do Some People Fall In Love Online? by obiagu2(f): 2:59pm On Feb 21, 2010 |
I am a happy person who loves my life however with the nasty reply that you gave me, you obviously need to get a life! Stupid Arse |
Re: Why Do Some People Fall In Love Online? by sweetpie23: 3:00pm On Feb 21, 2010 |
easy people |
Re: Why Do Some People Fall In Love Online? by ayettymama(f): 4:38pm On Feb 21, 2010 |
lol the guy foud americana ope ooooo obi agu i wish u the best! |
Re: Why Do Some People Fall In Love Online? by obiagu2(f): 4:49pm On Feb 21, 2010 |
Imela |
Re: Why Do Some People Fall In Love Online? by Nobody: 5:11pm On Feb 21, 2010 |
ever fallen in love with someone ever fallen in love, in love with someone ever fallen in, in love with someone you shouldn’t have fallen in love with doom doom doom doom doom doom doom. |
Re: Why Do Some People Fall In Love Online? by mykali(m): 7:49pm On Feb 21, 2010 |
ibkaye: long time, Sis. |
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