Who is the little girl doing all the work there?

Mindfulness:
Who is the little girl doing all the work there?

her niece

Odilafta1:

her niece

But you no longer live with them, right?

Mindfulness:


But you no longer live with them, right?

Yes.
You might want to say it's not my business but I am concerned.

Odilafta1:

Yes.
You might want to say it's not my business but I am concerned.

There is a child involved so I appreciate your concern. I would tell you to mind your own business if no child was involved.

Speak out and also inform the little girl's parents.

Do you have a rapport with any of the fellows living there currently?

Maybe you can point it out to them that they need to pull their weight and not burden the poor child unnecessarily.

Odilafta1:
I have an aunt whom I stayed with for years before leaving and there's this style of upbringing she's good at and it's her not allowing the guys or anyone older do any chores. She firmly believes that the youngest amongst us (my cousins and I) and the female should be assigned all house chores and even some things that might be too heavy for a lady to do.
Before I moved out,another cousin of ours came to the house and since then she has never allowed the guy do as little as pack his plate to the kitchen after eating,she would have clothes and duvet to wash and would give them to the little girl that has just come to stay with her.
Plates would be left unwashed,rooms and even the beds of the other guys would be left in mess,she (my aunt) does the cooking when the little girl leaves for school, nothing and I mean nothing works when there's no younger person in the house.

I feel it's wrong and I dunno what to do because it has given the others so much leverage that they can poop and not flush.

Not cool.

By the time your aunt starts reaping what she is sowing now, nobody will be there to console her. Pampering even adult children. I wonder why some parents do that. Raising bunches of lazy, dirty individuals!

Odilafta1:
I have an aunt whom I stayed with for years before leaving and there's this style of upbringing she's good at and it's her not allowing the guys or anyone older do any chores. She firmly believes that the youngest amongst us (my cousins and I) and the female should be assigned all house chores and even some things that might be too heavy for a lady to do.
Before I moved out,another cousin of ours came to the house and since then she has never allowed the guy do as little as pack his plate to the kitchen after eating,she would have clothes and duvet to wash and would give them to the little girl that has just come to stay with her.
Plates would be left unwashed,rooms and even the beds of the other guys would be left in mess,she (my aunt) does the cooking when the little girl leaves for school, nothing and I mean nothing works when there's no younger person in the house.

I feel it's wrong and I dunno what to do because it has given the others so much leverage that they can poop and not flush.

Going by what u have up dre, i dont see that lady as a wicked person trying to hurt anyone i guess thta is her definitn of home training and trying to catch dem young, the only questnable act is not allow ng the olda ones invlvd

Kai! I already feel sorry for the women that will get married to them.
It will be a life of pure undiluted slavery.

This story doesn't look sincere
Since u are no longer living with them, how do u know the girl does everything?
Saying they deficate & refuse to flush shows exageration, which bespeaks u have ulterior motives for having concerns

Op did any of your aunt sons offend u?
Be honest...Unforgiveness & hatred can be very destructive...

tayo60:
By the time your aunt starts reaping what she is sowing now, nobody will be there to console her. Pampering even adult children. I wonder why some parents do that. Raising bunches of lazy, dirty individuals!

Her aunt won't regret anything
What makes u think op is saying the truth & not exaggerating?
What is wrong with a mother cooking for her children?
Don't u cook for your children?