He doesnt cal regularly, he always wants to pick a quarel, he went offlyne, off-fb 4 abt 10 days witout explanatn, he says he was away 4 health reasons, he wil kip me waitin 4 a lng tyme n stil tel me dat thou he is sori, he wont convince me nt to break up wit him, yet i forgave him. He tels me dat im ful of drama n dat i complain a lot even if i just tel hm hw he wrngd me quietly. Wat do i do abt it. The issue has stolen my joy.

A relationship is worthless if both parties are not mutually contented and satisfied, I may be wrong for doing this (i.e judging by your own version of whats happening alone) but if I were to go by the reasons u've stated above, I'd like to ask, what are you still doing with him?

stop dating online and get with reality.
if you are dating in reality dump this emotionally abusive A Hole. Why on earth would you stay or even talk to someone who according to you takes your joy away

He's too much of a coward to tell you he wants out of the relationship, so he's doing things to make you do the breaking up. Why not oblige him?