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Re: I Want To Leave My Father's Deeper Life Church. Is It Right? - Pastor's Daughter by SAMBARRY: 2:53pm On Feb 18, 2018 |
Yes Alexas58: |
Re: I Want To Leave My Father's Deeper Life Church. Is It Right? - Pastor's Daughter by SAMBARRY: 2:56pm On Feb 18, 2018 |
AprilSmallWoman:I left the church and they didn't see any evidence of waywardness or irresponsibility The thing is live a decent life,act responsible and respect yourself whilst protecting yourself from their assaults.if THEY don't see anything to use against you as to force you to.church or make them have their way,they will let you be |
Re: I Want To Leave My Father's Deeper Life Church. Is It Right? - Pastor's Daughter by obentenyson(m): 3:04pm On Feb 18, 2018 |
too many deeper life Haters in the house. Am sure if she said her father was Pastor At RCCG or Christ Embassy now, the way some of you here would comment about this issue would be different.. Any ways, my sister, you can do what you like.... But remember, You will have a child and then become a parent, then you will be in the same shoe you are putting your father right now.. |
Re: I Want To Leave My Father's Deeper Life Church. Is It Right? - Pastor's Daughter by SAMBARRY: 3:09pm On Feb 18, 2018 |
Imustreturn:there's an extent you push your child's endurance and tolerance level and when it gets to exhaustion point,most times the children go south forever and to make them come back home is hard Unfortunately round table or friendly discussions don't do much except one on one brave,properly planned and intelligent confrontation. I remember during our bouts of confrontation my dad will quote the bible which most parents use as a manipulation tool saying in ephesians children honor your father and mother so that you will live long I replied him with the same bible in the same Ephesians that said parents provoke not your children to wrath Emotional abuse is provoking to wrath Manipulation and threats is provoking to wrath.You see the bible you're quoting doesn't ad read a particular group of people,it's all encompassing.as it is directed at children,so it is directed at parents.him hand drop. The thing is when you're READY for confrontation be strategic.know that they will.come from different angles and be prepared for all angles.don't just fight to win arguments,disagree with the aim of agreeing,MUTUAL respect and reconciliation. If they try smiling with you in trying to weaken your guards still carry a straight face.these parents are wiser than you think.if not they're capable of controlling and manipulating you,intruding in your marriage and almost wrecking it The point is every relationship where boundaries aren't set,disrespect is inevitable 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Want To Leave My Father's Deeper Life Church. Is It Right? - Pastor's Daughter by SAMBARRY: 3:18pm On Feb 18, 2018 |
Dirkcoyt:I remember a colleague of mine who the mother was always policing about.the mother will.come to her school unannounced ,troll her and even be going through her hand bag and when she asked her mom why she was always policing her,the mother said because she married as a virgin and she too must be a virgin and this is a girl that saw herself in her parents wedding picture as the little bride in her parents wedding pictures whilst the mom was visibly pregnant with her kid brother.The babe got wind of the picture when her mom asked her to bring her phone in her wardrobe,that was when she accidentally saw the picture well hidden and tucked under her mom's clothes.she just laughed over it.when she was telling me I found it hilarious. Yet the mom will be claiming I married as a virgin but she doesn't argue with her.it was then I realise they also lie too and create a picture of being morally perfect just to act as a moral police to their kids 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Want To Leave My Father's Deeper Life Church. Is It Right? - Pastor's Daughter by Burgcudi(m): 3:33pm On Feb 18, 2018 |
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Re: I Want To Leave My Father's Deeper Life Church. Is It Right? - Pastor's Daughter by TheKingIsHere: 3:35pm On Feb 18, 2018 |
Flourishh:My dear, leave since your spirit has moved you to leave. My father is also a pastor so I understand what you are going through. When you plan to leave, do it gradually. Go to the church of your choice maybe 1st Sunday, 5he next Sunday go to deeper life, then next 2 Sundays go to the church you want. From there you will leave the church and there won't be too much burden |
Re: I Want To Leave My Father's Deeper Life Church. Is It Right? - Pastor's Daughter by Dirkcoyt: 4:20pm On Feb 18, 2018 |
SAMBARRY: Me oooooo , person nofit manipulate my emotion, if person dey choke me I dey comot am for road. African parents need to take a crash course in child development. |
Re: I Want To Leave My Father's Deeper Life Church. Is It Right? - Pastor's Daughter by ishmaelemeka2(m): 4:47pm On Feb 18, 2018 |
sure why not you can leave....its normal atlist am sure you are up to 20years of age...its not a must that you keep worshipping in your dads church...i used to be an anglican but later i realised that my mind was not there i had to follow my heart to were i enjoy worship with my God...dont you regret it its ok just take a bold step..God bless you... |
Re: I Want To Leave My Father's Deeper Life Church. Is It Right? - Pastor's Daughter by Onnasucs1(m): 4:48pm On Feb 18, 2018 |
donblazer10:mehn, I hate that their ideology ehhn |
Re: I Want To Leave My Father's Deeper Life Church. Is It Right? - Pastor's Daughter by myself13: 4:50pm On Feb 18, 2018 |
Ghostmode2two: Best comment |
Re: I Want To Leave My Father's Deeper Life Church. Is It Right? - Pastor's Daughter by ameh99: 5:14pm On Feb 18, 2018 |
Just be patient....you just not ripe for it yet, when the time is right everything is going to fall in place.... |
Re: I Want To Leave My Father's Deeper Life Church. Is It Right? - Pastor's Daughter by Ghostmode2two(m): 5:16pm On Feb 18, 2018 |
myself13:Thanks a bunch |
Re: I Want To Leave My Father's Deeper Life Church. Is It Right? - Pastor's Daughter by shadeyinka(m): 5:17pm On Feb 18, 2018 |
frosbel2: Children, obey your Parents in the Lord. ..is the command. Not obey satanic mentorship. Obey God rather than man... |
Re: I Want To Leave My Father's Deeper Life Church. Is It Right? - Pastor's Daughter by sunday0707(m): 5:18pm On Feb 18, 2018 |
SAMBARRY:you've said it all. Thumbs up 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Leave My Father's Deeper Life Church. Is It Right? - Pastor's Daughter by shadeyinka(m): 5:19pm On Feb 18, 2018 |
twosquare: Let the children obey their command And Let the children obey theirs Fathers, do not provoke your children, lest they become discouraged. Children, obey your parents in all things, for this is well pleasing to the Lord |
Re: I Want To Leave My Father's Deeper Life Church. Is It Right? - Pastor's Daughter by shadeyinka(m): 5:22pm On Feb 18, 2018 |
Analysiscorner: Not if she is being sustained by her parent. An adult is all round matured and independent |
Re: I Want To Leave My Father's Deeper Life Church. Is It Right? - Pastor's Daughter by shadeyinka(m): 5:25pm On Feb 18, 2018 |
SAMBARRY: That is why I subscribe to cutting off dependence from parents as soon as they have done their best to fund your education. He who pays the bill makes the rules...it just fair 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Leave My Father's Deeper Life Church. Is It Right? - Pastor's Daughter by Espada10: 5:28pm On Feb 18, 2018 |
makydebbie:we all know that..no surprises .You were ashamed of the old man right from time.. I dont think I blame you ..I think you have suffered enough abuse ( both emotionally and physically) from him sha..wish you luck in your endeavours...be happy..okay |
Re: I Want To Leave My Father's Deeper Life Church. Is It Right? - Pastor's Daughter by octopusfreaky(f): 5:36pm On Feb 18, 2018 |
quentin06:Exactly, many of them are booless@Flourishh, are u in a relationship? |
Re: I Want To Leave My Father's Deeper Life Church. Is It Right? - Pastor's Daughter by octopusfreaky(f): 5:47pm On Feb 18, 2018 |
samuelgambo:hahahaha, same thing my friend did ooo. |
Re: I Want To Leave My Father's Deeper Life Church. Is It Right? - Pastor's Daughter by SAMBARRY: 5:48pm On Feb 18, 2018 |
Dirkcoyt:hian.they think being a parent automatically confers them the absolute wisdom |
Re: I Want To Leave My Father's Deeper Life Church. Is It Right? - Pastor's Daughter by barnsB: 5:56pm On Feb 18, 2018 |
Flourishh: wow, you are fed up with your dad's attitudes and the church doctrines because the are in contrast with what your youthful mind wants. As human beings we are free moral agents, that's why even our creator can not impose His will on us. My little sister it is your life like most young people will say, decide what you want for your self but don't forget it will still remain your live when you are faced with the outcome of this decision. |
Re: I Want To Leave My Father's Deeper Life Church. Is It Right? - Pastor's Daughter by Dirkcoyt: 6:05pm On Feb 18, 2018 |
SAMBARRY: I remember telling my mama that I'm not getting married but I will bore children. come see emotional blackmail! she was like all her friends are doing wedding for their children say wetin make she talk? she said people will say because she's a single mother that's why he doesn't want her child to marry also. I just dey laugh, I no gree ooooh, when she see say I no gree she begin dey soft. I also started pointing to some of her friends that were married but later left the marriage, I told her what's the point. I think parents are just funny set of control freaks generally in Africa. |
Re: I Want To Leave My Father's Deeper Life Church. Is It Right? - Pastor's Daughter by barnsB: 6:09pm On Feb 18, 2018 |
People will advice you, some fantastic advice, some terrible advice but the choice still remain yours my sister, the path you are about to walk, a lot of young people have walked in it, some with fantastic reasons, we have seen we have heard, I know of one she started like a joke, she got to a point that she brought a divorcée to her parent as the man she wanted to marry, the parent will not consent to that knowing it was a sign up for hell, she opted to get pregnant for same man and today she is a single mother, it was her life , it is still her life. My little sister think and think through don't base your decision on advise. |
Re: I Want To Leave My Father's Deeper Life Church. Is It Right? - Pastor's Daughter by nedzuby: 6:09pm On Feb 18, 2018 |
RZArecta2: I totally don't agree with you. When you don't set boundary people will encroach into your private live and think they have right to direct and control you |
Re: I Want To Leave My Father's Deeper Life Church. Is It Right? - Pastor's Daughter by nedzuby: 6:12pm On Feb 18, 2018 |
SAMBARRY: When you don't set boundaries people will will think they have right over the decisions you take |
Re: I Want To Leave My Father's Deeper Life Church. Is It Right? - Pastor's Daughter by luvablesam(m): 6:29pm On Feb 18, 2018 |
SAMBARRY: fine....mind sending me one then? 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Leave My Father's Deeper Life Church. Is It Right? - Pastor's Daughter by boxymccoy(m): 6:49pm On Feb 18, 2018 |
princessbarmie:I quite understand dear, but the truth is ,all things being equal, in the next two or three years, she should get married, these remaining three years can not be compared with the 24 years she had spent. These three years must not spoil the last 24 years she had spent with them. I was in her shoes some years ago. But as a man I left the house to go and stay with my elder sister and search for job in another city, which my father quite agreed to. So since then I have been “free’. She should work towards her freedom in a way that the parents will not have any choice than to support her not even knowing she’s rooting for her freedom. By that, there won’t be any hitch between her and her father. But my fear is that hope this freedom will not open her to living an unrestrained and loose life? May God keep her under His wings in Jesus name, amen. |
Re: I Want To Leave My Father's Deeper Life Church. Is It Right? - Pastor's Daughter by Drockfit: 7:04pm On Feb 18, 2018 |
Colossians 3:20 - 21 Please try and read and ask your father to interpret to you that you |
Re: I Want To Leave My Father's Deeper Life Church. Is It Right? - Pastor's Daughter by fabre4: 7:59pm On Feb 18, 2018 |
emerged01: Stop this useless emotional blackmail there is nothing like payback for leaving a church. Besides most of these pastors left their parents church so unless this payback is starting from the parents forget it... She is leaving church not christ. |
Re: I Want To Leave My Father's Deeper Life Church. Is It Right? - Pastor's Daughter by fabre4: 8:03pm On Feb 18, 2018 |
barnsB: I also know one who left and today she is a pastors wife winning more souls too |
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