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Dating An Alpha Male: 10 Tips To Remember For Happily Ever After by raluchi93: 9:15am On Feb 27, 2018 |
What is an alpha male? An alpha male is the type of guy who loves to be the boss. He’s in charge and he’s the one who makes decisions. Whether it’s in his job, relationship, or friendships, he’s the one calling the shots. And that’s usually really attractive to certain women, for obvious reasons. A guy in charge is the type to take action and put effort into things. It’s sexy watching a guy get what he wants. It gives many people a very secure feeling. Dating an alpha male and making it work You might not always have the best time dating an alpha male, though. They sound great and seem sexy at first, but after a little while, you could start to see their dominance as bossiness. This isn’t always the best thing. However, if you’ve fallen for someone who’s the alpha male, you’ll need some tips for making it work. Here are a few things for you to remember if you’re dating an alpha male. #1 Don’t try to date one if you’re an alpha, too. A lot of people think they should go for someone who’s like them. They have a lot in common so, why not? The problem here is that your personalities are going to clash. If you’re dominant and in charge and they’re also trying to be in charge, you’ll butt heads. You’ll both also get frustrated by feeling like your partner is trying to boss you around. If you have a very strong alpha personality, don’t try to date an alpha male. #2 Don’t be a pushover. On the flip side, you also don’t want to be a very weak personality type. You’ll get stomped all over. You can’t be a pushover when dating an alpha male because they’ll literally run the entire relationship. And that’s definitely not a good thing. You’ll be really unhappy this way because your opinions and ideas will just get lost beneath the alpha male’s. Plus, he won’t really like that either because stomping all over you won’t make him feel like he’s in charge. It’ll just feel like you don’t have any backbone, which isn’t attractive. #3 Don’t let them get away with mistreatment . Some alpha males are known for being bad boyfriends and partners. Not all, obviously, but these types of guys get bad reputations for a reason. Because they have such pushy personalities, it’s easy to just let them do what they want simply because it’s hard for you to stand up to them. But you have to. In order for the relationship to work, he needs to respect you. And that means if he’s ever acting like a dick due to his dominant personality, you have to put him in his place. #4 Challenge him sometimes. Just because a guy is an alpha male doesn’t mean he doesn’t want to be challenged. In fact, he’ll probably love to be challenged with some things. Just make sure you don’t try to do this in front of his friends. Instead, do it with a topic of conversation. So you’re not challenging his authority but rather, you’re challenging his view on a specific topic. This will help keep him interested because otherwise, he’ll be bored. # 5 Let him know it’s okay to be vulnerable with you. Guys who are always the alpha in the room tend to need a place to break down. Maintaining that control all the time is really difficult. If they feel like they always have to be this tough guy around you too, he’ll be very unhappy. So while you still have to boost his alpha ego, you also want to show him it’s okay to not be this super put together, in-charge person. Let him break down while also still treating him like an alpha at the same time. See the rest http://www.ralugist.com/2018/02/dating-alpha-male-10-tips-to-remember.html?m=1
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Re: Dating An Alpha Male: 10 Tips To Remember For Happily Ever After by TIDDOLL(m): 9:19am On Feb 27, 2018 |
What about dating a satellite male ![]() Since we are talking bout Animals ![]() |
Re: Dating An Alpha Male: 10 Tips To Remember For Happily Ever After by Martinez19(m): 9:40am On Feb 27, 2018 |
Beta females and males nko? Alpha females nko? On a serious note, Good post by the way. ![]() |
Re: Dating An Alpha Male: 10 Tips To Remember For Happily Ever After by Nobody: 9:44am On Feb 27, 2018 |
I concur. Kill him, make him ![]() |
Re: Dating An Alpha Male: 10 Tips To Remember For Happily Ever After by raluchi93: 10:13am On Feb 27, 2018 |
Haha, the post is not for everyone o, if you ain't interested, kindly move on. |
Re: Dating An Alpha Male: 10 Tips To Remember For Happily Ever After by MissJoy29(f): 12:13pm On Feb 27, 2018 |
Spot on! |
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