Juliuss01:
Hello house, pls kindly assist.
I am a working class lady, I'm 25 years sold but I'm confused about an issue. There are two guys proposing to me, one is financially ok and he has a good job, even his dad has been the one playing front for him before he gained the courage to propose to me, his dad has also been acting so nice, telling me to go get visa that we may travel out, that his son is also about to finish his house, we can move in after wedding.

The father even told his son to call my mum and now my mum is having interest in him but i don't love this guy no matter how much I try to, though he's financially ok. At a time I prayed over it but the revelation I saw was against the guy, I told his dad about the revelation because his dad will not stop pestring me but his dad said I should not be bothered about the dreams as a believer.

However, I love the other guy, he loves me more, always ready to do anything to see me happy, he's so nice, caring and love God but he has no JOB, not even an apartment of his own, though he's a graduate seeking for job, i have interest in him but my mum wants me to settle down so soon with the guy that is ready that I will later love him in the marriage.
What can i do pls. should wait for the guy I love or follow my mum’s advice.

Juliuss01:
Hello house, pls kindly assist.
I am a working class lady, I'm 25 years sold but I'm confused about an issue. There are two guys proposing to me, one is financially ok and he has a good job, even his dad has been the one playing front for him before he gained the courage to propose to me, his dad has also been acting so nice, telling me to go get visa that we may travel out, that his son is also about to finish his house, we can move in after wedding.

The father even told his son to call my mum and now my mum is having interest in him but i don't love this guy no matter how much I try to, though he's financially ok. At a time I prayed over it but the revelation I saw was against the guy, I told his dad about the revelation because his dad will not stop pestring me but his dad said I should not be bothered about the dreams as a believer.

However, I love the other guy, he loves me more, always ready to do anything to see me happy, he's so nice, caring and love God but he has no JOB, not even an apartment of his own, though he's a graduate seeking for job, i have interest in him but my mum wants me to settle down so soon with the guy that is ready that I will later love him in the marriage.
What can i do pls. should wait for the guy I love or follow my mum’s advice.

makydebbie:
Lol, babe.

Never compromise your happiness and we're talking about long term. Please you're just twenty five, no need to rush. Stick with the one you love.

pocohantas:


Just twenty-five ke?
Almost evening newspaper...

makydebbie:
Alot can happen in five years before the sun sets.

pocohantas:


If nothing happen nko?

Where are the evening newspaper identifiers?
I will love to see their comment here . They don't know na where some of us dey wait our guy to blow, na im we turn evening newspaper...

IamD18:
Lol, I had to laugh reading your writeups and some comments herein.

But let me tell you a secret about the guy you love; No atom of loyalty and love can be compared with that of a broke boyfriend, they are so loyal and loving because they are broke , if you know, you know

Now let me tell you another secret about the rich boyfriend ; It's important for a man or woman to marry a partner who loves him/her more the he/she does , it's safer, if you know, you still know


Now, let me tell you the secret about yourself ; The pure and true definition of LOVE from an African woman is a man who's committed and a good provider , if you know, you know

Now, let me tell you a secret about men as a man Our true and real love and loyalty should be judged when we are rich, not when we are broke

My advise if this I cannot come by myself to be the cause of your misfortune because of myself by myself

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Use you head.

To whom big ass is given, brain is expected

Juliuss01:
To be candid, the guy was working before he lost the Job, while he was stil on job, he sends money to my account without asking, buy things n all that at his level, he's just the kind that doesn't mind spending his lasy penny on me, he's just different

pyyxxaro:
The next person has something useful to say

Juliuss01:
Thanks guys, enjoying ur views

JasonScoolari:
You're indeed "25 years SOLD"




You allow your mum and your potential father in law to be messing with your brain? Damn!!!

Ifakiland:
So in other words you're dating two guys abi?
Smh forking hoe....get the fork out of my sight u disgust me....see you feeling fly talking not knowing who to go for?? Leave the jobless guy alone, he ure probably the one hindering his blessings....witch!!!

IamD18:
Lol, many fellows are not being honest with their comments here , I had to laugh reading your writeups and some comments herein.
Love matters in a marriage and money matters also.

But let me tell you a secret about the guy you love; No atom of loyalty and love can be compared with that of a broke boyfriend, they are so loyal and loving possibly because they are broke , if you know, you know

Now let me tell you another secret about the rich boyfriend ; It's important for a man or woman to marry a partner who loves him/her more than he/she does , it's safer, if you know, you still know


Now, let me tell you the secret about yourself ; The pure and true definition of LOVE from an African woman is a man who's committed and a good provider , if you know, you know

Now, let me tell you a secret about men as a man Our true and real love and loyalty should be judged when we are rich, not when we are broke

My advise if this I cannot come by myself to be the cause of your misfortune because of myself by myself

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Note: I did not advise you to marry who you'v got no feelings for.
I did not advise you to leave the man you love.
I did not advise you to miss the opportunity of a committed man.

I only revealed some secret facts for you to decide from.

Use your head.

To whom big ass is given, brain is expected

mrphysics:


Bros, life is good.

Let's be real, everyday, ladies get countless approaches/request/proposal etc from guys. Do you expect her to put her egg in one basket?

Even you bro, do you call only one girl? . She asked for advice, it's either you give or you leave. Your comment is uncalled for.

mzangy:

You've said it all. A man is only loyal when he's broke.