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I'm In Desperate Need Of A.... by SyberKate(f): 10:57am On Nov 09, 2018 |
Hello good people of Nairaland So there's this guy that has been on my case for some months now, we friends and all but nothing serious has started. Now I lost my Android phone and have been using a Nokia touch light phone for some weeks now and this guy has complained that he misses me on Whatsapp and wants to give me an old Android phone of his. Now for someone I'm not currently dating is this right to collect such a phone, or should I decline. I'm suspecting if I take it he may start making demands for s3xx. and all that So what do you think... 1 Like |
Re: I'm In Desperate Need Of A.... by JasonScoolari: 11:01am On Nov 09, 2018 |
Just follow your heart. But if you accept to collect the phone and he ask for sex and you refuse, Thunder will romance all part of your body. 4 Likes |
Re: I'm In Desperate Need Of A.... by highqueen(f): 11:06am On Nov 09, 2018 |
If he demands for sex and you aren't ready for it, break up with him naw. But for now, take the phone he is gifting you with. |
Re: I'm In Desperate Need Of A.... by donbachi(m): 11:09am On Nov 09, 2018 |
The guy have been in your case for some months now...meaning,you are weighing your options...if you are not ready to give him a chance,don't collect...but,if you will allow him collect that thing,you can collect the phone....to her much is given,much is expected. |
Re: I'm In Desperate Need Of A.... by Angelparadise: 11:13am On Nov 09, 2018 |
It takes a bold and smart lady to express her personal issue in public but some are better open to close friends or relations. My opinion since you ask ; Most guys don't give things with value for free even when they claim it for free publicly. if you have other convenient means of getting a phone use it . Guys believe that a gift must be appreciated through kind or any means . If you are not willing to extend the friendship beyond the present state depending on when he seen right because accepting phone or gifts from him means to him that you are willing to accept any advances he makes . If you must accept . ask him you hope no present or future conditions attach to the phone . The decision is all yours Note ; Very few guys gift unconditionally. 1 Like |
Re: I'm In Desperate Need Of A.... by Nobody: 11:15am On Nov 09, 2018 |
SyberKate:my dear don't ever take the phone. If you do he will categories you as normal Nigerian ladies. If you want him to love you more, reject it. He will surely request for sex if you do . 1 Like |
Re: I'm In Desperate Need Of A.... by forreelinc(m): 11:21am On Nov 09, 2018 |
SyberKate:ask your daddy |
Re: I'm In Desperate Need Of A.... by Liliyann(f): 11:55am On Nov 09, 2018 |
That guy probably doesn't love you and just wants sex!!! Why will he wait till he started missing you before giving you a phone!!! Not even a new phone but old, second hand one!! Don't collect it coz you will just end up looking cheap to him!!! Tell him to get you an expensive new phone!!! I wonder why you have to stoop too low for someone that wants to date you to be giving you old phone!! You better package yourself and chase for the good things in life and stop settling for less!! |
Re: I'm In Desperate Need Of A.... by CaZmir: 12:04pm On Nov 09, 2018 |
Good deeds are paid back with' goodies'. Make sure it's not a Greek gift.
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Re: I'm In Desperate Need Of A.... by Nobody: 12:11pm On Nov 09, 2018 |
Whether to accept the gift or not,should be your perogative...but you must envisage that nothing goes for nothing |
Re: I'm In Desperate Need Of A.... by marvinsync(m): 12:15pm On Nov 09, 2018 |
SyberKate: collect the phone , is it not a gift? as long as u did not beg him for it |
Re: I'm In Desperate Need Of A.... by marvinsync(m): 12:17pm On Nov 09, 2018 |
SyberKate: collect the phone , is it not a gift? as long as u did not beg him for it because if u did and he then have u then it's like a "conditional" gift , meaning he agreed to ur request because u are his girlfriend so in turn u should agree to his request cause he is ur boyfriend |
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