Laeroy:


Thank u bro..... Exactly what I will... I was just thinking what if I give my child this and I give her child same with mine, a time will come I can't continue the same gestures, how will it feel... Do I start this and continue enduring given my limited income, will I keep doing everything I do for my kid to her kid too... My dear, I looked at it and told myself



PEACE DON'T DECEIVE YOURSELF U CAN'T DO IT 100%....SHE is not my child...

Laeroy:
@mrAMG2, thanks for the advice my brother. THAT'S THE DILEMMA I'M IN BROTHER, DO I DO IT SOMETIMES AND NOT ALWAYS, WHAT HAPPENS TO THE TIMES I DON'T DO IT, WONT I BE PERCEIVED AS DECEPTIVE FROM INCEPTION

iomoge2:
no
You won’t be perceived as deceptive

If it’s jollof rice you want to give your child adding a few spoons for the other child won’t hurt
If it’s snacks as you say give them both
When it finishes
They will know it’s finished

But like Zaynie said up there
What you need is a source of income
Your own income
No one says the man must have more
You can have more if you want to
I for one isn’t scared of getting my hands dirty

Women are out there making money
You are learned
You have a smart phone
There are businesses you can do with Zero capital
Drop shipping is one
You can do errands n make money
You can add housecleaning to your dry cleaning business and
Don’t be comfortable with your 30k package
Start a side hustle and with time you won’t need the package again

Let your hubby do what he knows how to do
You are smart and can do yours too

Go on instagram and follow influencers
Laura ikeji posted some business you can start with twenty thousand not to long ago
Someone else posted zero naira biz
Just find your passion

You sre not wicked as you stated
You sre just on one tight budget
Get out of your comfort zone

Zaynie has a business class coming up soon. Check her dairy she wrote about it
I advise you join in snd you will learn so much
What ever the amount for the class; I am willing to pay for you.
Just show interest
Contact her. She knows how to collect her money from me
There is so much money to be made out there


Hugs

avast01:
It takes great foresight not to start what you can't finish.
It seems your resources are limited and entirely budgeted for your child. Best focus them on your child then.
From time to time, you can try to extend such kindness to the other child, as much as you can.

kaydeefilms:
Nairalanders I need help, my brother in-law is getting married and I was levied to pay a certain amount as support for his wedding because he had spent most of his funds for planning and the bride’s family had various outrageous demands he had to meet. The issues is I have several commitments like, I have my parents and siblings to take care of, coupled with the fact that my son will be starting school this month (which I postponed because of low funds) and my wife just graduated from the university(yet to go on NYSC and has no job, I foot all the bills in the house and all her expenses) I am about to tell my in-laws that I don’t have the said amount to give (I was levied #40,000) I want to give them (#10,000). And this will further inconvenience myself and my small nuclear family. What should I do? I need your advices

kaydeefilms:
Nairalanders I need help, my brother in-law is getting married and I was levied to pay a certain amount as support for his wedding because he had spent most of his funds for planning and the bride’s family had various outrageous demands he had to meet. The issues is I have several commitments like, I have my parents and siblings to take care of, coupled with the fact that my son will be starting school this month (which I postponed because of low funds) and my wife just graduated from the university(yet to go on NYSC and has no job, I foot all the bills in the house and all her expenses) I am about to tell my in-laws that I don’t have the said amount to give (I was levied #40,000) I want to give them (#10,000). And this will further inconvenience myself and my small nuclear family. What should I do? I need your advices

Laeroy:
UPDATE.

Everything has normalized now!, Thanks to my sister in law, Feeding fee is entering steady now, and I can now take care of other things...

I NEED AN ADVICE (This is what is how feel inside, I've tried battling it for too long, but I need help, I've tried to force myself but maybe I'm just possesed, demonic or something)

It's my sister in law's child, I just don't connect with the girl, I've tried everything I can, but the love I'm supposed to give a child doesn't just flow, I look into her eyes and I always have to remind my self that "she's a child and she knows nothing," and that I just have to like her...

But if u ask me I don't like the girl like I love other children, even before she came to stay with us, there's this thing about her that I don't like..... W a t could be the cause?

Laeroy:
UPDATE.

Everything has normalized now!, Thanks to my sister in law, Feeding fee is entering steady now, and I can now take care of other things...

I NEED AN ADVICE (This is what is how feel inside, I've tried battling it for too long, but I need help, I've tried to force myself but maybe I'm just possesed, demonic or something)

It's my sister in law's child, I just don't connect with the girl, I've tried everything I can, but the love I'm supposed to give a child doesn't just flow, I look into her eyes and I always have to remind my self that "she's a child and she knows nothing," and that I just have to like her...

But if u ask me I don't like the girl like I love other children, even before she came to stay with us, there's this thing about her that I don't like..... W a t could be the cause?

Gloriagee:
U don't have to like her but u def should do ur best to be nice to her. N FWIW I don't think ure possessed or any similar stuff like that. One saying I like is People do better when they know better and she's still at the formative stage. Please help her know better without suffocating her with sermons but by doing better... E go betta

Laeroy:


No hard feelings....but I don't like where she's coming from, the finances, and everything attached....
But I always have to exert self control and remind myself that she was a victim of circumstance, she didn't ask to be in the present state that she is...et al

Swinger60:


Madam Wife.., you are just a wicked person. Thats my opinion..!!

Bunny19:
I thought u needed advice that's why u came here to type this epistle. Since no one can change ur mind, why don't u just keep being d wicked person that u are. After all its ur life and dat of ur family.

Laeroy:

My name is Peace, I'm married with 2 kids, my marriage is 4 years plus, I'm married to a man from a poverty stricken background