In a case where the father of the lady is not responsible for the affairs of her since childhood due to the fact that her father married up to 6 women after seperation from her mother. Besides Her father is always against any man she brings as husband and she is over 30 years and she is ready to settle down before the year runs out. Her mother had a prophecy that whenever she want to marry, her father must not hear about it and must be low key because of another battles from his other wives. The question is that" how do price bride's price be paid now? Because husband to be want to pay it before taking his wife with him