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8 Legit Dating Tips Recommended For Today's Singles. by Yawabase: 9:34pm On Sep 12, 2019
Wait two days before calling them back, don’t talk about past relationships, always pay on the first date…these are some tried and true dating rules that go back decades. But with so much changing so fast, a lot of the old rules just don’t apply anymore. While it’s still nice to pick someone up or take the time to make a reservation at a nice restaurant, it’s not really necessary anymore. So what is?

Here are eight of the new dating rules for singles looking for love:

1. Let them know you’re interested.

Playing hard to get might be endearing to some, but with so many people out there and more opportunities for the person you’re into to move onto someone new it can backfire in a big way. But who has time for games these days? It can make you look difficult and really doesn’t serve any useful purpose, says Justin Lavelle, who writes extensively about relationships and online dating. “If you like the person let them know. If you don’t, make it clear. Whether online or in-person, responses aimed solely for playing hard to get will likely ruin any chances of a good thing.” There’s no point stringing someone along, either.

2. Don’t be afraid to be honest.

Whether it’s online or in person, there’s no need to pretend to be someone you’re not. If they suggest going to a baseball game, and you’d rather do anything but…be honest and suggest something else. You’ll find out if there’s real chemistry by being who you are. You wouldn’t want to fall for someone who thinks you’re someone you’re not, would you?

3. Have sex whenever you’re ready.

That can be after the first date or it can be after the 50th. The old rule of having sex on the 3rd date needs to be thrown out the window. “In the same vein as ‘be yourself’ just do what feels right for you. Same with calling. If you want to call 10 minutes after a great date… call! Basically, don’t set yourself up for games with timeframes and deadlines that somebody told you years ago. Go with the flow and do what feels right,” says Lavelle.

4. Don’t expect exclusivity right away.



With online dating being one of the most popular forms of meeting people these days, it also means that a lot of people have a lot of choices—hundreds of matches, messages, text buddies, and even exes just a few clicks away, explains David Bennett, a certified counselor and dating expert. “This means many people are dating around, in complicated relationships, or at least sorting through the many options.
Some will eventually choose one person to commit to, while others may not commit until they’ve had their fill.”

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Re: 8 Legit Dating Tips Recommended For Today's Singles. by kernniejay(m): 9:38pm On Sep 12, 2019
You could gave made a lot of sense but you spoilt it with the third point. Sex is only permitted after marriage, any sex prior to marriage is simply prostitution.

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