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Could You Be Friends With Your Woman If You Were Not Dating Her ????? by Ilekokonit: 11:31pm On Jan 29, 2020
Could you be friends with your woman if you were not dating her ??

You just started dating this woman and sooner or later you start seeing her nasty side that she hid from you to suck you into the relationship.

Do you continue in this 419 love trap with the psychopath just to get free constant sex or do you cut your losses and dump her before the deceptive mad witch terminates your destiny which is where this mismatch will most likely end

I for one do not like deceptive women or women with psychopathic tendencies and if I would not have chosen a woman as a friend, I can NOT date her.

Moral of the story is for men :-

Not to be blinded by beauty, oratory or the allure of quick sex.

Don't invite her to your place or go to her place early during dating and obviously don't sleep over at hers or let her sleep at yours in a hurry as this will lead to early sex BEFORE you realise that she is a psychopathic liar and to break off will be a problem as you may want to keep having more of the stress free sex which is really a trap.

Its better in the early part of dating to meet in a public place where you can study her properly and listen carefully to her utterances on repeated dates and once you see or hear something you are not comfortable with or can not live with then its easier to say asta lavista - bye bye - with no party being committed yet especially if she displays characters / utters words or divulges part of her beliefs / past history you feel are not traits you can live with or want a friend to have.

For example, I will not be friends with a violent person and so if on the first few fact finding dates, I find out the woman loves violence or violent / loud films / music, I already know we can never be compatible and so there is no point taking her to my house or bothering to go to her house.

Likewise, I can never date a woman who is addicted to social media or constantly plays games on her phone or talks for too long on the phone or is greedy of gain or materialistic or asks me if I have a car on a first date.

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Re: Could You Be Friends With Your Woman If You Were Not Dating Her ????? by anthonyuncle(m): 12:37am On Jan 30, 2020
are u asking a question or exhibiting ur poor writing skills
Re: Could You Be Friends With Your Woman If You Were Not Dating Her ????? by healthserve(m): 12:44am On Jan 30, 2020
Only men with prudence would value this precious truths. Even the Bible says a prudent man forsees danger and hides for his life

Allow me sya once you notice the slightest sign of psycopath if tendency in any woman flee. Mind you any woman that isn't good enough has a psychopath in her somewhere hiding ... Probe and screen them. Do not drop your guards too early not give wya to casual sex. Women with psycopath tendencies are different to rid off.

Stay woke guys

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Re: Could You Be Friends With Your Woman If You Were Not Dating Her ????? by Ilekokonit: 3:14am On Jan 30, 2020
healthserve:
Allow me say once you notice the slightest sign of psycopathic tendency in any woman flee. Mind you any woman that isn't good enough has a psychopath in her somewhere hiding ... Probe and screen them. Do not drop your guards too early nor give way to casual sex. Women with psycopath tendencies are different to rid off.
Stay woke guys

Men who value their overall long term well being will take on board the above points.

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