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It seems you don't see anything wrong with your friendship with that yr friend. If you really value ur marriage, end that friendship. And to think that you've been married for 11 years??Smh

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Ladies just love breaking her own happy home, Its a pity

How.. Aunty focus on your marriage o, and be submissive to your husband o! It's well.

The earlier u repent the better 4u.
U've chosen d path of destruction.... Repent or u face d consequences.

There is a saying that "U don't know what u have until u loose it'.

Change your ways.

Please woman, carry your wahala and leave us alone. We don't have time for this rubbish.

Again, before you kill that innocent man trying to protect his family, please go and start living with your so called friend. It's better than death sentence stirring you in the eye.

You have been warned by the forces propelling you.

I’ll advise you copy your childhood friend’s number, call him probably with another phone, arrange meeting him maybe in a nice hotel and bleep each other till satisfaction. Why will your husband stop you from receiving external dick and restrict you from moving from friendship to f^ckmate with your childhood friend. SMH. Just look at yourself. You are in your husband’s Home and there you still continued chatting up your so called male friend which he already warned you to cut tie with. Now what advice do you need? Am sure you are very cheap and I blame the man for taking someone like you serious. He should have just take off his eyes and watch you destroy your home while fooling yourself calling your boyfriend childhood friend. GTFOH

something is seriously wrong with this woman ,after 11years in marriage, you have refused to borrow some sense. Be submissive and trash whatever you have with that fool.

I'm 40% sure you have bleeped this dude..

I'm 90% sure you will fvcked this dude if you have not already..

And I'm 99.99% sure your husband will not forgive you cause he seems to have balls according to your write up.

Either way you are a loser

This is the very attribute that makes men divorce or leave the family and home.
Mine just called me now that her friend just bouhgt a new red trouser . Apparently me that just paid school fees for 4kids ,gave her 70,000 for her shop and told her to help me beg a landonwer to reduce the price of land i want to buy has not being able to buy a red trouser for her

You are. Very wrong woman.

Remember you are married. If this said guy loved you that much, why didn't he marry you?

You making your marriage insecure yourself. Don't blame anyone should you fail.

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PrincessJoyy:
Good day Nairalanders, pls I need your urgent advice on my present predicament. It is going to be a long read so pls be patient with me.
Been married for 11 years now and it was love at the beginning. My husband has been loving and caring but after some years the romance began to dwindle and the love I had for my husband began to drop. I complained to him but he came up with the excuses that he had so much in mind especially catering for the family. It continued that way till my love tank for him became empty so to speak. December last year something happened, my husband came to me in the night asking for my forgiveness for not showing me the much desired attention and care that I deserved that we should let the past slide to begin afresh, then we started dating again, taking me out and the joy and happiness that once eluded me was restored. He however, kept tabs on my conversation and chats with a childhood male friend without my knowledge and what he deduced is we still have feelings for each other and our chats was full of regrets for not marrying each other and we called each other first love. He confronted me with his findings which I initially denied till he brought facts. I never had intimacy with this said guy which my husband knows being that my husband is the one that deflowered me. We ironed it out and settled the issue. My husband expected me to end whatever it was with the guy though he didn't say so directly. My chats and calls with this guy continued without my husbands knowledge, until last night when my husband asked me what I have with this guy, I told him nothing. He said I should choose between him and the guy. I should severe/cut all ties with this guy if I choose to be with him, so I asked why, he said no arguments that I should do what he asked me to do. After much talk, I discovered he saw my chats with the guy (the one I forgot to delete). I got angry at him for monitoring me and told him in annoyance to take his phone (he bought it for me) and give me the sim, which he quietly did but refused to give me the sims. I dragged with him but he overpowered me, I also tried to seize his phone but failed he even threatened to vacate the house for me at that ungodly hour if I continue with my madness. After a while, I apologized to him, he accepted the apology but refused to give me the phone. I am using my laptop to send this. How do I handle the situation for peace to reign. I don't know what he feels about me now. Sorry for the long write up. NB I told him in annoyance that he is monitoring my chats because he bought the phone for me that I'll buy mine and he said not in his house that I shouldn't dare

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You deserve what you are getting ma.

How can some people use their hands to bring trouble to themselves?

From what you wrote up there. You are 100% wrong in all aspect.

This is a man that is committed to you and your family. For the upkeep of the family and all that.


Seriously, you cannot serve two masters at a time. I am sure that if we all tell you to leave that guy for peace to reign in your home, there are chances that you will listen to us. But here, your husband is telling you to, he is being threatened by another man taking his wife’s attention. But you are disobeying him.


Young lady, if reverse was the case, what would you have done? If it was your husband doing all that you have done, what would you say or do?

What is good for the goose is also good for the gander.

Use your tongue and count your teeth.

If you value your marriage, you do not have to give trim to a third party.

By the way, you sound like a trouble maker.
I do not know why good people end up with bad ones. I pity your husband.
Arrange your home.
That is all I will say.

Seriously, you are a mumu somebody

Madam sorry but your man is just my type, cut all things you have with the so-called home breaker, Run away from him and save your home

just be calm or you can also use his close friend to beg him ... just continue teasing him that he is over acting that he should calm down nothing going on btw u guys

what do you want us to tell you now? respect your husband, respect your home and secure it.

It's obvious you don't respect/love this man anymore and still have feelings for this your friend.

Imagine if it was the other way, will you be secure after your husband has hidden this kind of thing from you and you discover yourself?

Please destroy the marriage make another woman wet need am follow up biko. The rate of single women is too much these days

Na dis kind useless wife dey make marriage taya person. How can you value an outsider than your husband? Are you even thinking about your marriage at all

Madam would you be comfortable if tables were turned?

Please cut all Ties and move on except you want to throw the 11yrs away

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As a married woman, one should reduce contact with the opposite sex, and reduce frequent chatting with male friends online, some may not mean any harm but the husband won't take it lightly.

@ Op, you shouldn't have brought your issue here as most nairalanders are frustrated, bitter and sick. And seeking for an Avenue to let out their frustration.

As a married woman, you should reduce the calls and the chats.

The heart of a woman is Hoefully wicked

PrincessJoyy:
Good day Nairalanders, pls I need your urgent advice on my present predicament. It is going to be a long read so pls be patient with me.
Been married for 11 years now and it was love at the beginning. My husband has been loving and caring but after some years the romance began to dwindle and the love I had for my husband began to drop. I complained to him but he came up with the excuses that he had so much in mind especially catering for the family. It continued that way till my love tank for him became empty so to speak. December last year something happened, my husband came to me in the night asking for my forgiveness for not showing me the much desired attention and care that I deserved that we should let the past slide to begin afresh, then we started dating again, taking me out and the joy and happiness that once eluded me was restored. He however, kept tabs on my conversation and chats with a childhood male friend without my knowledge and what he deduced is we still have feelings for each other and our chats was full of regrets for not marrying each other and we called each other first love. He confronted me with his findings which I initially denied till he brought facts. I never had intimacy with this said guy which my husband knows being that my husband is the one that deflowered me. We ironed it out and settled the issue. My husband expected me to end whatever it was with the guy though he didn't say so directly. My chats and calls with this guy continued without my husbands knowledge, until last night when my husband asked me what I have with this guy, I told him nothing. He said I should choose between him and the guy. I should severe/cut all ties with this guy if I choose to be with him, so I asked why, he said no arguments that I should do what he asked me to do. After much talk, I discovered he saw my chats with the guy (the one I forgot to delete). I got angry at him for monitoring me and told him in annoyance to take his phone (he bought it for me) and give me the sim, which he quietly did but refused to give me the sims. I dragged with him but he overpowered me, I also tried to seize his phone but failed he even threatened to vacate the house for me at that ungodly hour if I continue with my madness. After a while, I apologized to him, he accepted the apology but refused to give me the phone. I am using my laptop to send this. How do I handle the situation for peace to reign. I don't know what he feels about me now. Sorry for the long write up. NB I told him in annoyance that he is monitoring my chats because he bought the phone for me that I'll buy mine and he said not in his house that I shouldn't dare

useless hoe!

See as ladies dey avoid this thread like plague

chicogentil:
See as ladies dey avoid this thread like plague

are we supposed to come and cry with her?

We the village people are on her matter not to know that she will by herself push herself out of her matrimonial home.





From the secretary

Stupid woman

I blame your husband for allowing you do nonsense in the first place

Give a woman a mile and she'll take 10miles...

Divorce your husband jare & follow your ex lover. Enjoy your life while you're young.

Foolish woman ���� �